I get that frustration, this is part of the problem. Very few people are having a nuanced and balanced conversation.
Those people who are ‘anti immigration’ (I’m using the term as short hand), are frustrated because they see issues and feel unheard. The only people who seem to be hearing them are NF, YL, people who are using this as an excuse commit violence. But at least it feels like they’re listening.
The people who are ‘pro immigration’ (again short hand) are frustrated because they see the lies and manipulation that people are being fed and try and explain that. In the process, undermining people’s initial and genuine concerns. They come across as unaware and patronising because they’re giving a perspective which is broader than the day to day lived experience of people who are struggling with it. And so the cycle continues.