Good lord. This post is so full of wrong that I actually had to leave my bed at 1am to go and sit on my desktop PC in order to reply to you.
For someone who claims to have autism and ADHD you sure don't seem to know jack shit about either condition.
On the autism front, I'll concede that there's a particular aspect of autism in some people that has them think they are RIGHT about ALL OF THE THINGS all of the time. You seem to have that in bundles!
I should know; I was diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder many, many years before it twigged that I'm almost certainly autistic. It used to make me think I was right about everything all the time too. I told a bunch of friends about this diagnosis (97% certainty off the back of some 200 question personality test at a mental health trust) who said 'huh? Well, you're opinionated, but that? Nah, you're way too thoughtful.'
ALL OF THESE THINGS AFFECT DIFFERENT PEOPLE DIFFERENTLY.
Do you think the majority of the population really want to stand in the shower and scrub their armpits for 15 minutes straight? Hell no. Baths and showers bore me to tears, and I want to be in and out in 5 minutes flat. I'm happy to use deodorant
OTHER PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE YOUR DISCIPLINE
That's the way it works you see, because brains are different.
Let me tell you it took me two years to 'condition' my ADHD partner into remembering how to shower then dry then use deodorant and then wait. In the course of those two years I had to throw out a dozen of his favourite new shirts out where he'd keep forgetting and the smell was so bad that after two 60 degree washes it would still stink when I ironed them. You really think a grown arse man wants that level of humiliation in his life? And throwing away some of his most favourite things?
Prior to that it took me about a year, including numerous huge, handwritten signs in the bathroom to get him to stop wiping his toothpaste laden mouth on our hand towels every day.
There are so many more examples I could give you but it's honestly stressful just writing up two; take my word for it, people with INATTENTIVE ADHD have very little control over what they do and don't remember. Before we got together, I'd message him each morning and he'd say he was tired because he'd forgotten to go to bed.
Huh? Come again?
No. Literally forgot to keep checking the time to make sure he wasn't up past midnight. Many, many times. It had never occurred to him to set a reminder of when he should be going to sleep, because, again, inattentive ADHD - and he couldn't bear to have a clock in the room because of light sensitivity/not tolerating ticking sounds (autism). It really does seem to wipe out the best of common sense a lot of the time with my other half.
So, please, before you judge everyone in the world on the spectrum to be EXACTLY the same as you, with exactly the same capabilities, please go away and learn more about your various conditions, because you spouting this absolute bs off in a thread with various people who have ADHD relatives, who, I have to say, genuinely have to suffer on a daily basis to cope with their loved one's conditions, is deeply, deeply insulting and upsetting.
And, if you can't be bothered to learn, do the world a favour and just scroll past the threads and resist the temptation to comment.
"Everyone can do it because I can do it and anyone who does not is just lazier than me" is possibly the weakest argument I've ever read on the internet.