Is this unreasonable?? IS IT?

[Scarletskies]

Please wise mumsnetters, tell me straight.

DP and I are getting married in three weeks. So as not to drip feed, we have a err tenuous relationship with his DSIS who is very very highly strung and competitive.

DP's parents have a significant (but not massively significant) wedding anniversary a few days after the wedding- we'll actually be on our honeymoon. They haven't planned AFAIK to celebrate so STBH and his DSIS have been emailing about arranging low key family get together the weekend after we get back- great.

She's emailed this weekend and asked him to add a toast to their parents in his speech on our wedding day.

I think this is out of order and in fact it has angered me greatly.

AIBU??

Thanks in advance

Your SIL sounds like a nightmare. My SIL is similar - has so many issues about everyone in her family, accuses everyone of different things, can't let go of the past, plays the victim all the time and of course, is never, EVER wrong about anything... We haven't been in contact with her for 3 years now and it's so much easier.