This is a tricky one...advice please.
We have been invited to a number of weddings this summer, however all of them have said no children. When I've check this inc babies. I've asked if we can bring our DD. Must couples have said sorry no, but if it's a problem let us know... Another has said a flat no
I fully understand no children at wedding as you have to feed them etc etc no babies....Yes it's their wedding but..WTF to me this seems unreasonable? Is it?
Our DD hasn't even had her 2 round of jabs yet. And whist I don't wish to miss any of our dear friends weddings, I don't want to leave her for 12 + hours. We don't have any family near-by and any friends who i could leave her (ie. godmother) with will be at the wedding too! And I'm not getting a sitter to look after a baby all day.
DH has said we can split the wedding, I'll go to my friends and he'll look after her and vice versa.
- We are married and I don't want to go to a wedding without my husband.
- We have a newborn baby and I don't want to leave her.
- Everyone loves babies and IMO surely would bring great joy at a wedding
I really don't make to be 'that' person who makes the brides life a pain as planning a wedding is tough. I know I've done it. But should I make a stand and say, I'm sorry but I can't come without my baby??
Dam and blast it's tough, what would you all done / say?
TIA
p.s) none of these couples have children...I'm sure in a few years they will 'get it' so to speak.