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To be annoyed with this waitress?

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ImaginaryGiraffeIsMyBestFriend · 25/11/2011 15:45

Went into a cafe today with my Sister, 1yo niece and 2 friends. We each ordered a drink and one of my friends was deciding what to eat for lunch before work when a waitress came over and told us we had to take my niece out of the high chair we were using and sit her on my knee and feed her there because another child (who was quite a bit older than my niece) needed the use of the high chair. When I refused she then said that because we'd brought our own food in for my niece we were less of a priority for high chair usage than the other child because they were ordering food for her off the kids menu (all of which was processed, salt laden food as opposed to our home made stuff). When I complained I was told that it was 'against their policy' to allow people to eat food brought in from outside, regardless of age, and that they were making an exception for us as it was. We walked out with all of our drinks completely untouched and went to a cafe across the road, where we had no problems feeding her the food we had brought.

AIBU to think this is a ridiculous rule? We've never had any problems feeding her home made food anywhere else and usually do order off a kids menu for her if the food is suitable (DN is extremely picky and won't eat things like fish fingers or chicken nuggets, which is about all thats available on a kids menu in lots of places).

OP posts:
pigletmania · 26/11/2011 08:43

As she got bigger towards 3 and her apitite increased, I would buy her something off the kids menu, just not as a baby/toddler.

DownbytheRiverside · 26/11/2011 08:46

Why be annoyed at the waitress? She presumably doesn't set the management policies. Complain to the manager about the rules, don't whinge about the employee.

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