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What do you think of people who steal at supermarkets?

207 replies

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 14:30

Have you seen it happen?
Doesn’t seem like police or security care

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CuriousKangaroo · 19/07/2026 16:49

hay5689 · 19/07/2026 16:45

The way the police class it as organised crime in my area is if it’s purposely stolen to sell on. The worst part about it is they know the people doing it but just don’t have enough resources to tackle the problem. There’s always the ones that we don’t see but of the ones that do it blatantly it’s never because they haven’t eaten. I’ve been sat in my local pub when they’ve come in trying to sell it on, it doesn’t help when people buy it from them and create a demand for it.

Interesting, I didn’t know about it being classed that way. I always think of organised crime as big groups working in tandem on a large scale, so wouldn’t have thought to include the people who do it on their own or even in pairs and sell it down the pub. Thank you for teaching me something new!

TheeNotoriousPIG · 19/07/2026 16:50

I would prefer it if they didn't, because it is bad manners. I understand that food prices have increased a lot, and some of us do eat cheap meals when it gets towards the end of our pay-packet (lots of jacket potatoes, vegetable-heavy stews, cheap tinned fish and butter rice here on lean months). We don't all stoop to shoplifting.

It is peculiar when I visit supermarkets around where I grew up, when I go to visit family. It was an affluent area when I was growing up. Now, meat is in locked plastic boxes, and there are plastic covers over the shelves with chocolate bars, to deter- or at least delay- shoplifters. There are very obvious security guards at shop entrances and exits, and staff speak into little mics to tell other colleagues that a known shoplifter has just walked in. It seems very strange in comparison to where I live now. I wish that it was taken more seriously as a crime, because that is what theft is, and if they were punished for it, it would surely serve as a deterrent for other people.

Supersleepysheepy · 19/07/2026 16:51

Loaf of bread in desperation, understandable.

Stealing toiletries or alcohol to sell on, deplorable.

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 19/07/2026 16:56

Supersleepysheepy · 19/07/2026 16:51

Loaf of bread in desperation, understandable.

Stealing toiletries or alcohol to sell on, deplorable.

Shoplifting is an every day occurrence at our store however I don't think I've ever seen anyone steal a loaf of bread. You do get individuals stealing alcohol so probably for own use but I doubt the guy who put 6 packs of lurpak in his holdall was getting it for personal need. Shoplifters never seem to just get 1 of anything, its never desperation.

calflions · 19/07/2026 17:14

The way supermarkets are designed now is interesting psychologically - it makes me feel far more adversarial to the shop than I ever did before.

As a pp said, the locked fridges, the plastic cases make me feel mistrusted.

Plus, the complete automation of everything makes me feel undervalued as a customer and as a human. It is so plain that the supermarket is not there for the community. No staffed tills, no human contact, get your shopping, bag it, pay for it yourself without the company having had to pay a penny on staff. You go in and you think basically I'm doing all the work here myself, and they have broken the social contract - there are no jobs here, no training for young people, no community interaction, no sense of helpfulness or a hub of social life. No positive customer experience.

Just pure profit and transaction.

Those things together bring me closer to shoplifting than I have ever been. I never would, for lots of reasons, one being I don't need to, another being that in principle I don't break the law, like most people.

But recently, on more than one occasion, I've looked round the empty shop, one uneasy, unsupported, security guard at the door, me by the till. I've thought how easy it would be for me to just nick loads of stuff as I go through the self service check out. I can aee how to do it.

And I think how it would be their own fault, for stripping out all of the humanity from the interaction.

Youspurnme · 19/07/2026 17:16

I once accidentally stole a pumpkin from Sainsbury’s. I had put it under the buggy when getting a few other things then forgot to scan on my way out. When I got home I realised so I went back to the shop and confessed my crime. The customer service lady just laughed and said to just take it, it was too much hassle to sort out!

Backedoffhackedoff · 19/07/2026 17:32

calflions · 19/07/2026 17:14

The way supermarkets are designed now is interesting psychologically - it makes me feel far more adversarial to the shop than I ever did before.

As a pp said, the locked fridges, the plastic cases make me feel mistrusted.

