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We do not care Club.

153 replies

Ontobetterthings · 09/07/2025 21:57

Have you seen the We do not care club on tik tok? It's run by a lady especially for women hitting peri/menopause who makes announcements about what we do not care about anymore.

In the spirit of the WDNC Club I'll go first. I do not care anymore for going out late and staying out til early hours.. If I can get back for 9pm or not go out that's great 🤣

What do you not care about anymore?

OP posts:
OhHellolittleone · 09/07/2025 21:58

I no longer care about mascara. I don’t care that my eyes look tiny.

Theunamedcat · 09/07/2025 22:00

Putting my bra on around the house in case I get a visitor i even took the bin out tonight in daylight no bra in a tshirt

Theunamedcat · 09/07/2025 22:01

OhHellolittleone · 09/07/2025 21:58

I no longer care about mascara. I don’t care that my eyes look tiny.

Dye your eyelashes if you can be bothered i do it occasionally it does make a bit of a difference

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TheChosenTwo · 09/07/2025 22:02

I’ve seen her on Instagram and laughed a lot!

if we’re adding what we don’t care about for me today it’s that I don’t care if you’re hot 😂

ExitPursuedByABare · 09/07/2025 22:04

I no longer wish to make cakes.

humptydumptyfelloff · 09/07/2025 22:06

Yes I’ve seen it.
absolutely brilliant 🤩
in the spirit of the I do not care club , I do not care that my feet need filing and my toe nails need painting ,
i do not care that my hair wash day is today but I’m not doing it

i do not care that my knees look like they’ve collapsed downwards with the extra flab I suddenly gain and can’t lose which makes me look odd

i do not care that my thin summer dresses look grumpy and have no shape,because they are cool and help when I have a hot flush in the temperatures we currently have here.

I do not care that I sit most evenings after work and watch trash tv instead of walking for three miles to appease my stepper.

F1LandoFan · 09/07/2025 22:08

I absolutely love this woman!

I do not care if you can see hairs sprouting out of my chin… I’m between waxes and now struggle to see them.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 09/07/2025 22:09

I used to care if people were making stupid decisions, now I let them get on with it.

Gingernaut · 09/07/2025 22:11

I love Melani

The updates from the city and regional chapters are hilarious

All the glasses!!

I do not care if you can see stubble - I have to give the acne a rest every now and again and can't shave the zits

Ahsheeit · 09/07/2025 22:12

I do not care what others think of me. The ship has sailed.

Coffeeishot · 09/07/2025 22:13

Ontobetterthings · 09/07/2025 21:57

Have you seen the We do not care club on tik tok? It's run by a lady especially for women hitting peri/menopause who makes announcements about what we do not care about anymore.

In the spirit of the WDNC Club I'll go first. I do not care anymore for going out late and staying out til early hours.. If I can get back for 9pm or not go out that's great 🤣

What do you not care about anymore?

She's great isn't she her dead pan approach is hilarious, I follow her on instagram. I do not care that i have a meno belly it is what it is !

CitizenZ · 09/07/2025 22:15

I love her, she's great.

I do not care if I found a pair of Wallis jogger trousers so comfortable, that I bought another 5 pairs so I could wear them everyday.

emmetgirl · 09/07/2025 22:22

I no longer care if people don’t like me.
I like me.
I no longer care if you don’t find me attractive.
Don't like the way I look? Don’t look at me.

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 09/07/2025 22:24

Oh so many things. Last week I couldn’t even be arsed to make dinner twice in the hot weather.

countdowntonap · 09/07/2025 22:25

i don’t care that I dress more practical than stylish
I don’t care that my car resembles a bumper car
I don’t care that my knees are a bit stubbly because I forgot this dress rises up when I sit down.

F1LandoFan · 09/07/2025 22:28

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 09/07/2025 22:24

Oh so many things. Last week I couldn’t even be arsed to make dinner twice in the hot weather.

on the hot days, we have cereal dinners in this house.
I do not care.

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Ontobetterthings · 09/07/2025 22:30

Haha! These are all brilliant 👏

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LordBummenbachsMagnificentBalls · 09/07/2025 22:30

I do not care how shit I look in shorts as a short fat person. For many years, since childhood, I have not worn shorts because they do not suit me. But now I DO NOT CARE. I am wearing the most comfortable stretchy shorts. In Tesco. On dog walks. When popping to friends houses.
Do I look good?? no
Do I care?? NO

Youcanpayit · 09/07/2025 22:32

I do not care if you think I'm saying mean things. I could be meaner.

Newmumburnout · 09/07/2025 22:32

I do not care that since I have started doing less housework the house looks a bit more untidy..I have more time for fun things.
I don't care that I am a couple of stone bigger than I should be.

Unsettledtoday · 09/07/2025 22:32

I do not care for fashion trends. If i like it and it suits me, thats enough for me

putitovertherefornow · 09/07/2025 22:38

I do not care for the tik tok so I will unfortunately not be able to take up this opportunity.

yeesh · 09/07/2025 22:38

I love her!

I do not care about shoes, I wear my trainers everywhere now (unless I can go barefoot). I have leopard print ones if I go anywhere nice 😂.

FeedingPidgeons · 09/07/2025 22:39

"We do not care if we are wearing leggings.

We are dressed for today. And for tonight.

Possibly also for tomorrow"

😂

Nopenousername · 09/07/2025 22:42

Theunamedcat · 09/07/2025 22:01

Dye your eyelashes if you can be bothered i do it occasionally it does make a bit of a difference

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Typical mumsnet advice and if she cared about how her eyelashes look like she could just wear mascara 🙄