If you could say just one sentence to a person that you’ve never been able to…

[Arlanymor]

… what would it be?

I’ll go first: “You didn’t make a noble sacrifice, you went back to a relationship where you are used and abused in front of your children who will see this dysfunction as the ‘model’ for their future relationships. Wake the fuck up.”

You’re too afraid to push yourself so you always settle and then feel let down. You’ve been raised to be risk averse and now it’s ruining all of your dreams. Stop people pleasing and do what you want with your life.

You need therapy and psychiatric help. I've had more than 40 years of your mad crazy histrionics. You've been threatening suicide since I was born. Flying into toddler rages at any opportunity. You've used your children and husband as emotional punchbags. I didn't stand a chance at any relationships nevermind a making a marriage work with the upbringing I've had.

Thank you for this thread OP. That was very cathartic.

No.

I would have said that as a 17 year old, which could have changed the path I ended up living.

And also..

Yes.

To the fit bloke who asked me a few years ago. Never even got his name 😂.

Oh, gosh -gotta think about this.
One sentence.
Brilliant thread -thank you!

you are disgraceful and you have caused me so much heartache and grief. I hope you are found out and the whole lot of you rot in hell for the lies and twisted words.

Those fillers make you look older, not younger, you puffy faced bitch

that felt nice

You think you uncovered the meaning of life and relationships, yet you are still self-obsessed, constantly judge everyone around you and shut down any dissent, just like you always did.

You have fallen out with everyone you’ve ever been close to….it’s not them….it’s you.

You have severe body dysmorphia and an eating disorder, and if you keep on abusing senokot it will eventually kill you.

I know you can only focus on your anxiety about how you look and you tune everything else out. You quote one doctor from over ten years ago who told you a low fat diet was healthy, and you ignore all the medical advice from the last two years since your weight has become a massive medical issue, the ones who are telling you to eat ice cream, biscuits, gravy, sausages, full fat milk, rice pudding, etc.

You are currently seriously underweight and it has caused problems for your health and for your whole family, who have had to drop everything and help sort you out. And no, you cannot start dieting again as soon as you get to the mark the doctor wants you to reach.

Admit the problem and get help. It is not too late.

Wow with a couple of these I feel personally attacked 🙈

Sorry - ended up with paragraphs...

You are a good and kind person but an absolute nightmare to work with and you're making everyone's life a misery because you have to be right all the time. It happens at every workplace and you're the common denominator of every drama and argument. Stop.

You are a disgusting piece of shit for what you have done. Manipulative cunt who is reaping what you sowed.

😊👍

You're not 'honest' and 'real' you're really fucking rude and massively self absorbed.

You are not disciplining the children. You are a bully. I hate you

When you said "Let there be light" did you really know what on Earth (clever eh!) you were starting?

It looks like you are trying to undermine me because you are.
So is your husband and it is not just me.

It's not love, it's a manifestation of trauma.

To the aging, wealthy New Yorker when I was 18 and he was about 70? I should have said yes. Yes.

I wonder what would have happened, too.

Your addiction has turned you from a decent, kind, funny person into a manipulative, whiny, selfish, boring arse, and I can’t stand fucking Lizzo!

Why did you do it? You are what you did and you will never change.

Why did you do this to me......