We do not care Club.

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Have you seen the We do not care club on tik tok? It's run by a lady especially for women hitting peri/menopause who makes announcements about what we do not care about anymore.

In the spirit of the WDNC Club I'll go first. I do not care anymore for going out late and staying out til early hours.. If I can get back for 9pm or not go out that's great 🤣

What do you not care about anymore?

I don't care that I can't laugh or cough without peeing, it's an age thing and I'm getting there fast

I absolutely love that woman and her club ❤It's very old fashioned, the idea of a club, and it took me right back to my childhood and the clubs I started and joined . Sadly, I'm too old for her club (post menopause) but I hope she gets loads and loads of followers and makes a bomb out of it.

@momager1 DH and I also have blue and pink jobs. I don't care if people disapprove.

I truly dread the thought of how the laundry would look if DH got his hands on it!

🤣🤣🤣

I like what you did there 😂😂

I retired recently. I do not care that management haven't given me anyone to train and I'll be gone in 2 weeks. I certainly don't care enough to take the zero hours conteact they are offering.

When you show me endless photos of your grandchildren I do not care. I only ever liked my own children and I do not care about any others.

Exactly @BoredZelda . And it means I can stay in my nice comfy bed when I wake up stupidly early.

I do not care if other people have plans. I’ve got plans for today too. My plans are just as important as yours. I’ve had to fit my plans around other people for years. Now it’s my turn.

This still stands even if the plans were to do bugger all all day!

LOVE her work. 😍

I stopped ironing after the kids left school.
I never iron and I don't care!

@MinnieMountain and @BoredZelda , I agree - the only reason I am still married as opposed to divorced/doing time for murder is that we have separate beds and therefore a chance of good sleep.

And I Do Not Care if anyone thinks that is unsexy. If you're that bothered, you only have to walk to the next room to get some.

Damn right it does.

Fully signed ups member!! Love her so much-she seems to really have hit a nerve and ppl are flocking to not care!!

I do not care that the house is a bit tired and could use a scrub but it is too bloody hot. I'll clean when the weather changes!!

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DK__ND-sLq_/?l=1&hl=en-gb

This is Melani explaining the ethos.

I'm not peri menopause but it will come for me one day.

But I don't care about:

• going to things I don't want to go to
• wearing a bra 80% of the time
• I care a lot less what other people are doing

I don’t care that I’m of an age where other people say I shouldn’t be wearing shorts. I’ll get my good looking legs out when I want.

i do not care to chase friends for friendship. If they wanted to…they would.

i do not care that work seems to think I should be grateful to work for them. They’re lucky to have me.

oooo gosh! That felt good!!!

I don't care about wearing make up. I bought some expensive stuff for my wedding 18 years ago, not worn any since.

I also don't often look in the mirror and have a Cduella grey streak in my wavy hair.

I don't care about growing old. I am privileged to get to experience it.

I do not care about -
wearing what I like instead of what suits me - comfy is best, despite showing my fat lets in shorts and flabby arms in strappy tops. Too old to care.
cooking - I have a husband who does that much better than me so I let him go on thinking I can only cook mince
cleaning the house - better things to do with my time and we bought dark grey carpets anyway so they don't show the dog hair
wearing makeup - such a faff to take off and I have hay fever anyway so get itchy eyes
being PC - I like saying what I think and no longer care what other people think of me
having expensive holidays - rather take the dog and husband somewhere nice (in the UK, in our lovely caravan) for walks
gardening - just got slabs and gravel laid - whoopee! No more mowing, no more weeding. Perfect for reclining with a book in the shade.

I do not care about getting dressed if I'm not going anywhere. I will stay in my comfy nightshirt.

I am wearing a massive unflattering kaftan today. I love it because the fabric creates my own personal breeze when I walk around in this heat. I do not care that it makes me look enormous.

I absolutely love this!

Yes! Including if my colleagues think I'm weird. Just started a new job as a TA....I do not care if you all prowl the playground, I am going to sit on the bench and be available to chat to kids. I do not care if you don't like the fact that I haven't brought my kid into worship due to the fact I can see they aren't coping. I do not care that you think all learning has to be done at a table, we are sitting on the floor to do maths.

I do not care that anyone had been nominated for a professional "award" of any sort. I hate back-slapping awards evenings and no longer care if people think less of me for giving them a swerve.