Partner hasn’t paid our holiday and now cancelled …would you be angry ?

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We had a holiday to Mexico booked.
It cost £3,900
Every month i have been transferring him £300 for 6 months for my half.
He has told me today its been cancelled as he only paid the £500 deposit
He said he was borrowing in to the money and was going to pay it back but before he knew it he had to find the £3,400 and could only pay £2,000 off it so Tui have cancelled it.

Im so angry
He’s told me he will just book it last minute in June and we can still okay.
He said from next month he’s putting away £1,000
Im so mad

Omg thats awful. I would demand my money back now and refuse to send him anything ever again. I couldnt trust him

So he basically didn't save for it himself? Shows you how shit he is with money then. Not a good look.

I'd be absolutely livid and struggle to trust him ever again.

You should be mad. He's been stealing from you.
Forget the holiday, tell him to repay you.
Then dump his thieving arse.

I’d tell him to give you your £1800 back right now for starters…

I'd be absolutely fuming and I would never trust him with money again. Where has the money gone?

Op get your money back IMMEDIATELY. To me this makes him a liar and a thief, as well as clearly irresponsible and unreliable. And he only confessed when his hand was forced after the holiday was cancelled. I shouldn’t need to tell you the rest of your relationship is likely to be utterly shit if you stay with him.

He won’t have just lost £500. Tell him you want your money back now!

Definitely get your money back from him.

And don't get joint finances.

It sounds like he is not financially responsible. Honestly I would be reconsidering the relationship based on that, because the trust would be gone - the fact that he didn't mention it means he has been lying by omission.

Also, it's likely to cost a lot more if you rebook due to cost of fuel/oil thanks to Trump.

Has he refunded your money?

I would bet my house on the fact that he doesn't have the money to give her back....

He's lied to you, stolen your money and minimised it rather than taking accountability. Why did he keep it? 6 months is a long time to lie to your face and keep accepting your money.

So you’ve given him £1500? So what’s he planning to do get a cheap last minute deal? What if the cost of a last minute holiday only costs £800? Will he transfer you back the difference? I wouldn’t want to go anywhere with him but I’d also want my money back!

You can’t trust him. Where has the money gone? Are you otherwise linked (kids/financially?)

Tell him to return the money to you immediately.

He's financially incompetent and a liar.

Get your money back and then separate. You'll never be able to trust him with a mortgage or shared bills. He's a liability.

He has stolen money from you
Dump him

Has he given you the money back?

Why are you giving him money ? You know he’s a gambling addict.

I think there’s a high probability you’ve lost the holiday and the money.

Now time to lose the feckless partner.

Any chance he’s a secret gambler?
I would be absolutely furious and very disappointed and sad. How are you supposed to be in a relationship where there is deception.
You need to get your money back and find out what he was using it for.

Do not get joint bank accounts and make sure you don’t get joint credit/loans etc.

If you can’t get your money back perhaps see it as a cost related to finding out what a duplicitous twat he is and dump his sorry arse.

Save yourself a fortune and heartbreak in the long run.

I'd want to know where your money has gone for starters 😔

Just read the OPs other threads.

Fucking unbelievable.