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IDontHateRainbows · 02/11/2025 09:37

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 02/11/2025 09:31

Navy patrolling our waters. No boats should make it to our shores.
All attempts are intercepted and they are transported to a compound where they are processed and carefully monitored. Women and children are given housing and schooling separate to the adult males.
The majority of adults males should be taken back to their country of origin.
Only males seen to be participating positively with the process should be permitted to stay.
Any males showing violent tendencies or worrying ideologies should have their application immediately cancelled and should be deported within the week.
Adult males should not be given money or permitted to leave the compound. They should be fed, kept warm and given access to English lessons etc.

That all sounds great but for those arriving with no documentation how would we know where to send them back?

Livelovebehappy · 02/11/2025 09:37

jasflowers · 02/11/2025 09:18

Yes but in this case we'd be increasing migrants in the EU, France is likely to have an RN Govt soon, they will not accept mass boat returns.

So of course the EU would be against it.

We could tow back out to sea, miles from French waters, ban media coverage of the drownings and turn a blind eye i suppose.

Would you be happy with this?

Of course I’m not suggesting killing people in order to stop the boats. But rational discussions with France need to be had. We can forewarn them that we intend to take a more active approach with returning them, and in turn they can decide on a strategy their end. We need to work together.

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 02/11/2025 09:37

My concerns is we do not know the background of these individuals. How many have committed crimes or murder at home?

Kendodd · 02/11/2025 09:37

Staringintothevoid616 · 02/11/2025 09:23

Quite and what kind of parent - having escaped to a safe EU country would put their child’s life in danger in a small rubber boat to cross the busy shipping lane and rough seas of the channel. I’d stay in France ratherthan risk my child’s life like that -

I think they were being deported from Europe having had asylum refused.

Ratafia · 02/11/2025 09:37

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 02/11/2025 09:31

Navy patrolling our waters. No boats should make it to our shores.
All attempts are intercepted and they are transported to a compound where they are processed and carefully monitored. Women and children are given housing and schooling separate to the adult males.
The majority of adults males should be taken back to their country of origin.
Only males seen to be participating positively with the process should be permitted to stay.
Any males showing violent tendencies or worrying ideologies should have their application immediately cancelled and should be deported within the week.
Adult males should not be given money or permitted to leave the compound. They should be fed, kept warm and given access to English lessons etc.

Where do you suggest that compound should be? If it's not on our shores we would have to have permission from another country, and we would have to be absolutely certain that that was a stable country, not a Rwanda with wars raging on its borders. Why would you force families apart? How do you "take" people back to their country of origin if the country of origin won't accept them, or if you know they will be killed or tortured on arrival? Where would we deport those undesirable males to, if nowhere will take them? What happens when you have processed them all and ascertained that most have a right to asylum?

Have you actually thought this through in any way?

PumpkinsAndCoconuts · 02/11/2025 09:38

Nolletimiere · 02/11/2025 08:29

If Starmer was handed a ‘sinking ship’ then why did he take on the job?

Why did he promise to ‘smash the gangs’ ad nauseum?

Was he ‘mistaken’ or did he lie? Which is it?

I should have written leaking ship.

but truly, has the UK seen an increase in living standards these last 10 years? Median income seems to have decreased, material deprivation increased and household disposable income per person decreased / is lower than before the pandemic. And considering the state of the NHS, the concerns (shared by many) considering the educational achievements of children and teens…

Vital, booming and prosperous aren’t words that come of mind.

WithIcePlease · 02/11/2025 09:38

Timeforabitofpeace · 02/11/2025 09:32

I can’t understand why more can’t be done about knife crime. It’s rife, and appears to be very common for certain young men to carry them. You can’t carry a knife legally without good reason, anyway. I think the whole issue needs a review, including the industry which produces the dodgiest ones favoured by criminals.

No point at all in wasting money on a review.

Do you actually know what happens on the streets?

Last year, in Birmingham, men were firing fireworks out of a rocket launcher, laughing and running down the street. I've not seen those on Amazon or on the high street yet people get hold of such things.

Those intent on evil will always find something to use

merkinmanipulator · 02/11/2025 09:39

Broadly, in the last century, those who immigrated to the UK were either from societies with cultural traits broadly in line with the UK (whether that was as a result of British colonisation or not), were highly-educated, or were hard working, although I'm aware that in certain areas this was not always the case. Over the course of this century so far, the balance has shifted slightly to encompass those with no cultural similarities at all with the UK (including those with values, or attitudes - whatever you want to call it - totally at odds with those of native Brits and many established immigrant communities), poorly-educated, clannish, and sometimes actively quite hostile to the UK and its people.

Posters can often (not unreasonably) claim that it's wrong for British pensioners to tip up in Magaluf and sit at Ye Olde Irish Pub and yell 'un beerio por favor Manuel' all day, but can't seem to apply the same thinking to the fact that we're now seeing an influx (and yes, not all recent immigrants, by any means) of those countries' equivalents of the scallies and yobs you'd happily move away from on a train if they were white British.

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I have considered this, and wondered whether it is more a hatred of the (white) British, rather than a defence of minorities.

Something does not add up.

Ratafia · 02/11/2025 09:40

Livelovebehappy · 02/11/2025 09:37

Of course I’m not suggesting killing people in order to stop the boats. But rational discussions with France need to be had. We can forewarn them that we intend to take a more active approach with returning them, and in turn they can decide on a strategy their end. We need to work together.

And what happens when France says sorry, no, we only co-operate with our EU partners on these matters?

