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AIBU?

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to have wanted very badly to have hit this woman.

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Islandlady · 04/05/2011 18:41

It was my aunts funeral today.

The road where she lived with her DH has limited parking and as there is a school, office buildings and a supermarket, parking is chaotic to say the least.

As we had 5 cars we got the council to suspend parking, we were advised by neighbours to have this from 6 this morning up until 12 noon, this was to stop the office workers parking in the street and the early morning shoppers, we didnt need the spaces after 12 as people were going straight to a hotel for the wake.

We did have problems with people ignoring the signs and trying to park but my two nephews, my BIL and my DH were on sentry duty.

Five minutes before the hearse and cars were due to arrive we heard shouting outside, we kept my Mum (Aunts Sister) and my Aunts DH away from the window and I went outside to see what was happening.

Some selfish nasty COW had tried to park in one of the spaces, she was screaming and shouting that she was only going to be 5 minutes, whilst she was blocking the road and shouting the hearse and cars turned up.

The funeral director tried to reason with her, she then got out of her car walked to the side of the hearse, she had an opened can of coke which she THREW at the hearse, it bounced of the glass side spraying coke all over the glass and dripping down the side.

Then she got back into her car drove of down the road stopped, and blasted rap music at full volume.

The FD was totally shocked and reasoned with her again then threatened to call the police, and after a lot of swearing, the F,C and W words were used
drove of still with music blaring.

We have just got back from the police station, my BIL had taped the whole thing on his phone and we have her car number, and the FD will give a statement.

Hit her, I wanted to rip the face off her escpoecially after the funeral when I was told Aunts DH and my MUM were crying their hearyts out as they could hear the music and the swearing.

Sorry for the Long post

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feggyart · 04/05/2011 20:00

totally disgusting

Of course YANBU

Sorry for your loss.

TurkeyBurgerThing · 04/05/2011 20:03

That's just absolutely terrible! What a selfish horrible bitch. I bet the police will charge her with something. How in the world you never managed to punch the bastard's lights out I'll never know.

Sorry for your loss. I hope your dear old mum isn't left too traumatised by this.

hairfullofsnakes · 04/05/2011 20:03

I'm so sorry you all had to deal with that. What a complete twat that woman must be. Please let us know that the police did something.

I too agree with the u tube idea! Show and shame her!

BrokenBananaTantrum · 04/05/2011 20:09

What an horrendous woman. I'm sorry you had to go through this.:(

Serenitysutton · 04/05/2011 20:13

God what a cunt.

whomovedmychocolate · 04/05/2011 20:16

That's awful :(

HecateQueenOfTheNight · 04/05/2011 20:17

what a bitch.

and yes, when the police are done with her, I'd be tempted to upload her disgusting display to youtube as well. It's probably not sensible but you can't help feeling she deserves it.

Sadly, some people just don't give a shit about anyone but themselves. she's clearly one of them.

chocolatehobnobs · 04/05/2011 20:17

OMG what a bitch

Georgimama · 04/05/2011 20:17

If I ever saw her car parked up, I have to say the urge to slash her tyres would be too strong to resist in your shoes.

FabbyChic · 04/05/2011 20:20

If I happen to drive past a funeral, as a sign of respect I always turn my stereo off.

HRHTheDuchessofCambridge · 04/05/2011 20:24

Unbelievable! please don't put it on You Tube just yet until the police have finished their stuff - you may prejudice your case.
I am so sorry this happened - your poor mum

NeverNude · 04/05/2011 20:28

Man that is awful

Well done on not pelting her one.

mymummyisasquarehead · 04/05/2011 20:40

Nope, not at all.

CoffeeDodger · 04/05/2011 20:48

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marmaladetwatkins · 04/05/2011 21:11

What the FUCK?

I opened this thread all ready to say YABU but I would have done more than hit her. They'd have needed another hearse for her. Absolutely disgraceful behaviour.

YANBU.

MadamDeathstare · 04/05/2011 21:15

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Flounder · 04/05/2011 21:18

Sorry to hear about your Aunt.

This is absolutely shocking- she is scum.

Wait to hear what the police say, then for the widest possible outraged audience, I would You Tube it and also send it to the Daily Mail.

compo · 04/05/2011 21:23

Yes she'll be named and shamed like cat bin woman

so sorry for your loss xxx

jimswifein1964 · 04/05/2011 21:28

That is the most bizarre example of horrible behaviour that I've ever heard of. she surely must be a screw loose or be under some terrible pressure herself? Although, nasty people do just exist and think its acceptable Sad

CurrySpice · 04/05/2011 21:32

Oh my goodness Shock

I am shocked t the core and so sorry that this person caused extra distress on an already sad day :(

TheBolter · 04/05/2011 21:35

Sorry you had to have your lives contaminated by the bitch. Sad

HalfPastWine · 04/05/2011 21:42

I'm sorry you had to go through that on such a sad day.

I am speechless, I really am.

Unfortunately, like MissyBrookes said earlier in the post, I hold a grudge for a LONG time. Revenge is best served cold in my book. She is clearly local to the area and I would be waiting for her return !!!

The Bitch would get it !

MissBetsyTrotwood · 04/05/2011 21:57

Mmm. To follow from my previous post...

After the police have done with her:

Local press
National press
Local TV news (can you send in the footage?)

Sorry once again for your family's loss.

Islandlady · 04/05/2011 22:01

We havwe just had a phone call from the FD him and two of his staff have made a statement to the police.

She will be visited and spoken to but not sure at this time what they will charge her with, the FD thought Criminal damage to his hearse but he says it wasnt actually damaged although they did take it out of service for the other funeral and they did take pictures of the coke running down the window before they cleaned it up so my Mum and Aunts DH didnt see it.

This happened on the mainland and I am supposed to go back to the Island
tomorrow but I am not going to leave my Mum

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