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We do not care Club.

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Ontobetterthings · 09/07/2025 21:57

Have you seen the We do not care club on tik tok? It's run by a lady especially for women hitting peri/menopause who makes announcements about what we do not care about anymore.

In the spirit of the WDNC Club I'll go first. I do not care anymore for going out late and staying out til early hours.. If I can get back for 9pm or not go out that's great 🤣

What do you not care about anymore?

OP posts:
EllatrixB · 09/07/2025 22:45

Ahh I love that lady!! ❤️ I follow her on Insta.

We do not care that non-wired bras are not as supportive...we are where we are.

YetiRosetti · 09/07/2025 22:49

I do not care if you left me a voicemail asking me to call you back. I do not want to call you back.

putitovertherefornow · 09/07/2025 22:53

I do not care if people are disconcerted by me saying 'No' instead of 'Yes' to whatever favour it is they are expecting me to do for them.

Do I care if my refusal causes them considerable inconvenience? NO. 😎

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Kneeslikethese · 09/07/2025 22:55

I do not care that my hair no longer seems to have a style, let it be, just sitting atop of my head flolloping about.

CosyRoby · 09/07/2025 23:00

I see her on Instagram , she’s so funny and totally get all her points lol.

I do not care that my knickers have holes around the waistband , they are M & S comfy mega pants and I love them.
I do not care that certain people at work don’t like me , I am happy to ignore them forever and it impacts my work life zero percent.
I don’t care if you want to walk slowly , I will still walk fast and around you on a pavement.

HunnyPot · 09/07/2025 23:02

I no longer care about frumpy clothes. It’s all high end chic for me these days

MotherofPearl · 09/07/2025 23:03

I do not care about finishing books I don’t enjoy, especially worthy, highbrow books that in the past I felt I really ought to read and like. Looking at you, One Hundred Years of Solitude. <yawn>

Now, if I don’t enjoy a book I don’t keep flogging a dead horse out of some misplaced sense of duty. I simply choose something else.

anothercortisolqueen · 09/07/2025 23:16

I do not care about anything as long as I’m working from home….. if I have to go to the office then I care about 3% ….
especially now the world has gone to sh*t

Screamingabdabz · 09/07/2025 23:20

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 09/07/2025 22:24

Oh so many things. Last week I couldn’t even be arsed to make dinner twice in the hot weather.

Why are you arsed to ‘make dinner’ at all? Why is it your job?

Discoprincess6 · 09/07/2025 23:24

EllatrixB · 09/07/2025 22:45

Ahh I love that lady!! ❤️ I follow her on Insta.

We do not care that non-wired bras are not as supportive...we are where we are.

What’s her name on insta pl

NewsdeskJC · 09/07/2025 23:25

I think my favourite is
"We do not care about excelling. We will be meeting expectations."
Too fucking right says I.
I also love the 3 pairs of reading glasses.

OnlyTheBravest · 09/07/2025 23:25

anothercortisolqueen · 09/07/2025 23:16

I do not care about anything as long as I’m working from home….. if I have to go to the office then I care about 3% ….
especially now the world has gone to sh*t

^ This

I just can not deal with the level of stupid that is out there.
100% common, 0% sense!

SpeculatingRooks · 09/07/2025 23:29

I do not care that a school mum blanked me at the school play because our 8 year olds had a minor altercation over a chocolate chip cookie.
10 years ago I might have worried myself sick over it, now...nope
Edited to add 10 years ago it would have had to have happened to one of my other children as this one wouldn't have been born yet! 😄

Gruttenberg · 09/07/2025 23:31

Discoprincess6 · 09/07/2025 23:24

What’s her name on insta pl

Here you go

https://www.instagram.com/p/DJmHvXhOI3K/?hl=en

Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/p/DJmHvXhOI3K/?hl=en

Newmum738 · 09/07/2025 23:34

I don’t care about getting up in the morning. I don’t set an alarm and don’t stress about it!

Petitchat · 09/07/2025 23:40

F1LandoFan · 09/07/2025 22:28

on the hot days, we have cereal dinners in this house.
I do not care.

We had a cereal dinner tonight because I was watching tennis.

I do not care

msmillicentcat · 09/07/2025 23:43

I do not care about big social events any more. I would much rather stay at home in my comfies!

HerbertPootle · 09/07/2025 23:48

My favourite of hers:

’We do not care if you’re tired. We’ve been tired since you were born.’

NoNameMum · 09/07/2025 23:55

NewsdeskJC · 09/07/2025 23:25

I think my favourite is
"We do not care about excelling. We will be meeting expectations."
Too fucking right says I.
I also love the 3 pairs of reading glasses.

I loved this one too! I literally do not care about performance reviews, appraisals and feedback! Just tell me if I’m not doing my job properly. Otherwise just put a tick in the meeting expectations box and my salary in my bank account. Thank you very much.

NoNameMum · 09/07/2025 23:57

Discoprincess6 · 09/07/2025 23:24

What’s her name on insta pl

Justbeingmelani

JustSawJohnny · 10/07/2025 00:09

My favourite of hers is 'We do not care if you are hungry - we did not lock the kitchen!'

😂

ifIwerenotanandroid · 10/07/2025 00:11

The Donna Sue one is a work of genius.

putitovertherefornow · 10/07/2025 00:19

Screamingabdabz · 09/07/2025 23:20

Why are you arsed to ‘make dinner’ at all? Why is it your job?

Why do you care? Anyway, for some people it is their job all the time. Lone parents with young kids for instance, or people who live on their own, or those with partners who work shifts or are in the armed forces and away for months at a time.

ItDoesntHaveToBeASnowman · 10/07/2025 00:30

Urgh I so wish I didn’t care about any of this stuff.

continues plucking chin hairs

ZacharyQuack · 10/07/2025 02:21

For FIL: I do not care how long it took you to drive here. I do not care about the traffic on the way. You’re here now and all I care about is when you’ll be leaving.

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