Is this creepy ?

[BaffledMuffin]

Hi just had a message on fb from a mum of a child that used to be in DS's class untill she moved schools.

They were in reception together but when they went up to year 1 she moved schools.

I said i would try and stay in contact b4 she left but you know how things go sometimes its just not plausable.

Well anyway back in ocotber this mum messaged me and said that her DD had been bugger her about meeting up with my DS i replyed to that message saying that yeah could meet up at some point just been crazy busy atm and left it at that, then que a string of messages asking weather this day or that day would be ok and i just replyed that yes will let her know when we are free.

Well if im honest I did forget about these messages and with DS busy with other friends and not mentioning this friend I forgot out arranging a meet up

Then last month I got this message and if im honest i got a bit freaked out by it as we are talking about then 5 year olds and thought this was a bit strong and a werid message to send

"hi hai1988 is there a reason you seem to be ignoring me or am i imagining things? if you dont want the kids to meet up again then please let me no so i can explain to DD. she wants to see DS but i dont know what to tell her at the moment. can you please just let me no if meeting ever will be possible.

As I said i thought the message was a bit strange and i know i shouldnt of but i just left it and deleted her of fb as it freaked me out a little.

Then today I get this message : Well i've explained to DD that she can't see him any more. I don't understand it but i'm sure u have ur reasons. She is heart broken but at least she knows.

Am I the only one who thinks she is taking there short and not that close friendship very seriously and should get a grip.

Sorry its so long

I think YABU, but you know that and have apologised!

I expect she could not give a flying fxx about you, but wants her chld to have friends

OP YANBU

I agree with you - I think she was very OTT in her responses! Re 'my dd is heartbroken' - do me a favour! Ridiculous.

Yes you were a bit rude by not responding, but we all do it when we're busy. Maybe something was telling you not to keep the friendship up anway.

X posted massively. That's nice you've apologised, but still think she was far more in the wrong than you.

If we all went round speaking our brains (ie we are all slightly offended or frustrated with others sometimes), it would be like living in a particuarly bolshy episode of EastEnders.

YWBU but you've appologised so now YANBU.

The should have/of thing has nothing to do with dyslexia though the number of people who make the same mistake without being dislexic is astounding , maybe you could try putting it as should've instead?