AIBU in not wanting my guest to use my personal shower?

[TillHammerZeit]

I suspect that I may be,but we'll see.

I'm going to have a guest staying overnight,on her way to another destination.

She informed me that as she doesn't like showers in baths,that she'd like to use my en suite shower. I'm not really happy about this. Perhaps unreasonably so,but it's my space,and I'd prefer her to use the main bathroom to shower. It has a 'real' shower fitted in there. Yes,she has to step over the bath to use it,but that's easy,and she has no mobility problems,or issues that mean it'd be difficult for her. I would of course allow it if that was an issue.

So WIBU to say no?

[Hissy]

bloody hell! well done OP though! that must have been hard!

how long did this all take? i'd tell her mother in no uncertian terms about the daughter she created. tell her to wind her neck in and consider how she and her dd can make up to you for the spectacular rudeness and probable theft.

[BerylStreep]

How did the conversation with your cousin go? Did she admit she had been snooping?

[Hissy]

2rebecca YOU can tell this bloke to ftfo with his 6am knocking. say to him that he has shower facilities where he is, or in any hotel/bnb he wishes to use, but that if he won't be welcome in your home again if he can't appreciate that he's overstepping boundaries here. seriously.

[Hissy]

sorry! I meant that for candycrush

[LuluJakey1]

I would not want her to use my shower. FFS she has a bath and a shower. Offer her the option to hose herself down in the garden if neither of those suit her.

[LuluJakey1]

Sorry, didn't read the last two pages
But perhaps she deserves a hosepipe turned on her. What a cheek!