to think that partners baby's Mother is getten their baby Christened the weekend were getting Married?

[19111990]

Well me and my partner are getting married in 5 weeks. His baby mum knows this and decided to do the christing the same weekend.

Her problem is the fact he didnt tell him and she had to find out from someone else, so when she found out about this she decided to do the christening the same weekend. She is doing it out of spite in my opion. another problem is me and her dont get along so we dont speak. The reason he never told him himself is because he dont want to speak to her unless it is to do with the baby.

I am on two minds on putting the wedding back! The poeple i have spoke to about it tell me I shouldnt put it back because that will be giving her what she want's. Ijust dont to be making thing's worst between them two and dont want him missing out on the baby's Christening!

Any advice on what i should do about it please?

MindtheGappp - they both fall on the Sunday.

Faithless12 - she wants the baby to have a dress.. the party afterwards ect ect.

I just cant believe this thread is still running.

OK Faithless, I'll help a bit more. As it has been pointed out many, many, many times on the thread, you can get married in a registry office on a Sunday by appointment. Mine does and its in the sticks.

I wouldn't mind the questioning if it hadn't already been done.

Me either to be honest

Well done for coming back
Ignore the bitchy comments and have a lovely day
People are so snobby about young mums on here , it's horrid

I gathered to be honest haha.

My opion about any Mother though it dont matter the age as long as the child is well looked after and has all the love it need's.

I will have a fab day thank you :)

Good Lord. I love MN but I sometimes fall on a thread that makes me ashamed to post on here. What a load of Daily Mail bigoted type comments.

19111990 - good luck and ignore the snobbery on here. We're not all like that.

fannybanjo I will most of the people seem lovely

Love the name by the way it actally made me chuckle :o

thanks and glad you'll stick around as you get great support and advice if you use MN wisely. I did a bit of experimenting today and posted a topic on AIBU rather than on Chat (far friendlier) and it wasn't too bad however the threads can get nasty so I tend to steer clear.

I am still trying to figure out were to find things and topics ect on here haha this was my first time using it when i done this post

You've done well to keep coming back. Now you've had your baptism of fire, welcome to MN, 1911.

just to keep everyone updated.

My OH went down to his child's mum's today. He mentioned the Christening and she said there was no christening she was only doing it for a joke.

Good job i didnt put the wedding back after all aye :o

Btw people, I am aware of a man in his 40's who got remarried without telling his ex. He got his adult son to ask her for a copy of their divorce papers as he wanted a copy for his records

OP, don't move your wedding (though I'm sure we already established that you're not going to :) ) Some ex's are just like this. I have a friend who has been with her partner for 10 years, and his ex still plays games like this. To the extend that she had a baby with a random man on finding out my friend was pregnant!!

Thanks for the update, OP. Hope the wedding planning now runs smoothly and you have a lovely day, hopefully one that you can share with your DSD.

I am just glad that its all sorted. My OH also asked if his DD could come the wedding but she said no. We are just going to get a blessing in a few years so my DSD can be there for that :)

Glad that it's all sorted, 1911. Good idea about the blessing in a few years' time, too.

Hope you have a lovely day.

first time i have been on this since i done this :)

I went along with thw wedding amd it was a fab day.

Congratulations OP :)

Thats great, congratulations

Thanks for the update pleased for you!

Do you know what, I was just thinking about this a couple of days ago and thinking the wedding must have happened by now and how it had gone! Glad you had a good day .

wondering how it had gone...

yer had a really good day, all went to plan. Shame my Husbands daughter wernt there though. We are re-newing our vow's in about 5 years and having a big day because that one was only little and my Step Daughters mum has agree'd to her coming to that.

She is starting to cal, down alot now and being more reasonable with thing's. Looks like things are starting to look up for us :)

Thank you :D