Do your DH/DP make you orgasm everytime?

[welshbyrd]

Or do you lie/bend the truth for male ego?

Just being a bit nosey really ...

cheeky can you errrrrrrm have a fiddle while he penatrates? Sorry but that really helps!

In answer to the OP yes :)

I have never had an orgasm with P I can however give them to myself

Valium, Yes i can but i really want to get there without the external side of stuff. Is that daft?

Goml - How did you eff up a name change???? Nightmare, id have to leave mn if mine hadnt worked, dh sometimes has a nose at mn.

Almost all the time but I'd never fake it. Once you start down that path you are stuck for life (of the relationship anyway.)

Female orgasms have to be worked at though, I'm not just talking foreplay, YOU have to put the work in to get him in the right place, you have to be in charge of the rhythm and you must not be embarrassed if you find you have to make noises.

Does everybody think orgasms are something that somebody else 'gives' you, then? Obviously the kind of stimulation is important, but I see it at least as much as what your own state of mind and focus does, IYSWIM.

Fabby is joking!

Almost always, although like someone backthread said, sometimes at a certain stage of my cycle I can't no matter what. Would never fake it though.

Have a friend who has never organsmed, she is mid thirties, keeps saying the latest man is the best sex she's ever had, even without orgasm. I can't really understand that. I would feel sort of cheated.

this made me giggle which is good as i have just been angered by a rude mother of my sons friend.
Hmm, i am afraid i am a bit honest , if i am not going to climax i say "sorry darling but it's not going to happen...." He never seems to mind....

Yes. Often more than once.

My god you lucky buggers. I have been having regular, no actually I ahve neen having lots of sex for the last 7 years and I love it but I could count on one hand the times any one has made me come!

Perhaps the rude mother doesnt have too many orgasms? uptight and frustrated

95% of the time. If not it's usually 'cos I'm a bit drunk!

Yes always, I orgasm very easily.

I think people that suffer from depression orgasm easily due to the fact that an orgasm requires your brain to re uptake the serotonin.

when on ads never.

Always but very rarely through penatration, I just dont work that way any more but I did in the early days. We have a funky warming lube that never fails to work so that gets whipped out when we are short of time just plain lazy.

I am so glad you started this thread. Not through intercourse, no. Never actually. Other ways, yes, always. But I feel sad I've never experienced it through intercoruse. Like some sort of freak. I have never faked.

I have been trying to think of ways to improve the situation.

LAST NIGHT DH TOLD ME THAT KISSING ME and SHAGGING was the equivalent of MULTI-TASKING. I almsot burst out laughing. Like, he can't focus on what is going on below AND a quality kissing experience.

I despair.

I dont know if id really want to bother if he didnt.

Yes, every time.

I am so smug. You may all line up to e-punch me.

I take SSRI's and i have zero sex drive unless im pissed which isnt very often since ive been pregnant for the last 2 years.
Clearly i have actually had sex but its usually because it keeps DH happy rather than because i want it.

I sometimes orgasm in my sleep which is rather pleasant.... But that aside its been a few years

It doesnt bother me at all bizarrely.

Yep, every time and plenty of them, but then again there's no male ego involved. She can always make it happen, even when I'm purportedly not in the mood.

I make sure I always do Ex husband was well trained, and I'm not shy at making new partners know what to do. Penetration rarely alone, but with a bit of help

And I'm a lucky one who has had no problem on antids either. Though most of that period has been alone with the help of Ann Summers and Love Honey though!

Yes about 98% of the time. The other 2% I allow him a freebie he comes too quick It is nearly always through manual or oral rarely true penetrative but I reckon we have the rest of our married lives to figure that out. I rely on my dh 100% for my orgasms. I don't take any responsibility for mine I take responsibility for his though.

I sometimes orgasm in my sleep which is rather pleasant

That happened to me once - I nearly shit myself I thought I was being shagged by a poltergeist!

Lol yes its very urm... Weird... It only happens when i havent had a shag for ages too. :)

Not THAT often. But when I do, its really really good. Have never faked, never will.

Ha ha ha ha ha! Shagged by a poltergeist! Genius