We do not care Club.

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Have you seen the We do not care club on tik tok? It's run by a lady especially for women hitting peri/menopause who makes announcements about what we do not care about anymore.

In the spirit of the WDNC Club I'll go first. I do not care anymore for going out late and staying out til early hours.. If I can get back for 9pm or not go out that's great 🤣

What do you not care about anymore?

I love this! Haven't seen her Instagram but will be checking it out.

I do not care that I have a bit of a flabby saggy midriff - I'm wearing a bikini on holiday anyway.

I do not care for spending time with people I don't really like for the sake of being sociable / looking like I have lots of friends. And I certainly do not care for curating my life on social media.

I’ve never heard of her (don’t do tick tok), but I think I bloody love her, lol. I don’t care that I appear to have chocolate ice cream down my top and it’s too hot for me to be arsed to change. I also don’t care that I haven’t worn underwear in days - it’s too hot for that too, lol.

Absolutely 100 per cent. If I don’t want to call you back I won’t. Very liberating not to be people-pleasing. If I want to I’ll put the recycling out whilst still in my nightie. If you don’t like it, don’t look.

I do not care that you don't like the fact that I have no voice mail.

I'm in your club, I've a lot less longer to live than ive already been alive and lifes too short!

I don’t care if you want to chat. It’s the Wimbledon Men’s final at 4pm, one of my fave events of the year. Do not talk to me, I will be busy eating my strawberries and cream. Leave me be to watch something I want to watch for an effing change.

I don't care that you care that I don't have a mobile phone. Why should it bother you? I have a land line, if you want me ring that and I will answer it if I am home.

To add. I don’t care that you’ve just contacted me asking puerile shit just to get me to reply. I’ll reply when I’m ready and it won’t be yet

This has given me permission to get my pale white legs out without fake tan! It’s such a fkn palaver & I can no longer be arsed. I officially do not care & it feels bloody great. Like why is it my job to look a certain way/on pint/attractive constantly? It’s like undoing years of brainwashing. ? As Melani says my legs are my legs ain’t gonna look no other way they’re my legs. Viva menopause liberation!!

Having had my eye lashes dyed once a few years ago…I care even less for eyelash dye than I care for mascara. I do not care if my eyes look small. I’m very fair, so on the same vein I also do not care about eyebrows pencil. Nor dye ;)

funnily enough, although not my intention, I’ve had people assume I’m younger than I am many more times since I stopped caring. My age often comes up due to convos about having babies, I don’t just go round chatting about my age.

I don't care who wins this Wimbledon match any more. It has gone on too long. Could someone just hurry up and win?

I do not care to look at your many many holiday photos that you insist on posting the family WhatsApp . If I was that keen to see the place, I’d go myself ( although can’t be arsed currently) and I don’t need to see a load of photos of you, I know what you look like already and as for pictures of your dinner each night . Just no words

I do not care what diet you are on and what you ate for dinner or what weight you have lost.

I do not care about some long winded story you want to tell me about something amusing that happened to you once many years ago, because it wasn’t funny at all and it’s boring me.

I don't care if my feedback and reviews are vital to your business. If there's anything wrong with your product or service, rest assured you will be the first to know.

Oh yes. I have absolutely no interest in giving feedback about my very ordinary GP appointment, change of address discussion, or piece of clothing. It was fine, move on.

I love her! ❤️ She made me laugh ALOT the other day when I really needed it. Resonated so much!
'Don't touch that thermostat ' 😆

Melani has put a 2 part video up on instagram she is a bit overwhelmed at the response she has got bless her i think she now has over a million followers and thats blown her mind a little bit.

I don't not care that you know I am going through a long and painful process to get rid of facial hair.

I'm trying to rest until tomorrow and the phone keeps ringing. People are leaving voicemails.
Not listening and I don't care...

Sorry @Stitchintime
that wasn't meant to be a reply to you.

But I bet you don't care! 😂

It made me lol x

YES! been following since the first video, she's amazing xD

I do not Care that i'm wearing sandals and my toes are not manicured.

She is great isn't she ?

Well in a similar vein I dont care that I havent taken off my mascara properly.

She's fab. I found her early doors and every video she posts has me nodding along!