to find it extraordinary how many women shag multiple men within the space of a couple of weeks?

[AtYourCervix]

I've been dong some intensive reseacrh via Jeremy Kyle and find it amazing how many people shag different people one day to the next.

Is this normal behaviour?

I always assumed most people tend to only do one at a time, with at least a couple of weeks break in between and therefore know who would be the father of their progeny.

Am I hoplesly naiive and old fasioned?

maybe once the DDs have left home and DH has gone off to become a buddhist monk i'll have a post-menopausal sex-fest. i shall continue my intensive research and make plans.

Kyle is one of the Lizard People - ask David Ike

I had a wild time in my 20's many a one night situation

I also had long term relationships

I have never cheated, never got pregnant, never regreted a moment of it - got a good education, got married etc etc

I am fairly moral but I do like sex - sadly I think I went through my quota of men by 31 because I aint had sex for almost 2 years!

Atyourcervix I didn't go to Uni until after I'd met DH... part of the reason was I was stubborn and had a job, the other part was I worried I really would never pass even if I shagged all the tutors, which I probably would have.

I think opportunity is key here! I had lots and lots of opportunity. Its naff all to do with looks, even personality, just opportunity and a trip sometimes.

There's nothing wrong with never having multiple partners, just like there's nothing wrong with having a lot. Its the attitude that goes with it that makes it right/wrong, healthy/unhealthy.

I claim first prize - I've only ever shagged one man and that was my husband. PUT ME ON JEREMY KYLE - I AM OFFICIALLY A WEIRDO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How "old Fashioned " though, at the turn of the century city dwellers were highly promiscuous, until they started to section and put unmarried women in prison for daring to do what men were doing.

That is were this attitude comes from, only those that were economically active could do what they wanted.

i'm thinking more 1700s Birds.

I think people that have kazillions of sexual partners every weekend must be really unfussy.

Where I live I'd be pushed to find 2 or 3 blokes I'd want to boff, let alone 20 or 30!

I imagine their best pulling line to be "Bend over and let me shag yer and I'll share me kebab wiv yer".

It's not the classiest town...

now i'm single (and pre xh moving to another country) i've had more partners than i had pre xh. I was only 17 when i met xh and not very experienced. Now i see how bad our sex life was that i thought was good at the time

i always use protection though and would not dream of having sex without contraception.

im certainly not of the jk persuasion though. I still am struggling to shift that last stone but have all my own teeth and shower and wash my hair each mornign thank you.

but obviously I have wasted my english degree as I don't check for typo's!

I'll tell you the bit that baffles me.
The test cones back that some fugly, nasty, pile of shit is the father and the woman jumps up and down clapping and laughing saying 'ha! I knew you we're. Fuck you '

I mean. Isn't that ultimately bad news.
I would cry.

hmmm.opportunities?

i met a ver attractive young man yesterday. he even introduced himself and shook my hand. but it didn't cross my mind to drag him into the linen cupboard and shag him senseless. i'm doing it all wrong aren't i?

Pag

Probably,the linen cupboard would limit your postions and use of toys ,plus he wouldn't be able to invite a friend along.

I don't watch Jeremy Kyle, but have spent a productive few months watching Maury in the afternoons.

They have regular guests who come on to try and find out who the father of Sha'zikwa is. Some girl on there has had a dozen chaps tested - she slept with them all on the same night.

It is a terrbile programme but strangelt complelling.

You could maybe get a badge atyourcervix.

Like those 'ask me about weight loss' women that hang aroubd the high street trying to sell you herbs that make your arse shrink.

'ask me about random shagging scenarios'

If you don't like them just have a clip board handy and you can pretend it is a survey.

what is wrong with having lots of partners as long as you are practising safe sex and are happy

still celebrated if its a man and i would rather be with someone who had than who had not, you do learn more by gettting around :)

sex is great something that should be enjoyed not something that society, religion or the media needs to dictate what is and what is not ok, we as adults can make those decisions ourselves

Ooh getorf. I told my mum I was naming DD T'Shaundra after a woman checking out 8 possible fathers. It wasn't one of that batch. I always wondered if she found him.

AtYourCervix maybe I should have added 'when single' I don't graps opportunities these days because I'm happily married.

Though I do like Pagwatch's clip board idea.

i also might get the sack.

and put the poor young man off his breakfast.

To be fair though, if you're having sex a few weeks apart with different people and using contraception, when your period doesn't arrive - you won't know exactly when you conceived, will you? and it depends how long it took you to notice that you were pregnant as well.

men do it all the time. no one bats an eyelid has long has use protection, and your not hurting anyone. sometimes i think young women do it because they have lowself esteem. or maybe they just enjoy a good bonk

Aren't midwives supposed to be a little bit more understanding than your average Kyle-watcher? I'm sure there are

Gah- phone.

...are plenty of not-entirely certain pregnant woman who could do without the catsbum mouth at their booking-in.

Didn't your course cover this?

''I've been dong some intensive reseacrh via Jeremy Kyle''

AYC you need to hang around bus stops. That is the place to pull (so I am told)
Were you intending to procreate with bus stop man though I don't think you would be getting a top class contribution to the future gene pool, shall we say (although your genes may dilute his so you never know) I think Jeremy Kyle's guest were probably mostly conceived on the last bus home.