Plus, the complete automation of everything makes me feel undervalued as a customer and as a human. It is so plain that the supermarket is not there for the community. No staffed tills, no human contact, get your shopping, bag it, pay for it yourself without the company having had to pay a penny on staff. You go in and you think basically I'm doing all the work here myself, and they have broken the social contract - there are no jobs here, no training for young people, no community interaction, no sense of helpfulness or a hub of social life. No positive customer experience.

Just pure profit and transaction.

Those things together bring me closer to shoplifting than I have ever been. I never would, for lots of reasons, one being I don't need to, another being that in principle I don't break the law, like most people.

But recently, on more than one occasion, I've looked round the empty shop, one uneasy, unsupported, security guard at the door, me by the till. I've thought how easy it would be for me to just nick loads of stuff as I go through the self service check out. I can aee how to do it.

And I think how it would be their own fault, for stripping out all of the humanity from the interaction.

This really hits the nail on the head.

it’s a prime example of turning on each other whilst allowing big corporate to take zero responsibility for their part in increasing theft

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 17:45

DontrockthecaravanGeoffrey · 19/07/2026 15:55

AIBU to wonder why the OP hasn't come back after 90 minutes to update her post or give us her opinion?

She has a history of putting up an OP (asking a question on which she gives no opinion) and then coming back once or not at all.

Because I have a life ?

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chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 17:47

Portmore · 19/07/2026 16:00

I work in loss prevention so seen it all.

It does vary by location but there are many food banks, charities and Safeguarding services that support with food, baby milk, hot meals, toiletries.

I very rarely stop someone who has stolen essential items that they genuinely can't access elsewhere. On the rare occasions that's happened they are safeguarded & referred to appropriate agencies.

Some do it for the 'thrill' some do it because they believe they have some sort of entitlement & supermarkets have more money than them. Some do it because they want things they can't afford.

Buying to sell on for drugs or drug debts is also common, or alcoholics stealing alcohol.

There are also criminal gangs which steal to order large quantities of products such as baby care, chocolate or cleaning products that are then sold on to independent 'mini marts' across Europe.

Yes supermarkets do a lot to deter & disrupt criminal activity & work together with other retailers & police & national crime agency to tackle the most prolific offenders.

What about retail theft?

are there really enough resources to pursue all these shoplifters

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MsMillyMollyMandy · 19/07/2026 17:52

I’m depressed at discovering a new phenomenon of people stealing and then brazenly bragging about their haul.

My hairdresser ( a lady in her fifties) recently told me that among her friendship group people are boasting about taking accessories and costume jewellery from TU at Sainsburys and not paying.
A friend turned up at her house for dinner with several bunches of tulips which she had taken from the local BP / M&S and openly told everyone.
My DIL’s parents have neighbours who are comfortably off but confess to sneaking things out of M&S unpaid for.
They can obviously afford to buy their groceries at M&S but get a thrill out of getting away with a freebie.
Is there no shame in stealing any more?

A recent media article suggested that self-checkouts have resulted in people stealing who wouldn’t dream of trying to slip
goods past a human cashier.

SaraHoliday · 19/07/2026 18:02

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 14:30

Have you seen it happen?
Doesn’t seem like police or security care

It's fairly common in my part of the world.

Mostly wine, cheese, meat and those vape smoking things - as these can generally be sold on quickly.

I was in a supermarket late one night and there were 2 suspicious looking guys walking around separately - both with trollies piled high. I then noticed they kept looking around and they just generally stood out as acting peculiar. I double backed to the first aisle and noticed they were both there too. The next time the barrier opened for a genuine shopper to enter, they both pushed the full trollies out without paying.

A member of staff saw it too and said it regularly happens but staff and security are told to not intervene in case they are attacked.

Another time a 'Dad' had got his child to steal something obviously and then drop it and cause a disturbance so the 'Dad' could walk out with a bag of goods.

As a society, we seem to be deteriorating.

menopausequeen · 19/07/2026 18:04

They are criminals. There’s help available for people ho are genuinely hungry (food banks, charities). Those who steal are doing it for money for other things. They should get a job

Minasama · 19/07/2026 18:04

I think it is disgusting behaviour, with the possible exception of a mother stealing to stop her children going hungry.
Stealing is wrong.

SaraHoliday · 19/07/2026 18:09

Minasama · 19/07/2026 18:04

I think it is disgusting behaviour, with the possible exception of a mother stealing to stop her children going hungry.
Stealing is wrong.