MyNimbleBrickCritic · 02/11/2025 09:40

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 02/11/2025 09:34

They do get lesser sentences.
It’s rare enough for a murderer to receive a life sentence, never mind GBH with intent.

Every single person convicted of murder gets a life sentence.

It's mandatory sentencing.

IkeaJesusChrist · 02/11/2025 09:40

Nestingbirds · 02/11/2025 09:37

Are you suggesting people couldn’t be outraged at racist attacks against them perpetrated by those that absolutely despise them? That we should just meekly accept Islamic attacks on our soil and shrug our shoulders?

Why don't we riot when white British people commit mass attacks?

EasternStandard · 02/11/2025 09:40

Nestingbirds · 02/11/2025 09:37

Are you suggesting people couldn’t be outraged at racist attacks against them perpetrated by those that absolutely despise them? That we should just meekly accept Islamic attacks on our soil and shrug our shoulders?

They do seem to be.

WhenDiedreMetKen · 02/11/2025 09:40

SoEasyToFall · 01/11/2025 23:17

The report on Sky said it was from Newcastle to London.

Newcastle fans are known to be a bjt shitty, in sorry to say. Like I said. It was just my first thought. I’m not going to bend myself backwards into some sort of racism rage when we don’t know anything about the identity of the suspects.

No one said you have to.

Tauranga · 02/11/2025 09:40

Toony · 02/11/2025 09:28

I am afraid I hold the same view and it has taken me a long time to arrive at that view.

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Shock horror.

To the people saying we have free speech.
Do we?

cottonwoolie · 02/11/2025 09:41

It's so fucking predictable. Brown person? Cue days of rioting and weeks of spewing unfiltered hatred. White person runs over football fans in Liverpool? He's a kind family man and it's so out of character for him.

But there are not riots after every terror attack. Southport wasn't terror & I would think if a white boy stabbed and killed children there would be a lot of angry people.

AnareticDegree · 02/11/2025 09:41

ChicJoker · 02/11/2025 09:36

Why are you so desperate for the opposite? You seem quite excited to start this thread.

For fuck's sake, people.

It makes little difference at this point whether the terrorist was white, black or brown.

What matters is whether he was already known to police, how he got on a train in the first place what the useless bunch of politicians intend to do about knife crime.

The government wants you all to be distracted by racial arguments, because then you can't focus on the real issue, which is how to reduce crime.

Livelovebehappy · 02/11/2025 09:41

Vinorosso74 · 02/11/2025 09:29

FFS, there are 9 people with life threatening injuries in hospital, their families and those who were on board the train.
The most important thing now should be them not speculating on stuff coming from social media. There is too much hatred being stirred up in the UK right now. Think of them, not stirring up more hatred.

You’re trying to deflect. It’s because we have 9 people in hospital that we are demanding action to stop it happening again, tomorrow, next month, next year. It just doesn’t wash - the ‘let’s focus on the victims and ignore the reasons behind it’. It’s happening far too frequently now for us to ignore the difficult decisions needed.

Firealarm1414 · 02/11/2025 09:41

LeafyMcLeafFace · 02/11/2025 09:35

I get that frustration, this is part of the problem. Very few people are having a nuanced and balanced conversation.

Those people who are ‘anti immigration’ (I’m using the term as short hand), are frustrated because they see issues and feel unheard. The only people who seem to be hearing them are NF, YL, people who are using this as an excuse commit violence. But at least it feels like they’re listening.

The people who are ‘pro immigration’ (again short hand) are frustrated because they see the lies and manipulation that people are being fed and try and explain that. In the process, undermining people’s initial and genuine concerns. They come across as unaware and patronising because they’re giving a perspective which is broader than the day to day lived experience of people who are struggling with it. And so the cycle continues.

So the people who are genuinely concerned and affected by this are just too stupid to understand because they dont have the "broader perspective" of their better educated peers and are just more susceptible to manipulation and lies? Could you be anymore patronising? I mean you're kind of making you're own point there as to why this situation has come about, but you still feel the need to denigrate people who disagree with uncontrolled immigration

NetZeroZealot · 02/11/2025 09:41

EasternStandard · 02/11/2025 09:18

Really? And more than the actual crimes?

Not more than crimes, no.
But social media stokes misinformation, fear & hatred. Let’s not forget that the vast majority of immigrants are good people who work hard & contribute to the economy.

TiredofTheirCrap · 02/11/2025 09:41

It's more than likely a terror attack.

gigantojoy · 02/11/2025 09:41

Crimble123 · 02/11/2025 09:27

Im thinking its terror related as even the news outlets know hardly any info and the police are keeping it under tight wraps.
Why else would the news not know anything at this point?

This. And no user comments allowed. Apparently there will be a briefing this morning.

Based on previous incidents, this will be either terror rated or someone severely mentally ill, who's is being treated in the community with meds not working. If there was one perpetrator both are possibilities, if there were two masked men involved as has been reported in some places, it is more likely to be terror related. I am desperately upset for the victims of crime and the psychological and mental traumas they incurred.

Online, this will be used to sow uncertainty and polarise opinions as per usual. I wouldn’t be too sure that those insisting it was football-related aren’t actually doing so to encourage more voices saying it wasn’t (it was obviously NOT football related in any case). Every 'side' seems to have its share of ulterior motives and dishonesty.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 02/11/2025 09:42

Ontheedgeofit · 02/11/2025 09:37

I have just skimmed this thread but did I just read that someone was blaming knives and suggesting we should make less dangerous kitchen knives?

Clearly fish filleting knives are are a menace to society,

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