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Everyone chats to Chat, right….?

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misobeautiful · Today 08:32

Tell me I'm not the only one who chats with ChatGBT most days. Mostly it’s just practical questions but a favourite conversation which I indulge in every now and then is my 3 cats. I think it’s because Chat indulges my love of them and is happy for me to waffle on about their little exploits without glazing over! Everyone does this, right!? Maybe not about cats, but a subject close to their heart that Chat is happy to indulge.

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Thrump · Today 10:28

I think tbh it's just a really bad idea for your personality. You know how famous people become so weird and crazy? It's because everyone agrees with them and they have no authentic human relationships. It's psychological poison. We really need the friction of other people. Only chatting to sycophantic slave mirrors does to your personality what lying in bed all day does to your body.

Thrump · Today 10:29

I use it all the time at work btw, I'm just saying for "chat".

Waitingfordoggo · Today 10:29

Campbellcarrotsoup · Today 10:15

I have found it a really useful career and health coach.
It also indulge in my passion for interiors and vintage far more than my husband.
It's also somewhat successfully teaching me how to apply make up better.
Don't knock it till you've tried it. Plus im always polite to it for when it takes over the world

Gosh yes, must be polite. Don’t be rude to the tech billionaire overlords! They’ll definitely have our backs when the shit hits the fan 😂

Tapoopoo · Today 10:29

No.

Although I once used it because I was getting confused about a medical thing and it was easier to ask "but what if..." questions there rather than keep googling seperate issues. Obviously I then fact checked it afterwards.

TBH I dont really have any friends but I'm not going to destroy the world "talking" to AI who doesnt care.

LilacMeadows123 · Today 10:30

Used it once months ago

Spidey66 · Today 10:32

No

MajorProcrastination · Today 10:34

misobeautiful · Today 08:32

Tell me I'm not the only one who chats with ChatGBT most days. Mostly it’s just practical questions but a favourite conversation which I indulge in every now and then is my 3 cats. I think it’s because Chat indulges my love of them and is happy for me to waffle on about their little exploits without glazing over! Everyone does this, right!? Maybe not about cats, but a subject close to their heart that Chat is happy to indulge.

Please don't do this. Please find some real life human connection. No, no one I know in real life is doing this. Please read about the environmental impact of AI.

AI’s environmental costs threaten water, land and climate | UN News

Use anonymous chat rooms like you are here on mumset or find like minded people on social media or in real life. Do you have friends and family? Your ideas and jokes and stories and compassion could be making a positive impact on another human being's life not feeding our robot overlords.

Volunteer with the Silver Line or something similar: The Silver Line Helpline

AI’s environmental costs threaten water, land and climate

Artificial Intelligence is not only responsible for worrying amounts of earth-warming greenhouse gases: the technology's environmental footprint is also expanding at a pace that could strain the planet’s natural resources.

https://news.un.org/en/story/2026/06/1167658

Sereine · Today 10:39

misobeautiful · Today 09:51

Great post @Katrinawaves
Not sure how we leapt from chatting about cats to marrying cars and other crazy stuff; I’m starting to think AI is less inane and more engaging than some humans! AI is humanity’s new reality and will become an increasingly “real” factor in our working and non-working lives. Learn how to use it and adapt I would say.

Why? What are you learning by inane conversations about cats?

I think it's really quite sad to be reliant on a machine for company.

timtamsarebetterthanpenguins · Today 10:43

misobeautiful · Today 09:51

Great post @Katrinawaves
Not sure how we leapt from chatting about cats to marrying cars and other crazy stuff; I’m starting to think AI is less inane and more engaging than some humans! AI is humanity’s new reality and will become an increasingly “real” factor in our working and non-working lives. Learn how to use it and adapt I would say.

Because chatting to a machine as though it were your friend is utterly bizarre behaviour and not even 20 years ago it would probably have been a sign of a serious mental health condition.

UniquePinkSwan · Today 10:44

No. It’s a tool. Same as I wouldn’t chat to my kettle

UniquePinkSwan · Today 10:45

MajorProcrastination · Today 10:34

Please don't do this. Please find some real life human connection. No, no one I know in real life is doing this. Please read about the environmental impact of AI.