There is a lot of help available - food banks, charities and churches. It depends if that person wants to accept help.

Glitchymn1 · 19/07/2026 18:13

Darragon · 19/07/2026 15:00

Oh and for those people who always jump on these threads saying jail isn’t the answer, I’ve worked extensively in other countries and those with zero tolerance (serious jail time or other horrible outcomes) are the ones where it almost never happens. Contrast that to the UK where I’ve seen people leaving with buggies or shopping trollies full of things they haven’t paid for because they know generally very little happens if they are caught. I feel very strongly about this.

^Agree with this.

Cushionseams · 19/07/2026 18:17

BillieWiper · 19/07/2026 15:39

Annoyed if I notice it. But it depends on the level really. A woman with a baby who's just been left stranded with no income nicking baby food is different from a junkie going in and out clearing out the booze and fillet steaks six times a day.

Worked in a supermarket for 20 years and never ever saw the first, the second, scores of times.

BillieWiper · 19/07/2026 18:23

Cushionseams · 19/07/2026 18:17

Worked in a supermarket for 20 years and never ever saw the first, the second, scores of times.

I guess the first by definition would be someone desperate who only ever did it once or twice. So makes sense you noticed the repeat offenders more often. It must have been annoying to see people just lifting stuff.

RevengeOfTheDirtyLaundry · 19/07/2026 18:23

It's a depressing reminder of how broken our society is - and I don't just mean the UK, I mean, globally.

basiically · 19/07/2026 18:33

I think its none of my beeswax and i dont want to get involved, and get on with what i need to do.

holachicatita · 19/07/2026 18:40

I do think it's bad and I don't condone it for a minute.. however the benefit cheats, the self employed that aren't declaring their earnings and still claiming benefits etc.. are even bigger thieves in my books.

Fiftyandnotsonifty · 19/07/2026 18:42

Dragonscaledaisy · 19/07/2026 15:07

Did you offer to pay for the items she was stealing?

Why should she? For all we know she could’ve been struggling financially herself 🤷🏻‍♀️

MaybeMeansMaybe · 19/07/2026 18:47

DancingonmyOwn88 · 19/07/2026 15:49

Sainsbury’s made billions in profit last year. You might think shoplifting just raises the cost for the rest of us, but it’s chump change to them. They could keep their prices stable whilst adjusting for their losses if they wanted to.

Why should they have to?

That's their business, they're they to make profits. They advertise the price clearly-buy it or don't but don't expect to take it for nothing because someone will be out of pocket, someone is paying for you,even if those pockets are very deep.

Do you think it would be okay to rob anything from any company that made a decent profit? Well, clearly you do.

I wonder if you are a thief or someone who has never made a penny in their lives.

If you're not a thief ,why make excuses for those who are and if you earn your money would you be happy to have your stuff nicked because you make more than Jack down the road?

Comments like yours (some chump up thread said she couldn't get worked up about it) diminish us all. Sadly, the Barbarians are at the gates justifying theft.

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 19:01

MaybeMeansMaybe · 19/07/2026 18:47

Why should they have to?

That's their business, they're they to make profits. They advertise the price clearly-buy it or don't but don't expect to take it for nothing because someone will be out of pocket, someone is paying for you,even if those pockets are very deep.

Do you think it would be okay to rob anything from any company that made a decent profit? Well, clearly you do.

I wonder if you are a thief or someone who has never made a penny in their lives.

If you're not a thief ,why make excuses for those who are and if you earn your money would you be happy to have your stuff nicked because you make more than Jack down the road?

Comments like yours (some chump up thread said she couldn't get worked up about it) diminish us all. Sadly, the Barbarians are at the gates justifying theft.

They make billions and pay virtually no corporation tax. I don’t think a few thefts is going to harm them. And plus they waste so much stock

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GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 19/07/2026 19:04

The reason it’s rife in the U.K. is because unless it’s very high value theft, the police do absolutely nothing.

Gangs come from other countries specifically to shoplift - they know that even if they get caught, they are likely to get nothing but a slap on the wrist - if that.

The UK is ludicrously soft, and the thieves - whether home-grown or not - know that all too well.

SqueakyFromme · 19/07/2026 19:05

I wonder if Anthony Worral Thompson is still banned from Tesco cheese counter