AIBU husband w*nking

[FarmerJojo81]

What are people's views on this? I know my husband does it and he says he needs to orgasm daily so if we don't have sex for a few days then I understand he gets frustrated. I turn a blind eye but know it goes on discretely - fine. For context we have had issues with our sex live since DC was born but have been trying to get back on track and this week have been having regular sex. Today I walked into the bedroom and he was having a wank whilst watching something on his phone. I was annoyed as it was morning and I was in the kitchen getting child's breakfast. I came looking for husband to see where he was. Child could have easily walked in. I was livid.

He is now annoyed with me as I "shamed" him and overreacted. I have apologised for storming out but not for being angry and said I don't take responsibility for his actions. He's saying it's all about how I make him feel and connected to our sex life problems.

I don’t think there was an agreement tbf. But they had sex 3 nights in a row, and a few hours later he was wanking to porn while she was downstairs with their child, getting ready for a day out, and he really couldn’t keep his hands off his dick? And if he needed porn to get off, he was hardly desperate. Jesus. Sad fuck.

Is there a legal limit in number of orgasms someone should have lol?
I'd normally wank after sex with my DH next to me helping out. When I feel sexy I like enjoying every opportunity.

Why should man keep hands off his dick ffs?
Sexual activity is free, healthy and does not make you fat.

"Yeah I agree, the number of women who are wringing their nun’s habits over a bit of wanking, I bet they don’t wank or even know where their G spot is."

I've noticed before that if women don't like porn, or think that wanking is a perfectly normal, natural, enjoyable but private activity, they are subjected to a particular sort of misogynist abuse. I can only assume that the people who dish out the abuse have been so indoctrinated that actually thinking about the implications is too scary.

He might have a high sex drive and it just wasn't enough?

Jesus Christ, I don’t give a flying fuck how often people wank. He can wank his dick right off, I don’t care. Good for you it’s consensual, How are you missing the point?

Boo fucking hoo. Then wank away when his wife isn’t doing domestic shite.

Do you have to be desperate to have a wank? Serious question! I mean when is it okay for you to have a wank, only in circumstances where you haven’t had sex within the last week/month year? When would be acceptable? Because personally, I always find if I have a lot of sex I want more, I think that’s quite normal. Maybe, just maybe he was looking at a picture of his wife while he was masturbating. I mean we don’t know any of the real story but I don’t think having a fiddle in your bedroom is the crime of the century many of you are making it out to be. People have differing levels of sex drive. If you are annoyed that he should be downstairs helping out then fine, be annoyed but it’s not a huge deal masturbating in a bedroom, under the covers.

Poor man cant have a wank without 10 pages of discussion. I hope he gets to see this thread.

10 page discussion 😂😂😂 facts

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You find wanking a turn off? You've said wanking and porn so you obviously think wanking is distasteful.

Do you not masterbate?

Woah woah woah. You are saying they have a problem because he wants daily? Are you serious? I masterbate daily. So does my husband I think. It's completely normal

I don’t give a flying fuck about wanking, but wanking to porn, without a thought about the women and children abused and trafficked? Funnily enough, yes, that’s a turn off.

I thought trafficking was reserved for the sex workers. I've not heard of adult entertainers being trafficked.

@MrsPalmandher5Daughters "I thought trafficking was reserved for the sex workers. I've not heard of adult entertainers being trafficked."

Sweet summer child.....

Are you serious?

Missing a point of what?

Do you seriously think that once you are in a relationship you should ask partner for a permission to touch your own body?

Or else where is a "consensual" problem exactly?

Try reading op’s post again. You’re being deliberately obtuse and you’re not coming across as terribly bright. My life is too short to reply to you again.

Maybe you just need to get some action to calm down lol.

Why? What is wrong with wanking when your spouse is doing domestic shite? On a practical note, that doesn’t leave much of a wank window when you have children.

You are so welcome to them. Clearing up the dregs wouldn't be my thing but you go for it.

He was wanking in private!! The whole idea that one’s bedroom is a public space is what is batshit.

There is also zero evidence he was looking at porn. He could be looking at a sexy photo of OP for all anyone knows.

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No one needs to justify wanking. It’s a perfectly normal fine thing to do.

we like to be well organised so we always mark our wank windows in the family calendar and then structure domestic chores,
work calls and social commitments around them.