We do not care Club.

[Ontobetterthings]

Have you seen the We do not care club on tik tok? It's run by a lady especially for women hitting peri/menopause who makes announcements about what we do not care about anymore.

In the spirit of the WDNC Club I'll go first. I do not care anymore for going out late and staying out til early hours.. If I can get back for 9pm or not go out that's great 🤣

What do you not care about anymore?

I no longer care about make up, don’t wear any for work anymore.
Just can’t be bothered, I am clean and my hair is brushed. That’s as good as it gets!

Harder to find things I do care about? Only my children, husband and dogs, to be honest.

So many of the things already listed are things I also don't care about - looking good and what random people thing about me in particular.

I do not care to wear a bra

I do not care if I look like ive been dragged through a hedge

I do not care that people judge me

I do not care for getting dressed up and going out

I do not care for

Most stuff really. But particularly men. I don't give af about them at all, I don't care for their opinions. I can never speak to one again for the rest of my life and be happy!

I’m with you there. The Tesco man was due earlier and I thought “No, sod it - why should I put a bra on just for you?”

Granted, maybe I should have gone with a top. But hindsight’s 20/20.

I am turning 40 and am increasingly in the I DON'T care club
I don't care for lots of make up
Girls' nights out
Staying out late
High heels
Your pregnancy/baby
You talking endlessly about your children- a little is ok, hours is not.

Anything. I pretty much don’t care about any of the things I’m supposed to care about. Life is too short to care about things which are just not important.

I care about people. And dogs, I care about them a lot!

I do not care if someone cancels on me. In fact it thrills me to bits to not have the hassle of having to change into less comfortable clothes. I’m happy at home being left alone

I do not care about my grey hair coming through.

In the same vein, I do not care that I have radiotherapy rash showing above my bikini line.

I no longer care about bra's. Inside or outside the house. If people are scared of my breasts thats on them.

We need little fabric bracelets with WDNC printed on them. And then when someone asks us to do something we do not care about, we can just raise a hand and show the bracelet.

I’ve never seen this before but she’s amazing. I love how she keeps a straight face.

I don't 'do' Instagram either. 😂

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100084748600077

I do not care if someone else posted a link

Same. Although to be fair was never that arsed if I'm liked. Plenty do love us 😊

I do not care about wearing pretty underwired bras. I’ve got big boobs and I need comfort. I don’t care about sexy.

I do not care about wearing tights. No man would walk around trussed up like a chicken. I won’t either.

I do not care if my dog barks a bit too much in the garden. Yours barks all day long and mine barks back. And dogs bark. And we got ours before you and not just because we were bored in Covid times.

I do not care about heels and I won’t wear them. Carrie Bradshaw looks like a pained fashion victim. I’m past all that shit.

I do not care about spending £200 on a cut and colour at our local salon. I get more compliments from my £9 colour and my daughter’s haircutting skills.

Whoops, my earlier post was unclear. I meant above the top bit of my bikini top. Which I also wear as I find them more comfortable and I don’t care.

I do not care if people judge that DH and I sleep separately.

Not caring to finish books I don’t enjoy was a revelation.

I no longer care about attractive men. My fanny no longer gallops. It’s like someone gave me the antidote to men. Ii also no longer have any feelings towards babies aside from ‘that’s nice’. Those hormones are all completely dead.

I do not care that I am now dead from the waist down, sex was a faff at best

I do not care that I don't wear make up that much and when I do I have forgotten how to apply it so I look like aunt Sally. That is my face now, deal with it.

I do not care that I need my knickers to come over my belly button. Yes, I can tuck them into my bra, so what?

I do not care that I can curl, style and even plait my leg hair. Yes, that is corn rows on my legs, what of it?

I do not care that I love my cat more that I love 99.999% of humans. He is my world and I do not care what you think.

But apart from all that I am LOVING this thread 😁

I do not care if people judge that DH and I sleep separately.

Same @MinnieMountain. It is bliss knowing I’ll get a full night’s sleep!

Oh, definitely this.
It is SO liberating to just "let them".
Also, I don't care if you'd rather have X, I've made Y for dinner. Eat it, or don't, I don't care.

I don't care for friends who just constantly talk about themselves, and just drag you down with their constant drama.

I've had various gynae procedures over the past month or so which involved loads of people within eyesight of my bare chuff.
For the first time in my life I didn't care about how hairy I was down there, nor that it's half grey. I didn't "tidy up", and I didn't apologize for it either.

I am early retired (still late ..very late 50's) Cooking all meals IS my job. My husband would gladly do it, and has before if I am ill or really tired, no thanks. He tries, but his food sucks. My Job because I am so very much better at it (retired chef/restaurant owner) His job is to keep the grass cut, wash the car, all DIY around house and he is the one that has to walk the dogs each evening for an hour while I cook. Works for us. I have NO inclination to mow the grass or any of that shit, except I do go on the morning walk with the dogs (and sometimes himself as well) as I like it. No shame in having "jobs" that are designated to each spouse. On the other hand, I have not cleaned a toilet in years, and we have three. OOPS was trying to quote another poster about why was dinner HER Job. Sorry. Quote fail