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to have wanted very badly to have hit this woman.

142 replies

Islandlady · 04/05/2011 18:41

It was my aunts funeral today.

The road where she lived with her DH has limited parking and as there is a school, office buildings and a supermarket, parking is chaotic to say the least.

As we had 5 cars we got the council to suspend parking, we were advised by neighbours to have this from 6 this morning up until 12 noon, this was to stop the office workers parking in the street and the early morning shoppers, we didnt need the spaces after 12 as people were going straight to a hotel for the wake.

We did have problems with people ignoring the signs and trying to park but my two nephews, my BIL and my DH were on sentry duty.

Five minutes before the hearse and cars were due to arrive we heard shouting outside, we kept my Mum (Aunts Sister) and my Aunts DH away from the window and I went outside to see what was happening.

Some selfish nasty COW had tried to park in one of the spaces, she was screaming and shouting that she was only going to be 5 minutes, whilst she was blocking the road and shouting the hearse and cars turned up.

The funeral director tried to reason with her, she then got out of her car walked to the side of the hearse, she had an opened can of coke which she THREW at the hearse, it bounced of the glass side spraying coke all over the glass and dripping down the side.

Then she got back into her car drove of down the road stopped, and blasted rap music at full volume.

The FD was totally shocked and reasoned with her again then threatened to call the police, and after a lot of swearing, the F,C and W words were used
drove of still with music blaring.

We have just got back from the police station, my BIL had taped the whole thing on his phone and we have her car number, and the FD will give a statement.

Hit her, I wanted to rip the face off her escpoecially after the funeral when I was told Aunts DH and my MUM were crying their hearyts out as they could hear the music and the swearing.

Sorry for the Long post

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ZZZenAgain · 04/05/2011 19:01

oh for goodness sake, how can people be so horrible? Even if she was really rushed and frantic and under a lot of stress to have no qualms about acting like that towards a grieving family -once she realised it was a funeral is hard to imagine. I am really sorry for you and your family.

DoingTheBestICan · 04/05/2011 19:02

How disgusting of her,i hope she feels utterly ashamed of herself right now.

I hope the police deal with her & make her apologise to your family.

So sorry for your loss.

Salmotrutta · 04/05/2011 19:04

Your poor Mum and Uncle - how awful for them. What should have been a dignified day has been marred by a horrible display like that Sad.

I really hope they throw the book at the little bitch - and I don't use that term lightly either. But she obviously is a little bitch.

RunAwayWife · 04/05/2011 19:04

Oh I would so put it on youtube

scurryfunge · 04/05/2011 19:09

Don't put it on youtube (yet). It may affect any future investigation.

LoveLeonardCohen · 04/05/2011 19:12

Utterly unbelievable, disgusting behaviour. Please keep us updated, I wamt to hear that she got her comeuppance.

Sirzy · 04/05/2011 19:12

Well done for not hitting her, I'm not sure I could show so much restraint.

What a horrid woman :(

herbietea · 04/05/2011 19:25

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WorzselMaamage · 04/05/2011 19:30

Well done for not walloping the vile excuse for a human being.

(I'd put it on YouTube too.)

anotheracademic · 04/05/2011 19:31

Im flabbergasted by this. How horrible Shock

wonka · 04/05/2011 19:34

Disgusting, people really astound me sometime!

Groovee · 04/05/2011 19:37

That's just awful, I'm stunned that anyone thinks that this is reasonable behaviour being told not to park somewhere. I hope she gets the book flung at her and is suitably ashamed of herself.

DontGoCurly · 04/05/2011 19:37

Sorry for your loss IslandLady.

That woman is disgraceful and you should press charges. Do not let her away with it.

What a horrible, horrible experience for you all.

zukiecat · 04/05/2011 19:37

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bustersmummy · 04/05/2011 19:37

She is a fucking cow of the first order.

She should be named and shamed and I really hope the police throw the bloody book at her.

Can you put it on youtube if it's going to be sub judice?

Sorry for your mum and aunts DH as well Sad

MissBetsyTrotwood · 04/05/2011 19:38

With such extreme antisocial behaviour she's probably known to them already. With luck this will be the final piece in a jigsaw of vile behaviour that gets her put away.

Someone's probably said this already but don't put it on Youtube yet as it might influence any further investigation/prosecution. Your revenge will be best served cold.

Anyhow, enough of the measured stuff. What a total fucking ignorant selfish bitch who deserves all that's coming to her. I'm so sorry this has happened to your family. Good luck with carrying out the punishment this sub human deserves.

Vicky2011 · 04/05/2011 19:41

Yes wait for the criminal stuff to play out and then put it on Youtube!

AgentZigzag · 04/05/2011 19:42

Shock what disgusting, disrespectful behaviour!

And if the swearing and loud music wasn't enough, the fact she threw a coke can at the hearse leaves me speechless.

I really am sorry your family had to deal with this on top of the funeral.

I hope she gets what's coming to her.

cees · 04/05/2011 19:44

YANBU, that woman needs a good kick up the arse, nasty cow.
I'm so sorry for your loss.

LoveBeingAbleToNamechange · 04/05/2011 19:45

Omg I can't believe that someone would do that, shocked is mot the word Shock

GastonTheLadybird · 04/05/2011 19:47

What an absolutely vile specimen of humanity. I'm so sorry you had to deal with such a nasty cunt cow today.

This is one for the karma gods to take care of me thinks.

spiderlight · 04/05/2011 19:56

There are just no words for a person like that....absoolutely disgusting behaviour. So sorry your family had to be subject to it :(

BreastmilkDoesAFabLatte · 04/05/2011 19:56

ShockShockShock

Great respect to you for neither whacking her nor posting the footage on YouTube.

I'm so sorry about your aunt.

huffythethreadslayer · 04/05/2011 19:59

Some people don't deserve to be classed as human, their behaviours are so intolerably bad. I am so sorry for your loss and even more sorry that you and your family had to put up that kind of shite on such an awful, stressful day.

At times like this I wish Karma was a bit more definite and a bit more immediate.

browneyesblue · 04/05/2011 19:59

Words fail me!

I'm so sorry that you and your family have had to go through all of this :(