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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

<whispers> to enjoy porn?

155 replies

TheCakeDiet · 04/10/2010 14:26

...oh god cringing as I type and yes, I have namechanged.

So, nothing too weird - just a bit of normal shagging, schoolboys and MILFs and some girl on girl stuff but yes, I quite enjoy it and even sneak a quick look on laptop whilst DH is at work sometimes Blush

Perfectly normal (but slightly dull) sex life at home and otherwise fully functioning liberated woman and mother of 2 DCs

I know that as an industry, there are those who are hideously exploited but tbh, I am sure that there are many who are not.... So AIBU and more importantly, AMBaWerido???

OP posts:
notanumber · 04/10/2010 19:35

IPOAT = Insane People On A Thread.

scottishmummy · 04/10/2010 19:36

Ta,always wondered.tons of the acronymns i dont get

notanumber · 04/10/2010 19:38

You're welcome. Why not start inventing your own? CAB = Crabbit auld biddy?

memoo · 04/10/2010 19:39

I have no problem with porn at all BUT...

""Schoolboys""!!??

FFS, you think thats ok?

If a bloke was on here saying he like watching porn with school girls in we would all be up in arms

scottishmummy · 04/10/2010 19:39

haha,so we have met.thats me to a tee

Alouiseg · 04/10/2010 19:40

Their are probably people working in the Porn industry who think it's preferable to working for minimum wage in a fast food joint.

strawberry17 · 04/10/2010 19:42

Yup I love a bit of porn as well, mainly women and couples.

Bugrit · 04/10/2010 19:43

Schoolboys? Not judging (I don't think), but is this really a porn category? What do they do, play with their conkers?

scottishmummy · 04/10/2010 19:45

schoolboys i think plooks,ipods and whateva.not attractive in the least (except to schoolgirls maybe)

MadAboutQuavers · 04/10/2010 19:46

YANBU

Good porn is great, and I've enjoyed it with DP.

Beachcomber · 04/10/2010 19:48

Yeah Alouiseg - mostly the ones who appreciate the (slightly) better pay for getting their next fix or the poor sods who are acting out a history of sexual abuse.

The porn industry is mind bogglingly terrifying. (I say that from experience of dealing with some of the people in it).

DetectivePotato · 04/10/2010 19:49

I got the impression the OP meant younger men with older women? Is that not what the schoolboys/MILF thing refers too?

I have never actually seen schoolboys in porn. I know they have a lot of 'teen' (I think they are advertised as teens but are actually a bit older) girls but its never really that young boys, unless they are home movies.

sunny2010 · 04/10/2010 19:51

I love porn. Nothing wrong with that and the vast majority of people watch it.

dittany · 04/10/2010 19:53

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Beachcomber · 04/10/2010 20:01

Agree with dittany.

Getting aroused by porn is NU.

Thinking that that somehow justifies using porn or supporting the porn industry is VVVU.

notanumber · 04/10/2010 20:13

What dittany said.

sethstarkaddersmum · 04/10/2010 20:15

I'm reading Pornland by Gail Dines at the moment. Not very cheerful. I've watched porn in the past but there's no way on earth I would now.

sparky159 · 04/10/2010 20:15

yep-i agree with dittany and Beachcomber.
i cant work out whether the Op is a troll or someone just trying to wind people up.
well-either way
im quite alarmed that not a lots been said that the op has mentioned schoolboys aswell.
im not suprised youve changed youre name op-
watching kids is peadophelia.

AnyFucker · 04/10/2010 20:19

I think YABU for name-changing

Anyone would think you were ashamed or summat Hmm

Or that you didn't have the courage of your porn convictions

Or that you are on a wind-up mission and had nothing better to do

All of the above are a bit crap, tbh

memoo · 04/10/2010 20:20

Sparky I mentioned the schoolboys earlier but nobody seems to be listening

AnyFucker · 04/10/2010 20:21

memoo, I think the sensible people on this thread are just refusing to engage, tbh

meh

Beachcomber · 04/10/2010 20:27

Not having the courage of one's porn convictions does seem to be quite common.

Mind you, that is often because people the porn industry is risqué and sexy and taboo cos it's about sex.

When in reality it is misogynistic, violent, dangerous, oppressive and about normalizing sexual violence and rape myths (and rape). It is about sexual violence and oppression, not about sex. It is taboo because it is offensive to women and all about male entitlement with big swinging balls and women choking on big cocks.

sparky159 · 04/10/2010 20:28

yep-sorry Memoo-i did see this[well done]
it was very noticable and it was more noticable that no one said anything.
sorry-scrolling up and down the pages and holding on to my glasses is not my strong point and i couldnt remember youre nameSmile
wasnt ignoring what you said-my glasses are broken.

Beachcomber · 04/10/2010 20:28

people think

Mumcentreplus · 04/10/2010 20:29
Hmm