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To say we're having a completely veggie Christmas meal this year?

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WhizzpopWhizzBang · 08/11/2014 22:09

DH is vegetarian, me and two kids aren't but enjoy veggie alternatives too.
Every year, DH cooks the entire Christmas dinner (three courses) and does a vegetarian menu.
Something like
starter - soup
main course - Quorn or nut roast and all the Christmas trimmings (including vegetarian pigs in blankets)
dessert - if we can fit in is mince pies or Christmas pudding.

MIL comes for Christmas dinner. She likes her turkey so brings that. Absolutely fine with that, as we like to eat it too.
Only thing is that she brings over it and starts sticking the turkey in the oven to warm up, which obviously gets in the way of DH cooking and messes up times and stuff.
Are we being unreasonable if we say this year "we're only cooking vegetarian stuff in the kitchen this Christmas, if you want turkey do it at your house and bring it over but it's not getting cooked again when you get here?"
As I know she'll think we are Smile

OP posts:
TheRealAmandaClarke · 09/11/2014 17:47
Grin Yes.
aurynne · 09/11/2014 20:15

FunkyBoldRibena --> "Sausages do not look like meat. They are ground up bits of meat and other things, made into sausage shapes. Are you saying that people who do not eat meat are not allowed to roll out food in a sausage shape? Really?"

I see you have purposely avoided discussing the "veggie bacon"... I am all ears to learn how that is not imitating meat...

spilttheteaagain · 09/11/2014 20:23

Slightly off thread, but I would love someone to share their nut roast recipe, I am on the search for a good one!

ravenAK · 09/11/2014 21:59

aurynne - veggie 'bacon' (aka fakon Grin) comes in long, narrow strips. Tastes a bit like Frazzles.

There's no reason why it couldn't be sold in squares, or discs. It does need to be thin because it's designed to be quickly fried, just to heat it through.

As far as I'm concerned, the main role of meat-like veggie foods is to make life easier when one family member doesn't eat meat, say - it's easy for a meat eating parent to cook (eg) pork chops with mash & vegetables, & just stick a couple of veggie bangers in a separate pan for that one person. Much less faff than when I was a vegetarian teenager in the 80s & had to make up burgers from TVP to cook alongside the family meal.

I cook nice vegetarian food from scratch for my family, & Quorn is seen as a convenience food, to be kept in so that dh can knock up burger, egg, chips & peas type meals for himself & the dc if I'm out. Occasionally I use vegetarian mince in a spag bol; I prefer to use aduki beans &/or lentils but the Frankenmince is quicker!

So, anyway, in answer to your question about why veggie food sometimes 'imitates meat' - basically, it imitates convenience foods & tends to come in familiar shapes/flavours because when people - often teens - decide to stop eating meat, they often start by looking for recognisable substitutions. Also, often the person deciding not to eat meat is not the person who does/pays for the family food shop, or does the cooking.

To reverse the situation, I have two dc who eat meat - I tend to buy things like pork sausages for them, rather than joints of beef - again, because sausages fit easily into the family meal that is already being prepared.

RufusTheReindeer · 09/11/2014 22:35

spilt

The one I used is

Rose Elliot's Mushroom Pate en croute

I have been know to make up the pate bit the night before and just pop it in the pastry in the morning

Might make two small ones for me to have at in laws and when my dad comes down

RufusTheReindeer · 09/11/2014 22:37

Although it feeds 8 so not so small Hmm

And I think you can eat it cold the next day...with chutney...or something

lauranorder50 · 10/11/2014 03:26

LOL and aftershock laughing at, 'late coming turkey'. Did it have a note from it's mother ? !!

MissWing · 10/11/2014 18:53

I get some of this. I hate people faffing in my kitchen. When someone says I'll bring desert and then arrives with inegredients I want to weep.

However, your unwillingness to look at options here (she gives foil package to your DH who factors it in to his arrangements) makes you both sound really inhospitable.

aurynne · 10/11/2014 19:58

ravenAK, thanks for the info. I like the term "fakon" much better :P

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