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What do you think of people who steal at supermarkets?

207 replies

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 14:30

Have you seen it happen?
Doesn’t seem like police or security care

OP posts:
Backedoffhackedoff · 20/07/2026 10:54

Binnyforthewin · 20/07/2026 10:53

Talk about victim blaming!

Supermarkets aren’t victims. They’re companies

zurigo · 20/07/2026 10:57

I also don't think that checkout staff are responsible for tackling shoplifters. Supermarkets should have security guards who are trained to apprehend people, like the police (occasionally) do. But untrained members of staff should not be expected to put themselves in harm's way.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 20/07/2026 10:59

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 20:44

it’s hard to steal steaks anyway because of the security alarms

I was once stopped at an Asda exit, because of a security tag on the back of a pack of steak, which I bought only once in a blue moon. I hadn’t been aware of the tag, and hadn’t taken my receipt at the self checkout!

Was escorted back to the checkout between TWO security staff, and had to stand there like a thief, while they went through the bin for my receipt. And thank goodness, they found it.

ALWAYS TAKE YOUR SELF-CHECKOUT RECEIPT!!

Backedoffhackedoff · 20/07/2026 11:00

zurigo · 20/07/2026 10:57

I also don't think that checkout staff are responsible for tackling shoplifters. Supermarkets should have security guards who are trained to apprehend people, like the police (occasionally) do. But untrained members of staff should not be expected to put themselves in harm's way.

they'd still just be blokes minimally trained, like bouncers. They don’t have anymore right to apprehend or tackle them than you or I do. And if the police aren’t going to come and arrest them what are they really achieving apart from a deterrent

Binnyforthewin · 20/07/2026 11:00

Backedoffhackedoff · 20/07/2026 10:54

Supermarkets aren’t victims. They’re companies

You have an odd outlook on life. Of course companies can be victims of shoplifting.

Backedoffhackedoff · 20/07/2026 11:01

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 20/07/2026 10:59

I was once stopped at an Asda exit, because of a security tag on the back of a pack of steak, which I bought only once in a blue moon. I hadn’t been aware of the tag, and hadn’t taken my receipt at the self checkout!

Was escorted back to the checkout between TWO security staff, and had to stand there like a thief, while they went through the bin for my receipt. And thank goodness, they found it.

ALWAYS TAKE YOUR SELF-CHECKOUT RECEIPT!!

Arseholes. They should’ve just checked the self checkout security footage. Asda are the ones that make receipt printing optional.

Backedoffhackedoff · 20/07/2026 11:02

Binnyforthewin · 20/07/2026 11:00

You have an odd outlook on life. Of course companies can be victims of shoplifting.

your knowledge of companies really is limited 😂 companies can’t be victims

ToadRage · 20/07/2026 11:05

I used to work in a food shop. So I have seen it a lot. Scumbags the lot of them. Shoplifters should be strung up by the short and curlys!

Binnyforthewin · 20/07/2026 11:06

I'm going to leave this now. I'm not debating with a criminal apologist with no idea about the law.

AuntieBiotics · 20/07/2026 11:08

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 20:46

If you saw it happening wpuld you say anything to the person

No because scummy people who shoplift are the sort of scummy people who would knife you. I would point it out to the staff though.

Badbadbunny · 20/07/2026 11:17

Binnyforthewin · 20/07/2026 10:44

Clearly we would not be friends in real life. People who steal from others are scum. It is as simple as that.

Edited

Anyone who does any kind of intentional law breaking is scum. We have laws for a reason.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 20/07/2026 11:44

Backedoffhackedoff · 20/07/2026 11:01

Arseholes. They should’ve just checked the self checkout security footage. Asda are the ones that make receipt printing optional.

The receipt was still printed - hence found in the bin - I just hadn’t taken it.
Nowadays I always take receipts, even if I’ve bought just one item that cost £2.

Goldenbear · 20/07/2026 11:59

intrepidpanda · 19/07/2026 15:45

I always here stories like that and think what if it was a single 30 year old man stealing food cause he was desperate.
Would he garner the same sympathy?

Yes.

The reality is all this has got so much worse as result of the damage of a decade of austerity. Under investment in education, policing, deprived communities, is going to have unintended consequences, it is a symbol of societal stress.

Goldenbear · 20/07/2026 12:02

Binnyforthewin · 20/07/2026 11:00

You have an odd outlook on life. Of course companies can be victims of shoplifting.

And you should cultivate your humanity.

