catz - perhaps the money from the extra shift could go to dd to replace a anything that was broken/lost?
Now that you are safely home, and house is intact, I can tell a tale I have of teen parties. When I was at Uni my friend had a younger brother (16ish) and his parents went away. This was pre mobile phones. My friend (let's call him Dave) got a call from a friend at home to say there was a rumour of a party. His idiot brother had told everyone that his parents were away and the party was at his.
Dave phoned, no reply, so he drove home, got there about 11pm, the house was heaving, hundreds of kids, all spilling out of the door, they were shoulder to shoulder packed in all through the house, mostly drunk. Brother hadn't moved anything out of the way, so normal suburban house swamped by drunk teens. Dave went in, found people upstairs rummaging in mums knicker drawer, trashing little sisters toys, and in the process of walking off with Dave's hi-fi equipment. Dave tried to stop the party and couldn't so called the police.
Police cleared the house, it was trashed, cigarette burns all over carpets and sofas, basin hanging off the wall in the downstairs loo, loads of stuff broken, house covered in spilled beer, garden trashed.
Once house was cleared and secured, Dave read brother the riot act and then went back to uni, telling him he had 1 week before mum comes back to do his best to clean up.
One week later, parents due home Saturday, Dave goes up on Friday and discovers that brother has not done one single thing to try and clean up, not even picked up the empty cans.
His poor parents.