If you could say just one sentence to a person that you’ve never been able to…

[Arlanymor]

… what would it be?

I’ll go first: “You didn’t make a noble sacrifice, you went back to a relationship where you are used and abused in front of your children who will see this dysfunction as the ‘model’ for their future relationships. Wake the fuck up.”

You're a shit mother and a shit grandmother, you're the most selfish person I know and you need to think about why you don't have any friends.

You’re very welcome and for me too.

To be fair, you can have more than one sentence if you like. Let’s get it all out in a safe space!

You are a terrible fucking mother and are refusing to change no matter how much support you are offered. I hope your child ends up in care.

@Arlanymor Great- well in that case can I add- you ruined Corfu with your creeping around on Grindr and your mum is a giant enabling bellend too 👍.

(not you, OP, I’m sure you are lovely 🙂)

Dc I will always love you despite your 'crimes'. The fact I will likely never see you again or tell you that has killed a part of me inside..

You are so bloody lucky to still have your amazing dad to support you: please stop attacking him and appreciate his love and care for you. I'd give anything to have my dad back from the illness that killed him 15 years ago.

Ah bless you, never been to Corfu so hoped it wasn’t me! Get it all out!

I didn't deserve the way I was so easily discarded.

I really feel you with this one.

@Arlanymor

I have another one if that's ok.

You are a shameless grief vampire.

You are the most selfish person I have ever met. Your wants and needs always come first, not your children or your elderly parents. Going to the theatre, weekends away, out with your flashy new man. You put all of these things before your own kids. Why should your 13 year old have to cook every week for their younger siblings while you go swanning about? Why should your brother and sister have to do all of the hard work for our parents ? The grass only looks greener to you due to your incredible selfishness.

Of course… I didn’t realise you knew my sister!

I wish I'd never met you.

@Arlanymor

Not my sister, but I could write an essay about the sister I do have!

We’ll have to exchange notes one day!

And just walk away, you were in the wrong. You took everything from me and still tried to tell people it was me, every last little bit of me you destroyed and now you don't even care about the kids, your kids you damaged a long the way.
Sorry for the re-quote of my own post.
This feels really good!
Thank you OP for this post!

You’re so welcome, it does you good to get it out doesn’t it? Say the words you never could say. Have at it!

Sending me to boarding school aged 7 was for your benefit, not mine. Please stop kidding yourself.

You are the most selfish and entitled person I’ve ever known, but my god are you good at convincing people you’re the victim. Bravo.

When did you and your husband become such two faced cunts exactly ?

You're right!
I've always had amazing support from family and friends but could never let out the actual words I want.
It means I would have to admit I'm not the strong person they all think I am, when in fact I want to put my pj's on, never leave the house and eat lots and lots of cheese 🤣
Instead I've rated here, feel good for it. Will once again put on my big girl pants and fight another day tomorrow 💪🏻

I learned a lot from you, I just don't think it was anything I needed to know or that made my life better.

And you were crap in bed.

You are both selfish, manipulative, narcissistic cunts.

i have spent most of my adult life in therapy to recover from my abusive childhood. And yes, hitting and kicking your kid is abuse.

And gaslighting that ‘we’re all one family’ does not make it true,

You never deserved a daughter like me you pair of cunts.