To think you get "a side" in bed and that's that? There's no changing?

[MrsWinnibago]

DH thinks that you can opt for either side.

Who is being unreasonable?

jennifer www.mumsnet.com/Talk/mumsnet_classics/a1875847-Do-you-dunk-your-penis < penis beaker

I pick whatever side has the bedside cabinet because I wear glasses and like them to be at arm's length. That's my sole condition when it comes to side-choosing - I'm easily pleased.

In our own bed, at home - always the same side.

On holiday, etc - It may vary, but I usually get to choose.

At home, we always have the same side of the bed. I'm always the side nearest the door.
Thinking it about it, even on holiday there's no deviating. The sides stay the same.
No reason, must just be habit I suppose!

Oooo-er! :) I certainly missed the penis beaker thread!!! Sorry I asked - I've never felt the need for one of them! Feel like such a slut :)

We have a big bed and we each chose our own mattress. His is rock hard. Mine lovely and sof. We have one sheet for the whole bed, but each have a single duvet, so no worries about duvet hogging. But he gets really sweaty at night No way am I sleeping on his rock hard stale patch. No swaps allowed here.

When going to a hotel etc there's no fixed rule though I usually choose first. Usually closest to the door, I guess cos of kids, though our youngest is now 6 so?

What is a "penis beaker"?

I know some people put their teeth in a beaker at the bedside, but aren't penises generally fized?

Lugwump check out the thread mentioned a few posts back and all will be revealed

I always have the left side. Once when going to bed very late on the first day of our holiday we chose the "wrong" side and neither of us slept well all night.

lugwump www.mumsnet.com/Talk/mumsnet_classics/a1875847-Do-you-dunk-your-penis
I asked the same thing - I'm not sure I wanted to know!

After sex?

Why I fall asleep of course.

People swap sides when staying away from home? Heavens to Betsy, that would be far too bold and adventurous for me!

Well, weirdly, if I'm alone I can only sleep facing door on far side of bed. But when dh is in (closest to the door) I roll over. I have to keep an eye on door for when the vampires come in

When DH moved in, he just announced which he side was going to be....
How quick did you ltb? Worra liberty.
Sigh, not chuffing PB again.

When I fist met my husband we both had our own houses and slept on the same side of the bed. When we moved in together he refused to give up his side and so I had to get used to sleeping on the other side.
It took me a while to get used to it but now I can't sleep on the other side at all.

We'd fall out of bed if we swapped sides! DH on right, me on left - we might swap if the bed was up against the wall, but that hasn't happened yet! I don't even mix around the pillows between washes!