Partner hasn’t paid our holiday and now cancelled …would you be angry ?

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We had a holiday to Mexico booked.
It cost £3,900
Every month i have been transferring him £300 for 6 months for my half.
He has told me today its been cancelled as he only paid the £500 deposit
He said he was borrowing in to the money and was going to pay it back but before he knew it he had to find the £3,400 and could only pay £2,000 off it so Tui have cancelled it.

Im so angry
He’s told me he will just book it last minute in June and we can still okay.
He said from next month he’s putting away £1,000
Im so mad

That is stealing.
You surely cannot __have any trust in him?
he has let you down big time
waste of space

So he’s been spending your money? Gambling?

Oh dear, OP. Wrong man. You’ve really picked the wrong man. Get your money back from him and leave the relationship. Before your life is ruined.

I think anyone would be angry. Not only from the disappointment around the holiday. Essentially he has stollen from you, he has lied, he has betrayed you. He isn't reliable or trustworthy, not someone I would want to build a future with.

We can't say anything OP. You are unreasonable to be angry or even surprised, since you know he is addicted to gambling and can't be trusted.
You are also making it possible for him to continue gambling at an even worse rate, by giving him money.

Get your money back and bin him. He's a fucking loser.

He's a gambler? And you handed him money every month? I don't understand how you thought it would be any different?

You're not going on holiday in June either OP. He's not going to miraculously be cured of his addiction between now and June. In fact he has a perfect excuse to continue throwing money away - he needs to win the money to pay you back and book this holiday. He won't.

Get rid, seriously. Gambling addiction is worse than drink or drugs in many ways. You can certainly burn through a lot more money a lot faster..

So he’s been stealing your money every month? Wow, that’s low. I assume you’re ending the relationship ?

He’s stolen your money.
I would be fuming.

Tell him you want your 1800 now. And if you bizzarely decide to stay with him, and I can’t see why anyone would, he transfers you the 1k a month.

Why are you in a relationship with this useless piece of crap?

I'm really not into victim blaming but you were unbelievably foolish for sending money to the man you describe in your other thread.

So you've been giving him 300 quid a month to gamble with then?

Guarantee he convinced himself he would win big and you would never know.

Scumbag. He can start by transferring you £1800 before putting his £1k a month aside???

once it’s retrieved, throw him in the bin.

Oh actually now I recognise a lot of your threads. So this man is a gambler
A liar
A thief
Doesn't help around the house
Pesters you for money to gamble with
Wouldn't give you a lift in the snow

And that's from about half of your threads. I don't think there's any point advising you to leave because it's clear you're not going to.

As they saying goes - A fool and his money are soon parted

Gambling addiction is awful and has low recovery rates. I’m sorry Op, but you should get out before you spend your life supporting him.

Just read from pp op DH has form for gambling.
No danger is he putting a G aside a month.
Oh look there's a flying 🐷

Si basically he nicked £1800 off you?

**so!!!

This android editing problem needs fixing @mn

This is a big red flag. Have there been other instances where he has been unreliable with money or you’ve caught him lying?

I think this would be a deal breaker for me - it is stealing!

So where is the £1,800 that you have paid him over the last 6 months? He needs to transfer that money back to you immediately. I have a horrible sinking feeling, that he doesn't have your money. If that is the case, he's not trustworthy. Do not have any shared finances with him.

Read the thread - many, many instances sadly.

Ive got a feeling OP wont come back.

My exh gambled our wedding fund money and blamed my ds...

He's gambled it.