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How can we increase respect for women

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Flufffluff11 · 19/09/2026 13:00

I've had a lot of chats with male friends and acquaintances about this lately.

A lot of them told me that boys are taught to disrespect girls, from many influejces, from a young age to a point where they don't see women as human.

So if a woman tries to say how life needs to be improved for women. If she tries to talk to men about feeling uncomfortable or scared on a walk alone through a town for example, men don't listen because their brain automatically thinks of the woman "as not even human" . They are also under pressure to look manly in front of each other, and some of them do this by disrespecting women in front of other men

Again, not all men. But the crime rate against women is huge. Men are not going to change, as it doesn't affect them negatively. I'm really interested in talking to other women about this.

How can we raise respect of women in society, in general?

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Flufffluff11 · 20/09/2026 14:32

GoodGirlFaith · 20/09/2026 13:48

What do you think posting on MN will do to help that, then exactly? I shall save you the bother: NOTHING! You’ll probably reply with some nonsense about ‘awareness’ which only serves to insult woman; we are already aware, thank you!

I doubt very much that any of you man haters do anything to help young people in your communities. Why would you want to work with half of the human population in the world who you hate and don’t respect? No-one wants anyone around helping them who constantly talks about ‘dangerous, disrespectful’ men. It’s just pure hatred and disrespectful to men - and woman.

Try liking people. Try respecting them. Stop posting hatred towards half of mankind who are for the most part kind and good.

You didn't answer my question. Where did anyone on this thread write that they hate men. I scrolled back and I don't see it.

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GoodGirlFaith · 20/09/2026 14:54

Flufffluff11 · 20/09/2026 14:32

You didn't answer my question. Where did anyone on this thread write that they hate men. I scrolled back and I don't see it.

You very transparent and naive, OP. It is clear that you have merely dressed your anti-male sentiment up in ‘my friends say’.

Flufffluff11 · 20/09/2026 14:55

GoodGirlFaith · 20/09/2026 14:54

You very transparent and naive, OP. It is clear that you have merely dressed your anti-male sentiment up in ‘my friends say’.

I see that you couldn't find anyone on this thread that wrote that they 'hated men'

Thanks for clarifying.

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OldWallpaper · 20/09/2026 15:27

@GoodGirlFaith

The UK Government itself launched a National Taskforce for Tackling Misogyny today!!

In December 2025, the government
declared violence against women and girls as a national emergency along with police chiefs in July 2024.

Can’t really argue with that…

Error404FucksNotFound · 20/09/2026 15:38

OldWallpaper · 20/09/2026 15:27

@GoodGirlFaith

The UK Government itself launched a National Taskforce for Tackling Misogyny today!!

In December 2025, the government
declared violence against women and girls as a national emergency along with police chiefs in July 2024.

Can’t really argue with that…

Give them a minute, they'll come up with a way.

Boomer55 · 20/09/2026 15:48

Women need to demand respect, and not be any sort of walkover with men not doing that, and rear any sons they have to respect women. 🤷‍♀️

Katypp · 20/09/2026 18:00

GoodGirlFaith · 20/09/2026 13:28

2 each week. Rare. Stop scaremongering. Most men will help people, the vast majority, in fact.

How many men have saved lives? In for example, the RNLI, fire crews, police, surgeons, nurses etc. You never seem to post those statistics.

Get off your computer and get out into your community if you want to help young men and women. I doubt you will and it’s best you don’t, in fact, because you are so hate filled and you’d rather sit there and post your hatred and insults towards men - and any woman who dares stand up for men. Like me.

You cannot teach respect if you aren’t respectful yourself. All you women repeatedly posting this man hate are disrespectful yourselves - you have no chance of anyone respecting you. You are prejudiced, ignorant and disgraceful. Please do not actually go anywhere near young men or boys, you are dangerous.

I’m very proud to be able to work with lovely young people.

You aren’t living in the real world, I’m afraid.

I agree. But we are both 'NSMALT handmaidens' apparently.
I would save your breath. Most posters on this thread are not interested in other opinions, just their narrative.

GoodGirlFaith · 20/09/2026 19:03

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Cheese55 · 20/09/2026 19:07

Please explain to us haters, why 2 women a week are killed by their ex partners ?

NoTimeForThisShit · 21/09/2026 00:27

GoodGirlFaith · 20/09/2026 13:28

2 each week. Rare. Stop scaremongering. Most men will help people, the vast majority, in fact.

How many men have saved lives? In for example, the RNLI, fire crews, police, surgeons, nurses etc. You never seem to post those statistics.

Get off your computer and get out into your community if you want to help young men and women. I doubt you will and it’s best you don’t, in fact, because you are so hate filled and you’d rather sit there and post your hatred and insults towards men - and any woman who dares stand up for men. Like me.

You cannot teach respect if you aren’t respectful yourself. All you women repeatedly posting this man hate are disrespectful yourselves - you have no chance of anyone respecting you. You are prejudiced, ignorant and disgraceful. Please do not actually go anywhere near young men or boys, you are dangerous.

I’m very proud to be able to work with lovely young people.

You aren’t living in the real world, I’m afraid.

2 each week. Rare. Stop scaremongering

wow, just wow. You really need to have your head checked

NoTimeForThisShit · 21/09/2026 00:29

Cheese55 · 20/09/2026 19:07

Please explain to us haters, why 2 women a week are killed by their ex partners ?

I guess as long as it isn't HER daughter, sister, friend etc she doesn't care

GoodGirlFaith · 21/09/2026 10:04

NoTimeForThisShit · 21/09/2026 00:27

2 each week. Rare. Stop scaremongering

wow, just wow. You really need to have your head checked

You have twisted what I wrote. Two people killed every week under any circumstance is obviously too many. It shouldn't be happening at all but the vast majority of women are safe with men.

The OP asked how to teach men respect but you also need to lean to respect - men and women. No one respects a manipulator.

NoTimeForThisShit · 21/09/2026 15:04

GoodGirlFaith · 21/09/2026 10:04

You have twisted what I wrote. Two people killed every week under any circumstance is obviously too many. It shouldn't be happening at all but the vast majority of women are safe with men.

The OP asked how to teach men respect but you also need to lean to respect - men and women. No one respects a manipulator.

I, and other posters above, understood perfectly what you wrote.

And you are clearly hoping to earn respect with your NAMALT/handmaiden pandering? Apt username🙄

Cheese55 · 21/09/2026 15:15

How are the majority of women safe with men when 2 a week are killed by them, 3000 crimes a day are reported by women to the police and that obviously doesn't include the non reported. I'm glad you have never been the victim of WAWG but dont pretend we are all safe.

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