AI’s environmental costs threaten water, land and climate | UN News

Use anonymous chat rooms like you are here on mumset or find like minded people on social media or in real life. Do you have friends and family? Your ideas and jokes and stories and compassion could be making a positive impact on another human being's life not feeding our robot overlords.

Volunteer with the Silver Line or something similar: The Silver Line Helpline

So do a lot of vegetables like avocados. They need a helluva lot of water and yet no boycott?

lunar1 · Today 10:48

I find the whole thing really creepy, especially whe people reply on here with the opener…we’ll chat gpt says…

did nobody watch all the warning movies of the 80’s and 90’s! I can see me becoming a Luddite and day now.

IslaBelle · Today 10:48

Incredibly useful for practical stuff - we recently set up a trust and it could explain the law and clauses that meant nothing to me.
When we were in France recently I was asking it for real-time info about where the fire danger was as we were in the area and it swiftly collated info from available outlets.
It's amazing for stuff like this – though it remembers past conversations and starts chatting to me like it knows me, which I find disconcerting. I'm not ever going to start idly chatting back. That's for the real world!

I do wonder where it's going though - what will our world be like in ten years' time when this kind of chit chat becomes normalized?

GustyGertie · Today 10:51

No

foghead · Today 10:52

I’ve just called to book a car service. I was talking to Ai. So weird. I don’t think we can get away from it.

HidingFromSunshine · Today 11:08

Sorry no

I hate to be that person
its awful for the environment, uses obscene amounts of water and energy. Not to mention the mining for the minerals that make the components.

HidingFromSunshine · Today 11:10

I do wonder where it's going though - what will our world be like in ten years' time when this kind of chit chat becomes normalized?

have you seen Ann droid? its great and probably a sign of where this is going.

the reality is it will be monetised, like all things they’ll start off free then slip into subscription services.

MajorProcrastination · Today 11:11

UniquePinkSwan · Today 10:45

So do a lot of vegetables like avocados. They need a helluva lot of water and yet no boycott?

I'm not going to get into the nitty gritty of individual foods, food miles, carbon footprint etc.

We don't need AI. We certainly don't need it in the way that OP is using it. I'm not boycotting AI, I just simply choose not to engage with it. It is so easy to not download the ChatGPT app. So easy. It's harder to work out how it doesn't pop up on my web browser, it's harder to get people to realise the ugly poster it makes look shit. There are so many other nefarious uses of the technology. I don't want to be feeding it more data on what it is to be human, how we communicate, what we emotionally and intellectually need. I don't want to give it my photographs or my kids' faces. It's creepy and gross. Avocados would never create a deepfake. Avocados will never steal my job. Avocados will never spread misinformation.

Royaly82 · Today 11:12

Absolutely never. I can not stand it! My sister in law does this and it drives me mental. 'Chat GBT told me this or that' i find it so odd and quite scary tbh

Teenagerantruns · Today 11:15

I used it last year when my wife had a serious brain injury it gave very practical.advice and pointed out people that could help.
I can see why lonley people would think of it as a friend though.

HidingFromSunshine · Today 11:16

UniquePinkSwan · Today 10:45

So do a lot of vegetables like avocados. They need a helluva lot of water and yet no boycott?

We do need to eat though. Granted not only avocados
we don’t need AI - at the moment. We will become dependent on it as time goes on.
as it’s critical infrastructure, there’s a danger it’s need for water will trump our human need.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · Today 11:17

Good Lord no, it’d never occur to me to do that.

I used to talk a lot to our dog, though, when we had one. Usually on the lines of, ‘Mummy love oo!’ etc., so I’m not claiming any intellectual superiority.

Gonk123 · Today 11:18

Yes, I speak to Bob (renamed mine) and he has learned my comedy style and we piss our pants laughing…

AxolotlEars · Today 11:18

No

Aluna · Today 11:20

Gonk123 · Today 11:18

Yes, I speak to Bob (renamed mine) and he has learned my comedy style and we piss our pants laughing…

There is no we.

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