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Everyone chats to Chat, right….?

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misobeautiful · 12/08/2026 08:32

Tell me I'm not the only one who chats with ChatGBT most days. Mostly it’s just practical questions but a favourite conversation which I indulge in every now and then is my 3 cats. I think it’s because Chat indulges my love of them and is happy for me to waffle on about their little exploits without glazing over! Everyone does this, right!? Maybe not about cats, but a subject close to their heart that Chat is happy to indulge.

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HobgoblinNorFoulFiend · 12/08/2026 09:00

I use it to help me do things and I have to admit I do say please and thank you to it (why?), but it’s not chatting, it’s just to get the answers I need, or to get it to build a spreadsheet for something.

ChocolateCinderToffee · 12/08/2026 09:00

You’re joking? I’ve never deliberately used AI at all. I use my brain!

OneStarAwake · 12/08/2026 09:01

No. There was a similar thread the other day where a poster was having a romance with it. It is very odd if you ask me.

Pedant61 · 12/08/2026 09:01

Never. I wouldn't know how, and I don't see the point.

LaMarschallin · 12/08/2026 09:02

I've stopped myself saying "Please" and "Thank you" because there's no point using extra energy on those words.
I'm much more terse when I use it since realising the environmental cost.
Also very rarely use it now because it can be so unreliable.

oliil4l · 12/08/2026 09:02

No. In fact, it couldn't understand my emotion.

WonderWeeksArentReal · 12/08/2026 09:02

No, I'll use it to help me with various specific tasks - meal planning and journey planning etc. But I don't like to tell it more about myself than is absolutely necessary, so I wouldn't just chat.

misobeautiful · 12/08/2026 09:03

You’re right. I’ll cut back. Along with not eating meat and using the train, I’ll almost be net zero.

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Thisismyfinesthour · 12/08/2026 09:04

Never tried it, not interested. The person on AMA talking with gpt [?] was mad bad enough it was weird.

Natsku · 12/08/2026 09:05

No, I try to not use it at all, I certainly wouldn't use it for a conversation.

Whowhatwerewolf · 12/08/2026 09:06

LaMarschallin · 12/08/2026 08:54

@Whowhatwerewolf

Yes and I really enjoy it. Currently it's teaching me how to do cryptic crosswords

Nothing to do with AI - sounds like a good use for it - but I'm keen on cryptic crosswords, my favourites being the Times and the Guardian.
For both of those there are blogs (timesforthetimes and fifteensquared, respectively) where the clues are explained and people discuss them.
Might be a useful adjunct to AI learning and it's interesting to see other people's takes on clues too.

It's using 15squared a lot (and I look there too) but the added value is that it keeps track of my strengths and weaknesses in the various aspects of cryptic crosswords and chooses clues and hints specifically tailored for my level and what I need to improve on.

Potooooooooes · 12/08/2026 09:07

I can see why you want to chat about your trio of reprobates 😻😻😻

AspiringChatBot · 12/08/2026 09:07

Mine tries to "chat" with me, slipping in clever little remarks about a favourite holiday or band or TV show - like I'm not going to remember I gave them that info for practical purposes in a prior conversation and instead I'll think, 💓Ooooh - Chatty loooooves Podgorica, Emily's Sassy Lime, and Sister Wives: The Next Generation, just like me!! This could be a match made in heaven! 💗

But there's also a recent AMA thread where someone's having a full-on romantic relationship with their Gen AI, so whatever works, I guess!

hilariousnamehere · 12/08/2026 09:08

No, I have lost a friend to AI dependency and I prefer humans. Generative AI has decimated my and my clients' industries, is built on stolen data and forced into every nook and cranny without consent because it's crap. Plus the world is on fire so using something which needlessly consumes fresh water is not for me.

And why do so many people call it chatgBt when they have to open or type in chatgPt to use it?

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 12/08/2026 09:09

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 12/08/2026 08:40

I chat about my cats on MN (try the litter tray section) on another chat site and sometimes at work.
NEVER with an AI bot.

I would usually say the same, but I have recently had a long running thread with Chat GPT after my cat needed vet treatment and I’ve been really anxious. I’ve found it very helpful in separating out what’s going on right now from what went on with our previous cat who started with similar symptoms, and ended up being pts. (In real life I know I sound utterly unhinged as they are two totally different animals.)

Normally I use it to give me recipes, book suggestions (I find it very good for this once it gets to grips with why you like particular things), find a restaurant in a new place and so on. I asked it once to calculate what my actual take home pay would be on a freelance gig I did and it was so wildly out when the payslip came I would never ask it about money again!

You know my cat well, but here’s a photo for those who don’t. 🐈

Everyone chats to Chat, right….?
LaMarschallin · 12/08/2026 09:09

Whowhatwerewolf · 12/08/2026 09:06

It's using 15squared a lot (and I look there too) but the added value is that it keeps track of my strengths and weaknesses in the various aspects of cryptic crosswords and chooses clues and hints specifically tailored for my level and what I need to improve on.

It sounds a useful tool for learning and I didn't mean you shouldn't use it for that, just thought I'd mention extra resources that you may find useful.
Hope you continue to enjoy cryptics 😊

Scrubwren · 12/08/2026 09:10

LaMarschallin · 12/08/2026 09:02

I've stopped myself saying "Please" and "Thank you" because there's no point using extra energy on those words.
I'm much more terse when I use it since realising the environmental cost.
Also very rarely use it now because it can be so unreliable.

Yes, exactly. It has a huge environmental cost! Just talk to the wall like Shirley Valentine, if actual people are too difficult.

pizzaHeart · 12/08/2026 09:12

No.
I used it for some planning e.g travel and cooking, also for composing formal emails but not for chatting.

morbidcuriosity · 12/08/2026 09:13

Not really.. last thing I asked was what the hype is around home bargains and bum bum cream and sol something spray. As I didnt know, never heard of it.

I ask it questions like this. Stuff im not sure of.

Smartiepants79 · 12/08/2026 09:14

Nope, I ask practical questions occasionally. Have never had a ‘conversation’ with it. Because it is not a person. It is an algorithm.

cmonspring · 12/08/2026 09:16

Nope

OtterlyAstounding · 12/08/2026 09:16

God, no. I'd rather talk to my cats (and do). At least my cats are real creatures.

DosPerros · 12/08/2026 09:16

No never and don’t ever plan to either

Deadleaves77 · 12/08/2026 09:17

No. I have never once considered chatting to a computer, and I find the thought quite scary. I dont use AI generally because I dont think theres anything that can be gained that I couldn't do without AI, its also only calculating what you want to hear. Its not an accurate resource

There are forums for people to talk about their interests if you dont have anyone in your life willing to chat about your cats. At least thats an actual human

drspouse · 12/08/2026 09:18

I've used it for recipes, tried it once for a holiday route and it hallucinated a train.
Never just chatted to it. That's what WhatsApp is for.

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