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'The hope IVF brings has a worrying negative impact on mental health- the devastation of it not working/miscarriages, the debt people get into and the breakdown of relationships. The anxiety of finally having the child you want, then not actually enjoying parenthood because its draining, keeping those feelings to yourself because you think you should love every single moment- good or bad for the child you always wanted.'
How is this exclusive to IVF? It isn't just parents of IVF children who feel this way, or who get into debt, finding parenthood draining?
You mention the mental health aspect of IVF on patients. Well, being that I have been on both sides of this, I can assure you that the mental health impacts are far, far worse believing you won't have children of your own, like what you have, than the rollercoaster of emotions that fertility treatment brings.
I had 6 cycles of IVF, all paid privately (because the NHS don't hand out IVF treatment like smarties and love hoop jumping!) from the age of 23 to 28 - not because of a health condition but because of a botched operation on my husband by the NHS when he was 2! So, no, my child won't be more likely to require IVF than anyone else would. I didn't get into debt for this, we simply planned our finances like any couple would when planning for pregnancy!
Your main point in your first post was that IVF was the WORST scientific/medical breakthrough ever on a moral and ethical way! Incidentally, I'd go with bombs for worst scientific breakthrough morally & ethically! But go on to contradict yourself by saying that it's because of old people this rendering us overpopulated? You think overpopulation is down to the tiny percentage of couples who require IVF and not down to old people living longer (like you said) or people having more than one child (like yourself!)?!
Lastly, IVF provides no benefit to society? Tell that to the children that have grown up and gone on to become doctors and nurses and all other kinds of people providing services to the public! My son wants to become a Forensic Investigator, so hopefully will provide a benefit to society by helping to nail criminals!
Anyway, it's good to debate things and I really do mean that!