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to have wanted very badly to have hit this woman.

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Islandlady · 04/05/2011 18:41

It was my aunts funeral today.

The road where she lived with her DH has limited parking and as there is a school, office buildings and a supermarket, parking is chaotic to say the least.

As we had 5 cars we got the council to suspend parking, we were advised by neighbours to have this from 6 this morning up until 12 noon, this was to stop the office workers parking in the street and the early morning shoppers, we didnt need the spaces after 12 as people were going straight to a hotel for the wake.

We did have problems with people ignoring the signs and trying to park but my two nephews, my BIL and my DH were on sentry duty.

Five minutes before the hearse and cars were due to arrive we heard shouting outside, we kept my Mum (Aunts Sister) and my Aunts DH away from the window and I went outside to see what was happening.

Some selfish nasty COW had tried to park in one of the spaces, she was screaming and shouting that she was only going to be 5 minutes, whilst she was blocking the road and shouting the hearse and cars turned up.

The funeral director tried to reason with her, she then got out of her car walked to the side of the hearse, she had an opened can of coke which she THREW at the hearse, it bounced of the glass side spraying coke all over the glass and dripping down the side.

Then she got back into her car drove of down the road stopped, and blasted rap music at full volume.

The FD was totally shocked and reasoned with her again then threatened to call the police, and after a lot of swearing, the F,C and W words were used
drove of still with music blaring.

We have just got back from the police station, my BIL had taped the whole thing on his phone and we have her car number, and the FD will give a statement.

Hit her, I wanted to rip the face off her escpoecially after the funeral when I was told Aunts DH and my MUM were crying their hearyts out as they could hear the music and the swearing.

Sorry for the Long post

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Islandlady · 04/05/2011 18:43

And sorry for the spelling

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GreenToes · 04/05/2011 18:44

YANBU. What a disgusting way to behave! Hopefully the police will be able to do something about it. And sorry for your loss :(

WereOffToSeeTheWizard · 04/05/2011 18:44

Glad you went to the police and really hope they do something.
Selfish, inconsiderate bag. I can't believe someone would behave like that in those circumstances !

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Tommy · 04/05/2011 18:45

that's awful Sad

KaraStarbuckThrace · 04/05/2011 18:45

OMG that is awful, some people are just so vile and selfish SadAngry

So sorry about your aunt. I hope the police throw the book at her!

GandTiceandaslice · 04/05/2011 18:46

That's absolutly hidious.
Where on earth was her respect?
I don't know toy or your family, but I'd quite like to hit her as well. Blush
Sorry for your loss.

Punkatheart · 04/05/2011 18:47

I am so sorry. I feel ashamed on her behalf. Dreadful behaviour and lousy timing. Glad that you have her numberplate and at least something will be done.

Sorry too to hear about your aunt. These sort of days are difficult enough.

scurryfunge · 04/05/2011 18:47

How dreadful for you and your family. I'm glad you have reported this incident.

FabbyChic · 04/05/2011 18:47

OMG thats disgusting, how disrespectful.

I hope she gets in trouble!

RobF · 04/05/2011 18:47

She was probably going to buy drugs or something.

MrsMoppet · 04/05/2011 18:47

Good grief, what a vile woman. Good for your DH for having the wits to record the whole thing. I'm very sorry about your aunt.

(And no - YANBU)

MissyBrookes · 04/05/2011 18:48

I feel this woman was a cunt. And i don't use that word lightly. Let the police deal with it and hopefuly you will see her around the village again, and you can give her a good beating in the face.

I know i would. And i can hold a grudge for a LONG time. Long long after the police have forgotten about it.

Flisspaps · 04/05/2011 18:49

What an utter cow.

I hope that the rest of the day was peaceful for you and your family x

SauvignonBlanche · 04/05/2011 18:50

I'm sorry you had to see that.

TheMonster · 04/05/2011 18:51

That is atrocious. YANBU at all. I am glad you didn't hit her. What have the police said?

NurseSunshine · 04/05/2011 18:51

So sorry about your aunt.
OMG what an absolutely shocking lack of respect. Swearing at a funeral director??? Hopefully your mum and aunt's DH didn't hear what was going on. I really hope she gets in a lot of trouble for that.

screamingskull · 04/05/2011 18:52

What awful behaviour, how terrible for your mum and aunty's dh Sad.

Really hope the police can do something about it and it makes her think twice (bit too late for you unfortunately). Such a vile creature

so sorry to hear of your loss xx

welliesandpyjamas · 04/05/2011 18:53

What a piece of gutter dirt. Fantastic that you have recorded evidence, though - that's fate at its best!

RunAwayWife · 04/05/2011 18:53

YANBU what a vile disgusting bitch she was.

You are a better person then me cause I would have kicked seven shades of shit out of the bitch

TidyDancer · 04/05/2011 18:54

Oh I'm very sorry for your loss. :(

And I'm also sorry you encountered a nasty selfish bitch of a woman. Some people can be truly vile. What a twat.

frazzle26 · 04/05/2011 18:54

What a cow, how disrespectful. Just thinking of your mum and your aunty's DH crying their eyes out is heartbreaking. I hope she's caught and punished for that. So sorry for your loss.

Salmotrutta · 04/05/2011 18:57

How appalling - I'm sorry this disgraceful behaviour happened at such a time for you when you were probably least up to dealing with it. Angry
(Not that it would be excusable at any time obviously)

I hope she gets a right royal bollocking from the Police and put through the mill (car thoroughly inspected, breathalysed, drug tested etc.) before being done for breach of the peace, criminal damage and anything else they can throw at her.

Utterly vile and ignorant behaviour. Sad

SarahStratton · 04/05/2011 18:59

God I would be sooooooooo tempted to put it on Youtube. I am NOT advocating that. Just that it would be oh so tempting.

What an utter, utter bitch :(

Islandlady · 04/05/2011 19:00

Thank you for all your nice posts, the police were quite shocked when they saw the video, they are waiting for the FD to make a statement (they had another funeral this afternoon) before speaking to the COW but criminal damage to the hearse was mentioned as a possibility

And I am afraid to say both my Mum and Aunts DH did hear the music and swearing my Mum keeps crying and asking why did the COW do it , my Mum is in her 80s she has lost her Sister and had the funeral disrupted.

Sorry I keep crying when I think about it

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