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randomusernam · 21/05/2024 12:17

I'll go first ...

B&M is over rated

Most of the home decor is tacky
I can get cleaning products at in the supermarket without a separate trip.
It's not super cheap like people say when you really compare the prices

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MountCaramel · 21/05/2024 23:40

2boyzNosleep · 21/05/2024 23:30

I don't really know how to express what I'm trying to say but I'll try.

Overpopulation is a fact but this is from people surviving childhood and living longer. Not something that I'm bothered or have strong opinions about. I'm NOT saying that anyone struggling to concieve should not have IVF and that they should adopt. If IVF weren't an option, more couples would probably consider adoption- probably a low percentage.

I did not adopt nor have I had IVF. I am very much aware of how privileged and how hypocritical I come across.

The point I was trying to make was that when you consider IVF purely from a disconnected, entirely void of emotion POV, there does not seem to be any benefit to society overall. Especially with the success rate of successfully having a child being so low. How much debt people are willing to take on by trying multiple rounds of IVF, once they've already used all their savings.

Obviously to the women and couples that have had to go through that journey it's a miracle if it works. For those that were unsuccessful its heartbreaking and can significantly impact their mental health, sometimes worse than before IVF.

You have one side saying the world is overpopulated and then you hear about countries struggling with low birth rates. So which is it? Either the world is overpopulated or we have declining birth rates. It can't be both as it doesn't make sense.

catlady7 · 21/05/2024 23:43

Fatnold · 21/05/2024 20:19

Vegans are very dull.

This is so cathartic 😜

Vegan garlic bread is shit

Outliers · 21/05/2024 23:45

Soft parenting is breeding a generation of weak, fragile, and entitled individuals.

catlady7 · 21/05/2024 23:46

Martinii · 21/05/2024 21:15

Breastfeeding might be beneficial for a short while but makes no difference in the long run. The biggest factors for health are diet, environmental and modern medicine. The kids I've known who always have some bug or illness were exclusively breastfed from smug parents spouting nonsense

And I've known formula fed babies to be ill a lot or have allergies 🤷‍♀️

seeitthroughmyeyes · 21/05/2024 23:46

Nanos is crap and incredibly expensive for some chicken

Snowonthebeachx · 21/05/2024 23:47

2boyzNosleep · 21/05/2024 23:30

I don't really know how to express what I'm trying to say but I'll try.

Overpopulation is a fact but this is from people surviving childhood and living longer. Not something that I'm bothered or have strong opinions about. I'm NOT saying that anyone struggling to concieve should not have IVF and that they should adopt. If IVF weren't an option, more couples would probably consider adoption- probably a low percentage.

I did not adopt nor have I had IVF. I am very much aware of how privileged and how hypocritical I come across.

The point I was trying to make was that when you consider IVF purely from a disconnected, entirely void of emotion POV, there does not seem to be any benefit to society overall. Especially with the success rate of successfully having a child being so low. How much debt people are willing to take on by trying multiple rounds of IVF, once they've already used all their savings.

Obviously to the women and couples that have had to go through that journey it's a miracle if it works. For those that were unsuccessful its heartbreaking and can significantly impact their mental health, sometimes worse than before IVF.

We have falling birth rates in this country so arguably we should be making IVF easier.

The success rates aren't incredibly low if couples have three rounds which is recommended. It often doesnr work but it's not a 'miracle' if it works.

If we are really thinking on benefit to society level then IVF can be expensive but if a couple can afford multiplie rounds and multiple children then those children are more likely to grow up to be higher rate tax payers and pay for your pension!

Also just the benefit to the parents of getting to be parents.

Adoption is not an easy option because we don't live in the 1950s where there was a supply of unmarried mothers and newborn babies. Thankfully!

2boyzNosleep · 21/05/2024 23:47

I am not blaming the parents at all and definitely did not mean for to come across that way.

When I worked I neonates there were a larger number of babies from IVF than naturally conceived. There's a higher chance of prematurity or multiple births with IVF.

