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AIBU?

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To let myself into upstairs flat?

241 replies

MrsDrRanj · 20/02/2014 12:26

I live in a house converted into flats. I don't know the lady upstairs that well but well enough to have conversations with if we bump into eachother.

The door to her flat is right opposite my door. For the last 2 days I haven't heard her come in or go out, and her keys have been in her door. WIBU to go up and check nobody's dead in there?! Or is that overstepping boundaries?

OP posts:
JaneFonda · 22/02/2014 00:56

Am very Hmm at the people asking for updates.

OP is a regular, and certainly has a life of her own to lead.

Snicci · 22/02/2014 01:07

Blatant place marking Confused

QOD · 22/02/2014 08:23

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LiberalLibertine · 22/02/2014 08:34

Yup, place Mark.

ToootSweet · 22/02/2014 08:54

BakerStreetSaxRift · 22/02/2014 08:54

I too think you should have knocked straight away when you saw the keys.

Hope all its okay

wannabestressfree · 22/02/2014 09:05

Oh nothing.....

DrinkFeckArseGirls · 22/02/2014 09:18

Give it up, Jane. We don't Grin

TheReluctantCountess · 22/02/2014 10:41

And as a regular, the op will know there are a load of people wanting an update.

Fairenuff · 22/02/2014 10:47

OP is around. She was posting yesterday on another thread that she started. She has just abandoned this one, I wouldn't expect an update folks.

TheReluctantCountess · 22/02/2014 10:49

Oh Sad

PavlovtheCat · 22/02/2014 10:50

I love that you all think the OP should update you all as priority! 1. She found something awful, has left her flat to get away from it all, has no internet connection. Is dealing with her RL shit. 2. She spoke to the tenant who had gone out on the piss or something and forgot her keys, all is sorted, she went out and is dealing with RL shit, completely forgot that there are lots of bored nosey women waiting to find out what happened next 3. She is having a laugh with you all, has gone out and is dealing with RL shit.

Whatever is going on. You are t'internet equivalent of curtain twitchers!

Gruntfuttock · 22/02/2014 10:50

Oh really, Fairenuff?

Well, in that case I suggest we track her down on another thread and all glare at her! I may tut as well.

TheReluctantCountess · 22/02/2014 10:52

Or maybe we are concerned about an elderly lady and a mumsnetter who may have put herself in danger.

HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 22/02/2014 10:55

Hot damn

Fairenuff · 22/02/2014 10:56

She was posting in AIBU yesterday, something about bread in a supermarket I think. I only skimmed the thread.

gordyslovesheep · 22/02/2014 10:56

The OP hasn't posted since this thread on the 20th from what I can tell

Maybe something was seriously wrong and she's upset and will come back in her own time...

Gruntfuttock · 22/02/2014 10:56

Why are so many people referring to the neighbour as either old or elderly?
The OP's posts don't mention her age, as far as I can see.

Fairenuff · 22/02/2014 11:01

Oh wait, no she didn't. That thread was 21 Dec, not 21 Feb so she wasn't on mn yesterday under this name at least.

As you were folks. Back to your waiting...

(But I'm not holding my breath)!

TheReluctantCountess · 22/02/2014 11:12

It's a logical assumption, which might not be correct.

MrsDrRanj · 22/02/2014 11:39

Omg so sorry everyone!

Neighbour is fine and definitely not dead!

I went up and nobody was there, she had left her keys tree because her boyfriend was coming over and would be back before her, durrh!

OP posts:
MrsDrRanj · 22/02/2014 11:41

There not tree...

OP posts:
Gruntfuttock · 22/02/2014 11:42

Thank you for updating and I'm pleased that all is well.

Now please go and stand in the corner, facing the wall and think about what you've done.

Thank you. Wink

MrsDrRanj · 22/02/2014 11:44

Yeah I just read back through the whole thread...I didn't mean to make everyone so angry, Christ!

OP posts:
phantomnamechanger · 22/02/2014 11:54

hahaha, better it to be nothing and have us all on tenterhooks than for there to have been something very amiss!

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