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What do you wear for a xmas party at a shoes off house?

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Isthisreasonable · 12/12/2025 18:03

We were having a discussion at work about what to wear for a xmas party at a shoes off house. Most people felt it was automatically less dressy (say jeans and nice top) because you'd be wearing socks which would look silly if you were all glammed up. Others would go glammed up regardless. Some would be very casual.

All this assumes that the host hasn't specified a dress code. What would you wear?

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Isthisreasonable · 12/12/2025 23:46

I always go for something that works with socks, so casual trousers and a top. Tights are too much of a slip hazard. Slippers aren't an appealing option. Mules I find uncomfortable, my slippers are either oversized & cutesy or care home chic.

I always assume that a no shoes house won't allow shoes at a party. There's no difference in cleanliness between everyday shoes and party shoes if they've been worn outside.

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Sohelpmegod25 · 12/12/2025 23:49

I think tights and some nice slippers - if people want to protect their carpets I’d respect that.

Trekkerbabe · 12/12/2025 23:50

I wouldn't go. I get very cold feet and can't walk around in winter without shoes or slippers. It pisses me off when it's expected with no consideration for reynauds sufferers.

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50Balesofgrey · 12/12/2025 23:52

I wouldn't go. Sounds horrible and filthy to walk around without shoes in someone else's house

gogomomo2 · 12/12/2025 23:53

I’d try and make sure my sock or tights didn’t have holes in the toes!

singmoon · 12/12/2025 23:54

Abracadabra12345 · 12/12/2025 18:08

I’d do that too but I’d feel very flat-footed and uncomfortable

Do you always wear high heels then if dressed up? I never wear high heels, so interested that not wearing them feels strange to some people.

gogomomo2 · 12/12/2025 23:55

@Trekkerbabe I take slippers, I have Reynards too and shoes off is the norm in my house and every house I have ever been to

Pineapplewaves · 12/12/2025 23:55

Novelty festive slippers - Primark have some nice Grinch ones in at the moment…..

Trekkerbabe · 12/12/2025 23:57

gogomomo2 · 12/12/2025 23:55

@Trekkerbabe I take slippers, I have Reynards too and shoes off is the norm in my house and every house I have ever been to

That's why I wouldn't go. I refuse to go to a party in slippers!

gogomomo2 · 12/12/2025 23:58

I’d also be relieved because I hate heels and fancy shoes so it means I can wear my boots to the party and won’t get comments about my utilitarian footwear

Snowontheroof · 12/12/2025 23:58

Foot jewellery?

ExitPursuedByABare · 12/12/2025 23:59

I wouldn’t go.

Ponderingwindow · 13/12/2025 00:04

I’d bring one of my many pairs of orthopedic slippers.

We are a shoes off house, though I don’t enforce it for guests now that dd is grown. I just prefer to keep shoe traffic to a minimum. I need foot support at all times though, so I have a pair of orthopedic shoes or slippers for every situation.

dontmalbeconme · 13/12/2025 00:05

Slops and socks, I guess. But in reality, I'm not friends with anyone uncouth enough to have that rule. Love from Margot xx

Jerry? JERRY?

pizzaHeart · 13/12/2025 00:07

BDenergy · 12/12/2025 18:08

People are so weird about taking their shoes off. When I go to someone’s house I always assume I’ll be taking my shoes off tbh. If I don’t need to it feels weird.

You can come to my house anytime, drinks and snacks are guaranteed 😉

Denim4ever · 13/12/2025 00:08

I'm tall, I used to model, shoes off has zero impact on the outfit 🤷‍♀️ but definitely not a downgrade to jeans if you see that as a downgrade.

PurpleLovecats · 13/12/2025 00:10

I would assume it wasn’t dressy if in a house? I’d wear leggings and a sparkly tunic and socks!

strongermummy · 13/12/2025 00:34

slippers!!
i always forget mine. But I have a friend who always remembers his!!
I would go glammed up and take slippers

MokaEfti · 13/12/2025 00:35

I wouldn’t go. How unhospitable!

Gettingbysomehow · 13/12/2025 01:09

Don't wear black socks they shed all over the carpets.

ChocolateCinderToffee · 13/12/2025 01:11

I’d take black satin slippers to wear.

Okiedokie123 · 13/12/2025 01:50

Slippers. Fancy ones if the occasion requires.

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