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To ask how many people you have slept with?

202 replies

redflag · 26/10/2010 21:31

I just wanted to ask, sorry if its a bit rude, How many people you have slept with and how many you would say is normal?

OP posts:
Meow75 · 26/10/2010 21:33

2, I'm 35.

ghoulishglendawhingesagain · 26/10/2010 21:34

YABU to ask. None todaySmile

DuelingFanjo · 26/10/2010 21:35

I've slept with LOADS, but had sex with just two ;)

dementedma · 26/10/2010 21:36

define "slept with"....are we talking the full works or ummmm..."heavy petting" leading to the big O?

sickoftheholidays · 26/10/2010 21:36

lost count somewhere in my mid 20's. I had lots of fun.

megonthemoon · 26/10/2010 21:36

I'm not telling if you're not telling

Ninks · 26/10/2010 21:36

Normal how?

LOL at none today. None this week for me, must rectify that soon, poor DH Blush

sickoftheholidays · 26/10/2010 21:37

but I concede, thats probably not 'normal'

Quattrocento · 26/10/2010 21:37

Well it obviously depends upon your age and inclinations

Around 100 is normal at 20

Probably 200 is normal by 30. Unless you are married in which case 300 is normal.

Why do you ask, by the way?

Faaamily · 26/10/2010 21:38

28

I'm 33 and most of them were when I was aged 20-24 yrs old. My wild period.

I have never told anyone that before Grin

Talker2010 · 26/10/2010 21:38

11 ... I would say 12 is normal

AuraofDora · 26/10/2010 21:38

yabvn

LadyGaga · 26/10/2010 21:39

ahem...

15 in 35 years...

think that the most interesting question is about how good were they, for how long you slept with the same guy, .. a number means nothing.. really... me thinks..

Faaamily · 26/10/2010 21:40

Agreed@LadyGaGa

RustyBear · 26/10/2010 21:41

One.

I am 54.

DH was my first boyfriend, I have never had cause to want anyone else.

I am obviously a good picker....

Hulababy · 26/10/2010 21:41

1, my now DH. I am 37yo. Met him when we were both 16y.

dementedma · 26/10/2010 21:42

100 normal at 20, 200 normal at 30????
Oh puhlease, waht street corner do you work on?

foreverastudent · 26/10/2010 21:42

I think the average is 8/9 for men and 6/7 for women, work that one out Hmm.

FWIW my number's higher than Andie McDowell's in 4WAAF Wink

redflag · 26/10/2010 21:42

Thanks to you all for getting back to me, i only ask as the majority of my friends have been with 10+ in their 20's i just wanted to see what average was.

I have only been with the one Blush

Sorry for being unreasonable.

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maktaitai · 26/10/2010 21:42

um um

think 15? am 41

have lost track a bit and told too many lies about it

dunno if that's normal, i think it's above average for women in this country but would guess that the average for women of my age must be higher than the average for women of say 60 - 70

disclaimer; of course many senior women are serious shaggers and why not

TheNextMrsDracula · 26/10/2010 21:43

I count 16 Blush (I'm 43).

Most of these were at university. Well, I was young and foolish.

More than normal? I couldn't tell you.

Discowife · 26/10/2010 21:44

Quietly waits for Solid Gold Brasses answer

TethHearseEnd · 26/10/2010 21:44

Can't accurately remember, but about 40. Am 33.

Do I win £5?

RumourOfAHurricane · 26/10/2010 21:44

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Quattrocento · 26/10/2010 21:44

I work in the City for a terribly respectable firm

No street corners, honestly. However if you had clocked the numbers for before and after marriage, you might have realised I was not being serious

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