Goldenbear · 20/07/2026 12:05

Binnyforthewin · 20/07/2026 10:53

Talk about victim blaming!

No it's sensible. I was near the exit of a supermarket and the guard did tackle and the shoplifter became agitated and was scrapping and swung his arm towards the guard I nearly got slapyin the face. It's wholly irresponsible to get in a physical tooing and throwing over in this case a box of cereal!

Binnyforthewin · 20/07/2026 12:09

Goldenbear · 20/07/2026 12:02

And you should cultivate your humanity.

Fucking hell - its inhumane to be anti shoplifting now. No wonder this country is screwed.

Lorrymum · 20/07/2026 12:23

I politely stood back while a man was supposedly choosing a steak. He suddenly picked up the entire tray, opened his sports bag and tipped the whole lot in. I couldn't believe what I was seeing, he jumped over the exit bars and legged it.
I told an assistant who shrugged and said " Happens all the time!" Several £100's worth of steak. We eventually pay to cover the loses.

Badbadbunny · 20/07/2026 12:25

Lorrymum · 20/07/2026 12:23

I politely stood back while a man was supposedly choosing a steak. He suddenly picked up the entire tray, opened his sports bag and tipped the whole lot in. I couldn't believe what I was seeing, he jumped over the exit bars and legged it.
I told an assistant who shrugged and said " Happens all the time!" Several £100's worth of steak. We eventually pay to cover the loses.

Yep, and the people who buy stolen goods like that are scum too!

Iliketulips · 20/07/2026 12:31

Not a supermarket, but until recently worked at a well known store.

When training, we were told they lose 20% stock value to thieves. We're given methods of distraction, but told to keep ourselves safe. A lot of manpower is spent on this in terms of distraction and monitoring of well known regulars In store. It's time that's not available for genuine customers. That 20% obviously takes away profits for company, but also money for improvements instore, reduces number of staff employed, limits wage rises for hard workers, and reduces amount of training that can be available.

I appreciate it can be hard when you're struggling, but it's absolutely not fair on those that are trying to do the right thing.

EasternStandard · 20/07/2026 12:33

Goldenbear · 20/07/2026 12:02

And you should cultivate your humanity.

Do you mean you’re ok with shoplifting, why?

Imlyingandthatsthetruth · 20/07/2026 12:47

EasternStandard · 20/07/2026 09:47

Do you think it’s ok op?

Given that (s)he's answered every question with a (provocative) question it's quite likely a journo. Happy to be proven wrong.

Whosthetabbynow · 20/07/2026 12:49

DancingonmyOwn88 · 19/07/2026 15:09

I think people nicking the odd item is very common at self- scan checkouts particularly. That sort of stuff largely flies under the radar, because there are others very obviously stealing high value items. Steaks and alcohol, etc. I think the security guard at our local Tesco is there as a deterrent only, as I’ve never seen him intervene.

Steaks and alcohol at our Tesco have security tags (and the washing pods)

Backedoffhackedoff · 20/07/2026 13:04

Imlyingandthatsthetruth · 20/07/2026 12:47

Given that (s)he's answered every question with a (provocative) question it's quite likely a journo. Happy to be proven wrong.

im not sure many journos would waste their time with this tripe 🤣honestly it sounds so self important when people whelp this crap out

LuckyThatMyBreastsArentSmallAndHumble · 20/07/2026 13:07

Whatdidyoujustcallme · 19/07/2026 15:12

The police don’t decide the punishment - it’s the legalisation and courts that do that. Please don’t say ‘police aren’t bothered’ numbers have been cut so drastically you would be horrified if you knew how few are on duty where you are at some points. They’re literally just about able to attend immediate threats to life, unfortunately shoplifting isn’t quite the same. If you want adequate policing I suggest you vote for a party who doesn’t decimate public services.

Like the Tories or Reform in case you are unsure.

toomuchtodooo · 20/07/2026 13:09

I think there’s possibly levels to it? I’ve witnessed people playing supermarket sweep trying to grab booze and meat etc who are clearly thieves trying to pull a fast one. I would and do always report these people to security etc.

On the other hand, I once saw a lady alone with a baby put a tin of formula under her pram whilst she had a basket of a few cheap things. Obviously she may still have paid for it, I didn’t follow her around, but I doubted she would as she had room in the basket. She looked like she was in a bit of a state and I didn’t say anything to anyone. I still wouldn’t now as I felt she looked like she genuinely needed it.

Its hard to say as so many people do try it on, but there’s a difference between someone desperate and someone out to make money from something that’s wrong