To ask how many people you have slept with?

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I just wanted to ask, sorry if its a bit rude, How many people you have slept with and how many you would say is normal?

Would never admit this IRL, but, 2. That is all. I have been with Dh since I was 21, though. I sometimes feel like I've missed out a bit :(

4 for me, i'm 46

never never never about just one sexual partner

i'll bet you that you've had about 40 x as many orgasms as me, and better sex in general

let's face it for the majority sex gets better in relationships

No idea -20ish- lost count/never started counting from 18-23, same man for last 13 years.
Don't think there is a normal-there's probably an average.
I know people who've slept with 1 person and people who've slept with 100s.

Imvho it's the quality and not the quantity of lovers. There's no moral implications, for me, in having slept with 1 or 100 people.

As long as you're having enjoyable sex with the one you're with!

Also only 1, my husband.

And I fell pregnant the first time we did it. Now have DC nearly 7 and two more.

TethHearse, There is no prize i am afraid, just genuinely interested.

22. I'm 30.

Erm.

a few

Quattrocentro -

Over 30. I've been with DH 12 years and am 35.

just the one... DH and i'm 26. been with him since i was 17tho...

1. I'm 26. I like serial monogamy, that's my excuse!

I've read somewhere that 9 is average, but don't know if that's true. I enjoyed it all very much though.

I don't think there is either defineme, But the only other person i know in real life who has just been with the one is my gran .

DancingOnMyBladder

Enough

About 842. But most of them came in their pants before they got to my inner sanctum, so I can probably whittle it down a little, if pushed.

scouserabroad - you haven't missed out.

me - a few more than I would like.

Cripes....only one in the past 25 years
however...as i'm 50 years old...pushing 51
there were a few......with no real accuracy,and alcohol played a part.....probably about 10......

I know! Our first christmas together we had a two week old baby. Was obviously meant to be though

One only.

3 (2 relationships and 1 fling). Am 36.

Thesecondcoming, i don't think there is a real answer, We are told all the time an average for everything, and i don't think that can possibly reflect any sort of reality.

7 - I'm 31

Well, if it makes you feel better Redflag, I know a very cool 39yr old who met her dh at 16, a 36yrold fashion designer who just never felt right with anyone before her dh at 24, and many serial monogamists who could count on the fingers of 1 hand.

I have had lots of crap sex in my youth and ime it only got better when I practised with the same person!