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What do you think of people who steal at supermarkets?

207 replies

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 14:30

Have you seen it happen?
Doesn’t seem like police or security care

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ExOptimist · 19/07/2026 20:37

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 20:28

Say a normal working person who steals a steak because they can’t afford it?

That really is scummy behaviour. Tough shit if you can't afford steak, eat something else. No one has a right to eat whatever they fancy.

It's like saying it's ok to steal a Lamborghini because you can only afford to drive an old Escort. No one in their right mind would think that's acceptable.

People saying it's fine are part of the problem. Not everyone is entitled to have whatever they fancy.

DancingonmyOwn88 · 19/07/2026 20:39

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 20:37

Why? It’s only affecting the company. How is it affecting you? You could steal it as well?

Yes, I could. But if I was on my uppers and couldn’t afford to eat unless I stole, I personally wouldn’t feel so entitled as to lift a bit of fillet steak. I’d probably set my sights a bit lower. What happens when I fancy caviar, or a lobster?

ExOptimist · 19/07/2026 20:39

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 20:37

Why? It’s only affecting the company. How is it affecting you? You could steal it as well?

Are you stupid? Of course individuals stealing from supermarkets affects everyone, because the prices rise to cover the losses due to theft.

Backedoffhackedoff · 19/07/2026 20:40

ExOptimist · 19/07/2026 20:39

Are you stupid? Of course individuals stealing from supermarkets affects everyone, because the prices rise to cover the losses due to theft.

Prices don’t rise to cover theft 🙄

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 20:40

ExOptimist · 19/07/2026 20:37

That really is scummy behaviour. Tough shit if you can't afford steak, eat something else. No one has a right to eat whatever they fancy.

It's like saying it's ok to steal a Lamborghini because you can only afford to drive an old Escort. No one in their right mind would think that's acceptable.

People saying it's fine are part of the problem. Not everyone is entitled to have whatever they fancy.

A lambo costs a lot more than a steak

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ExOptimist · 19/07/2026 20:41

Backedoffhackedoff · 19/07/2026 20:40

Prices don’t rise to cover theft 🙄

Do you know anything about pricing models and how prices are calculated? There is always an element to cover losses from theft.

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 20:41

ExOptimist · 19/07/2026 20:37

That really is scummy behaviour. Tough shit if you can't afford steak, eat something else. No one has a right to eat whatever they fancy.

It's like saying it's ok to steal a Lamborghini because you can only afford to drive an old Escort. No one in their right mind would think that's acceptable.

People saying it's fine are part of the problem. Not everyone is entitled to have whatever they fancy.

You think people are going to care about being entitled when they are stealing. They will just do it anyway

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Backedoffhackedoff · 19/07/2026 20:42

ExOptimist · 19/07/2026 20:41

Do you know anything about pricing models and how prices are calculated? There is always an element to cover losses from theft.

Yes I do- a lot more than you clearly, if you think supermarket pricing is that simplistic

SqueakyFromme · 19/07/2026 20:44

@ExOptimist there was a very patronising PP saying the same thing when a simple google would confirm that it does add on average £150 pa to shopping bills and theft is not a drop in the ocean either as another PP said, it’s actually approx 2 billion pounds

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 20:44

DancingonmyOwn88 · 19/07/2026 20:39

Yes, I could. But if I was on my uppers and couldn’t afford to eat unless I stole, I personally wouldn’t feel so entitled as to lift a bit of fillet steak. I’d probably set my sights a bit lower. What happens when I fancy caviar, or a lobster?

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it’s hard to steal steaks anyway because of the security alarms

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ExOptimist · 19/07/2026 20:45

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 20:40

A lambo costs a lot more than a steak

It's the same principle though. Stealing because you want something that you can't afford.
If people are brought up to think that's ok then they really are scum. They are utterly despicable low lives with no decency or integrity.
Maybe should have worked harder at school, gone to university, got a good job then you could afford what you want.

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 20:46

ExOptimist · 19/07/2026 20:45

It's the same principle though. Stealing because you want something that you can't afford.
If people are brought up to think that's ok then they really are scum. They are utterly despicable low lives with no decency or integrity.
Maybe should have worked harder at school, gone to university, got a good job then you could afford what you want.

you Could go to uni and work hard at school and still be poor. Uni means nothing

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chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 20:46

ExOptimist · 19/07/2026 20:45

It's the same principle though. Stealing because you want something that you can't afford.
If people are brought up to think that's ok then they really are scum. They are utterly despicable low lives with no decency or integrity.
Maybe should have worked harder at school, gone to university, got a good job then you could afford what you want.

