Do you still fancy your dp?Honestly.

[flakeofsnow]

I love my dp but I dont really fancy him,he lets off wind all the time,never makes a effort with his apperance,works all the time ,and when he is home he moans.

I do love him though but just wandered is the norm after 18 years?.

Yes - but we've only been together 10 years. May be different in another 8 years time...

Yes, I still fancy him - when he's not moaning! :)

Been together for nearly 17 years.

it's normal, tell him to keep his farts to another room and it doesn't make him very alluring

i fancy dh, yep. 11 yrs

i'm sure you are not alone though.

9 years, yes I fancy him, yes I often think PWOAR!

Yes, but then we've only been together for 3 yrs, married for 1.5. I'm not into shared bodily functions though!

I've been with mine 10 years and I still fancy him. I actually fancy him more than what I did originally. I do appreciate 10 years is not 18 years though...

DH has aged like a fine wine. After 13 years, I still fancy the pants off him. Regularly.

rarely. But I don't fancy 'your man in the street' either, so it's probably just me.

I'm very a bit jealous of these 'in love' types who have all that romance and smooching after 20 years. But I'm a cynical old bitch, so that's probably why it hasn't happened to me.

it ebbs and flows sometimes i fancy the pants of him other times not at all he smells is fat too hairy etc. been together 8 years

hell yeah i do.

especially when he's doing (don't flame me) blokey things with ladders and drills and stuff

but then again, i've trained him NOT to fart in company, and only been together 7 yrs......

Yep NeverArgue - I actually fancy him more now he's greying - very distinguished. God this is turning into a love-in. He'd be very chuffed if he read this.

Yep. Only been 6 years but yep.

I'm a cynical old bitch too, and have been going out for 18 yrs. But I do still fancy mine - sorry .

15 years and nah, not really.

Still good in the sack tho

Mine made me laugh ,whos laughing now?
ha ha, bo hoooo.

Yes. Neither of us hides our bodily functions from eachother. We both think the other is the sexiest thing on the planet and very much fancy eachother. We've been together 12 years.

19 years, and yes. His forearms

Yes, after 15 years I still do. I sometimes look at other peoples husbands and think that mine is SO much better looking.

def yes
been married 22yrs

My Mum and Dad have been married for 35 years. My Dad went to a meeting at work that finished early so stopped in town to kill some time. He hadn't told my Mum who also went into town.

She was in The Body Shop and a bloke walked in who made her knees wobble and blood rush...

... after she had composed herself she suddenly realised it was my Dad.

Aaaaarrrrrr!!!!

flakeofsnow - a friend of mine said she never gushes at her DH anymore BUT she has the most respect and love for him out of all the people she knows the lack of gushing doesn't matter. Is it like that for you???

Yes, very much so! But only been together 5 years.

I really don't know!!

I mean, I see him all the time, so I don't get little flutters or whatever when I look at him, or think 'Cor, he's gorgeous!'

But when we're laughing at something together, or on the rare occasion he's being sweet towards me (in a sort-of romantic way), it does make me feel a bit gooey towards him

But I am a sentimental thing, and if he were a more gazing-into-eyes type, I would feel much more gooey towards him too.

I am jealous of people who have that too.