To think pictures of your cock are probably not the best way to strike up romance

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And wonder why lots of men appear to think it is.

I've been sent 4 photos of cocks in the last 4 days obviously I have given no invitation and haven't asked or suggested people send me pictures like this. And it has been pretty much within the first 2/3 texts after handing over my number intending to arrange a date.

Is this some new practise I'm unaware of?

I don't get it! As a nurse I have washed many knobs, they are not sexy just a body part like a breast.

It's with all the other things you do in a relationship like good conversation/ sense of humour/nice kissing etc that make you feel sexy or want sex. Not a picture of a cock.

Seriously stop using the net for dates if it's full of men like this. Weirdos.

Notnew is that a subtle way of blaming women for mens behaviour. Or have I misunderstood your post.

darkest I am blaming no one, I am merely commenting factually. No one I know has ever received a cock shot. I am astonished at how many people on MN say they have received one when my friend's experiences are the total opposite. My comment about them being attractive is that I would tend to assume that the sort of men who do this are more likely to go after attractive women, so I was more commenting on the men than the women

oh I see... I think they are doing it for shock value tbh. At the chatline office I remember clients phoning and asking to talk to a 70 or 80 year old woman and you could tell that they were asking for that because they were trying to shock

And I don't believe that this only happens to conventionally attractive people.

All sorts of people are victims of crimes like flashing. Its a power thing.

Its just that technology is allowing them to abandon the filthy mac and the accompanying hedge or wall they would hide behind , and use a phone instead.

So is it more acceptable to send one to someone whose conventionally attractive than someone whose not?

My DP sent me an email when we were first dating.

Subject: here's a picture of my massive cock!

I opened it but was already mentally dumping him. The photo was indeed of his huge Cockrell. Turned out he owns loads of chickens!

I loved him straight away for that.

Sorry if I explained it badly Sock. I was bloody appalled to see you got 32 of these "pics" in one month. That's at least one a day

You didn't my lovely I knew what you meant its just some people do believe that you attract the wrong attention by being attractive and that's your own fault if you know what I mean.

It was my friend who got 30 odd so far I'm only up to 8 but I haven't yet been on POF for a month so give it time.

I asked a male friend to look at my profile and hers to see if we had inadvertently used some weird dating code that translates as "please send pictures of your cock" he confirmed we hadn't he even read our messages and said we had said nothing that would indicate we would be impressed by a mass cock besieging

8 is bad enough isn't it.

What makes me laugh is the articles on dating in womens magazines. Even mags like Psychologies try to make out that its something the woman is doing wrong or some sort of signal that women are giving off.

Cant wait to see how they are going to spin and blame the sending of cock pictures on women.

I bet some hack will try it