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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

<whispers> to enjoy porn?

155 replies

TheCakeDiet · 04/10/2010 14:26

...oh god cringing as I type and yes, I have namechanged.

So, nothing too weird - just a bit of normal shagging, schoolboys and MILFs and some girl on girl stuff but yes, I quite enjoy it and even sneak a quick look on laptop whilst DH is at work sometimes Blush

Perfectly normal (but slightly dull) sex life at home and otherwise fully functioning liberated woman and mother of 2 DCs

I know that as an industry, there are those who are hideously exploited but tbh, I am sure that there are many who are not.... So AIBU and more importantly, AMBaWerido???

OP posts:
Ladyanonymous · 04/10/2010 14:27

YANBU to enjoy porn -

YABVU to enjoy watching schoolboys Hmm

rpickett · 04/10/2010 14:30

YANBU I think it's more a case of women don't feel they can admit to liking it rather then they don't like it.

DogsTail · 04/10/2010 14:56

Name changed too but I am a serial MN lurker and from-time-to-time poster. Yes, I sometimes like it too but mostly when I don't have a partner. When I was with my ex and having regular sex, I didn't feel the need to watch.

I agree, it is rather difficult for women to admit to that, especially as for one 'watchable' movie or clip, there is a hundred that are really degrading. But I'd say YANBU.

SolidGoldBrass · 04/10/2010 15:16

The more people accept that there's nothing inherently wrong with wanting to watch sexually explicit entertainment material, and the more people demand and seek out material like this that's got good provenance ie made by consenting and well-treated participants and free of tedious unpleasantness, the better.

conkie · 04/10/2010 15:41

I am not going to namechange.

I like porn. My husband and I watch it sometimes. Not as much as we used to, mind you. We have a collection as well. It is usually porn for couples. I see nothing wrong with it. We are open about sex.

Is it really such a bad thing?

Bechka · 04/10/2010 15:48

YANBU! And I see no need to name change.

proudnglad · 04/10/2010 15:49

Namechanged eh?

'Girl on girl', 'milf'

Yah, okaaaay.

Biscuit.

Bridge.

HappySlapper · 04/10/2010 15:55

I don't for one minute think this is a troll! Hmm

I love porn. Not ashamed to admit it either.

proudnglad · 04/10/2010 15:58

I'm not saying you or other women on here don't enjoy porn. It's the language used in OP.

Anyway I find porn threads utterly boring and pointless so I'm off.

DaisyDaresYOU · 04/10/2010 17:46

i love love love porn.I just love it.Im not afraid to admit that i have a room full off playboy stuff. Shock Iv'e never uderstood why playboy stuff wasn't for over for over 18s.

DaisyDaresYOU · 04/10/2010 17:48

The cusions,duvets and stuff is what i mean.They had no age limit

bigfootbeliever · 04/10/2010 17:53

I like watching porn, but reading a really HARDCORE dirty book does it for me. It's always much dirtier in my mind.

nemofish · 04/10/2010 18:31

I would like to see some Fairtrade Porn.

If anyone has any could they please send me some decent girl on girl and, oooh, a bit of spit roast action, but no ugly blokes with taches and dodgy accents please. TIA

Alouiseg · 04/10/2010 18:34

I'm not name changing! I like it, prefer the written word to films though.

And I love going Lap Dancing :o

embarassedone · 04/10/2010 18:57

I have to say I prefer reading too...

(namechange is to check for a different post, not this one).

TiggyD · 04/10/2010 19:04

I wonder whatever happened to that porn star SolidGoldAss?

notanumber · 04/10/2010 19:21

Yes, YABU.

Because of this:

TheCakeDiet Mon 04-Oct-10 14:26:11
"I know that as an industry, there are those who are hideously exploited..."

You are supporting an industry that deals in exploitation of vulnerable women.

I don't think any orgasm is worth that. And I say this as someone who previously enjoyed pornography.

DetectivePotato · 04/10/2010 19:24

YANBU. I like it and I'm not ashamed of it at all.

scottishmummy · 04/10/2010 19:25

oh do pipe down troll patrol.i dont understand the acronyms - milf?what is that...dare i ask

PinkieMinx · 04/10/2010 19:27

Mum I's Like to Fuck sm

notanumber · 04/10/2010 19:27

Mum I'd Like To Fuck.

It refers to any woman over the age of 21 (ie: a bit past it but still do-able Hmm)

blinks · 04/10/2010 19:27
TiggyD · 04/10/2010 19:27

A Mummy I'd Like to Friend?

scottishmummy · 04/10/2010 19:29

aha, i see.not as bad as expected.now i digress but what is ipoat see that on mn too

rapidsjohnson · 04/10/2010 19:34

yabu because of not being able to be certain enough of the provenance to be 100% certain that everyone in it is really in it of their own free will and not because they have no other option.
Doesn't it bother you that you could be watching people who are wishing themselves anywhere but there?

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