My internet is being crap, so this has taken ages to post. Xposted with loads of other posts.
You don't sound weird at all. You sound perfectly normal. Most people like kissing and cuddling and don't always want it to lead to sex.
I'm struggling between two voices here, my angry/blunt opinion which came out yesterday which is that he is being an entitled prick, seems to think that you "owe" him sex by virtue of being in a relationship, or that you should be available to him sexually at all times, that in this instance he is not seeing you as a person with your own sexual needs and desires (which include the need not to be touched sometimes) but just the fact that you're failing to meet his.
But on the other hand there's the one which is saying look, this is a really common pattern, and it might just be that he hasn't stopped to think about it much rather than knowing it's unfair on you but blundering on anyway. There's quite a common belief that "men need sex to feel loved" and while I think this is complete bollocks, actually, a lot of men have been socialised into thinking this, or that it's the ultimate expression of love and if it's not there then there's something fundamentally wrong.
So putting my analysing hat on for a moment, "needing" sex to feel that they are loved. Really? So he's an adult and he can't possibly think of any other ways that you show your love for each other? Because I think that's pretty unimaginative. I know that it's different, but his family manage to express their love for him, he manages to express his love for his daughter, without sex, and I would hope that he sees your relationship as being about more than just sex.
Secondly, using sex as some kind of barometer for your relationship is a bad idea, first because sex drive in either partner can be affected by all manner of outside influences, illness, stress, hormone changes, etc, which don't necessarily mean the relationship in itself is struggling, but the second thing is that if he is worried that the relationship is struggling, the way to get it back is not to push for more sex. I mean, come on. What kind of magic properties does he think sex has? The thing is with pressure is that 1. He's going to push you away even more and 2. If he carries on in this vein then you'll soon find yourself avoiding even the tiniest bit of affection, a compliment, a cuddle, a peck on the lips, in case he feels you are "leading him on".
If he is respectful in other areas of your relationship, then try talking to him, but fundamentally I think this is a massive red flag, because it says to me that either sex is something you do for him and so you don't matter, or he thinks that if he doesn't push the issue, you will quietly slip into the "habit" of never having sex again, because women don't really like sex anyway - and if he thinks that about you then what does that mean about the sex you've been having all this time? :(