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AIBU?

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shit-stained pants left on kitchen floor

183 replies

YesBut · 20/08/2010 11:23

Am I unreasonable to find this offensive?

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LucindaCarlisle · 20/08/2010 11:25

Yes, you are being unreasonable.

gingernutlover · 20/08/2010 11:25

depends who they belong to?

If its your potty training 2 year old YABU

If it is pretty much anyone elses YANBU.

sanielle · 20/08/2010 11:25
Envy
gorionine · 20/08/2010 11:25

depends if it is a 2yo old haviong had an accident and not knowing how to deal with it or from someone of more "mature" age. If it is the later YANBU.

bronze · 20/08/2010 11:26

left by who?
DH yes very
young dd/ds horrible but not so bad

YesBut · 20/08/2010 11:26

they belong to exp

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bronze · 20/08/2010 11:26

x posts

gorionine · 20/08/2010 11:26

Blush x-posted!

gingernutlover · 20/08/2010 11:27

hmmmm I can't imagine why he is ex p

why are they in your house?

YANBU btw

gingernutlover · 20/08/2010 11:27

is it a revenge thing?

I have heard of the prawns down the back on the radiator thing - this is less subtle ...

FakePlasticTrees · 20/08/2010 11:29

why is your ex coming into your house and leaving pooy pants on your floor?

YesBut · 20/08/2010 11:30

He hasn't moved out, looks like I may have to.

Not a revenge thing, he always does it. He washes/changes clothes rarely, makes the furnituresmell, and leaves his stinking clothes on kitchen floor or in front room.

Feels like the last straw sometimes.

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2kids2dogsandahorse · 20/08/2010 11:30

Shock XP? Gosh I can't imagine why he's an XP lol. Post em back through his letterbox.

2kids2dogsandahorse · 20/08/2010 11:31

:( I think I would have started binning smelly clothes a long time ago.

gingernutlover · 20/08/2010 11:32

you need one of these

www.pvrdirect.co.uk/productinfo.aspx?catref=47418

and for one of you to move out

gingernutlover · 20/08/2010 11:33

can I ask, is this just offending you now? Has he always done it?

YesBut · 20/08/2010 11:35

Love the pick up tool! I don't touch 'em I hasten to add, I pick them up with other lesser filthy clothes over my hands. And then wash.

He has been doing this increasingly over a number of years. It has always sickened me but more so today.

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Morloth · 20/08/2010 11:38

Yeuck, yes I would move out and not ever let him in my new house.

coraltoes · 20/08/2010 11:38

shoot him in the f*cking nads.

Fel1x · 20/08/2010 11:39

Why the fuck did you wash them? Straight on the bin would be more reasonable response

BuntyPenfold · 20/08/2010 11:40

What is it you see in him again?
Why wouldn't you burn all his clothes (just to be on the safe side):)

YesBut · 20/08/2010 11:42

I have been trying to split up with him for years.

Thanksall for reassuring me. My head is so messed up, sometimes I wonder if it is just me being petty or if everything is my fault.

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BuntyPenfold · 20/08/2010 11:44

Trying to? Do you still love him then?

HotSprocket · 20/08/2010 11:46

YANBU

Psst..why does he keep pooing his pants?

QueeferSutherland · 20/08/2010 11:47

BURN THEM.

Burn every shitey pair of pants you come accross, until he has none left.
They are a bio-hazard.

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