If you saw it happening wpuld you say anything to the person

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Backedoffhackedoff · 19/07/2026 20:46

SqueakyFromme · 19/07/2026 20:44

@ExOptimist there was a very patronising PP saying the same thing when a simple google would confirm that it does add on average £150 pa to shopping bills and theft is not a drop in the ocean either as another PP said, it’s actually approx 2 billion pounds

A simple google does not confirm this. Google has no idea what overhead costs, direct costs and profit margin is for supermarket products. They are commercially sensitive and not released.

but let’s just state the obvious- you realise product pricing is largely driven by what the customer will pay don’t you? And you also realise that stock is written off for a wide variety of reasons, not just theft (and even then, the theft could come in any part of the supply chain)

ExOptimist · 19/07/2026 20:47

Backedoffhackedoff · 19/07/2026 20:42

Yes I do- a lot more than you clearly, if you think supermarket pricing is that simplistic

Of course it's not that simple, but to deny that pricing models include any element for losses due to theft is utterly wrong, and if you actually do know anything about pricing you would agree.

ExOptimist · 19/07/2026 20:49

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 20:46

If you saw it happening wpuld you say anything to the person

Yes I would, of course. And I'd go to the nearest staff or security guard to tell them.

SqueakyFromme · 19/07/2026 20:51

Backedoffhackedoff · 19/07/2026 20:46

A simple google does not confirm this. Google has no idea what overhead costs, direct costs and profit margin is for supermarket products. They are commercially sensitive and not released.

but let’s just state the obvious- you realise product pricing is largely driven by what the customer will pay don’t you? And you also realise that stock is written off for a wide variety of reasons, not just theft (and even then, the theft could come in any part of the supply chain)

Read the British Retail Consortium Report.

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 20:51

ExOptimist · 19/07/2026 20:49

Yes I would, of course. And I'd go to the nearest staff or security guard to tell them.

Do you really have that much spare time?

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ExOptimist · 19/07/2026 20:52

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 20:46

you Could go to uni and work hard at school and still be poor. Uni means nothing

Of course university doesn't mean nothing. I doubt that university educated people feature highly in the numbers of shoplifters. They also don't feature highly in the numbers of people living in poverty. That's the great thing about education, it opens doors to a better life.

Backedoffhackedoff · 19/07/2026 20:53

ExOptimist · 19/07/2026 20:47

Of course it's not that simple, but to deny that pricing models include any element for losses due to theft is utterly wrong, and if you actually do know anything about pricing you would agree.

So say it does- do you think when the stock write off charge increases supermarkets

a) increase their price or

b) reduce their profit margin and suck it up themselves?

the answer entirely depends on the product, obviously.

ive just finished watching a talk from a clothes buyer. She estimates volume ordered and unit cost of Zara shoes. Most were sold for between £50-80 and the unit cost was £4-16 per pair.

so say Zara retail shoes at £79.99 and buy them for £12- then add £8 on for overheads/ distribution, including stock write off. Profit £59.99 per pair. Do you really think they add 0.5p/1p/2p to the sales price when theft increases? 🤨

Backedoffhackedoff · 19/07/2026 20:53

SqueakyFromme · 19/07/2026 20:51

Read the British Retail Consortium Report.

Well, obviously not.

but I will just go back to my role directing pricing for a plc tomorrow 😁

ExOptimist · 19/07/2026 20:54

chroniclesofj · 19/07/2026 20:51

Do you really have that much spare time?

It would only take a minute. I believe in the law and that theft is wrong and that people who steal should be punished.
There are several judges in my family so of course I believe in moral and legal behaviour.

JesseDavisGonnaHangOnInThereNSoul · 19/07/2026 20:55

DancingonmyOwn88 · 19/07/2026 20:35

exactly! A lot of people can’t afford steak! Thats a luxury item. If you steal a steak because you can’t afford it that’s a bit of a piss take.

I like prawns id like to munch the most expensive but buy the cheapest that's my price point.
And if I couldn't afford that it would be a packet of skips.😁

Dobeebeedah · 19/07/2026 20:55

Theft has always been a problem. Before modern courts people were sent to the Colonies for theft, or executed. It is the human nature or desperation of some people. From the start of time it has gone on and only the punishment has changed. Nothing will stop it. We have to cope with the consequences.

DancingonmyOwn88 · 19/07/2026 20:57

ExOptimist · 19/07/2026 20:49

Yes I would, of course. And I'd go to the nearest staff or security guard to tell them.

That Is actually how most would-be shoplifters are apprehended and searched, tip offs from shoppers.

CCTV might work as a deterrent or to piece together repeat behaviour but on its own, it’s unlikely to do much because it’s mostly watched in retrospect unless security gets a very clear view of an actual concealment I don’t think it does much. And then of course it’s not actually stealing until you attempt to leave without paying.