I've just looked up the success rate and for a live birth it's 32% under 35, so not far off. https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/ivf/#:~:text=Chances%20of%20success,for%20women%20aged%20over%2044
The 45% that you're talking about is for successful fertilisation.

I do not mean that people struggling to conceive should never have IVF or should adopt. That's not how the world works.

nhs.uk

IVF

In vitro fertilisation (IVF) is one of several techniques available to help people with fertility problems have a baby. During IVF, an egg is removed from the woman's ovaries and fertilised with sperm in a laboratory.

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/ivf#:~:text=Chances%20of%20success,for%20women%20aged%20over%2044

Teajenny7 · 21/05/2024 23:55

Ryland Clark has no talent.

yummyscummymummy01 · 22/05/2024 00:10

The gender debate is not a black and white one and there are actually a lot of grey areas. Both sides intolerance to one another has become toxic and ultimately neither side will be on the 'right' side of history.

SheerLucks · 22/05/2024 00:32

I would actually love a return to just four terrestrial channels on TV rather than smart TVs with endless streaming options.

I have an ever growing list of 'must see' recommendations from friends (and DH...) that I just can't find the time to watch.

My parents live nearby and I visit often. They don't have a smart TV and it's so lovely to hear them say "We're watching this new BBC/IITV drama etc. Or just "There's this really interesting documentary we'd like to watch on the history of coach travel in the UK" etc.

I always have such a better time watching these things with them, and discussing it during and after, than the segregated experience of my family of four all watching different things on different devices with headphones...

Garlicked · 22/05/2024 00:52

yummyscummymummy01 · 22/05/2024 00:10

The gender debate is not a black and white one and there are actually a lot of grey areas. Both sides intolerance to one another has become toxic and ultimately neither side will be on the 'right' side of history.

Hmm. So are you saying some people can change sex?

That opinion would be unpopular with mammalian biology.

Gagaandgag · 22/05/2024 01:05

Social media ban until the age of 18.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Anxious-Generation-Rewiring-Childhood-Epidemic-ebook/dp/B0CGWS3JQ6

NecessaryNC24 · 22/05/2024 01:14

I think Rylan should embrace his natural ginge 👨‍🦰

Swanbeauty · 22/05/2024 01:20

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Withdrawn at OP's request.

suki1964 · 22/05/2024 01:52

ManilowBarry · 21/05/2024 20:27

A mixed breed dog is a mongrel no matter what silly fancy name it's called - Labradoodle, Cavapoo, Cockapoo, Morkie, Pomsky, Puggle, Scnoodle, Cavachon, Chiweenie etc

You're a mug for paying lots of money for a mongrel.

Sorry but you are getting a bit mixed up there

A mixed breed is indeed a mongrel

However the breeds you have named are crossbreed, specifically crossed to enhance/change characteristics

Because Pugs are so badly bred in the past ( and there are calls on banning the breeding of them ) for example, pugs are now crossed to another breed so their muzzles become longer to help with the breathing issues they have

https://www.thekennelclub.org.uk/dog-breeding/first-time-breeders/how-to-breed-a-crossbred-dog/

How to breed a crossbred dog | Kennel Club

If you’re thinking about breeding crossbred puppies, it’s important that you understand how to do this responsibly and for the right reasons.

https://www.thekennelclub.org.uk/dog-breeding/first-time-breeders/how-to-breed-a-crossbred-dog

Sushilover14 · 22/05/2024 02:11

Kids under the age of five shouldn’t be allowed in cafes or supermarkets.

CelesteCunningham · 22/05/2024 06:04

MountCaramel · 21/05/2024 23:40

You have one side saying the world is overpopulated and then you hear about countries struggling with low birth rates. So which is it? Either the world is overpopulated or we have declining birth rates. It can't be both as it doesn't make sense.

It is both - globally we're overpopulated and the efforts to feed and clothe that population are terrible for the planet (deforestation, emissions etc).

But in developed countries the birth rate is falling and we have more old people than young people, which is an economic rather than environmental problem.

BadLad · 22/05/2024 06:22

MountCaramel · 21/05/2024 23:40

You have one side saying the world is overpopulated and then you hear about countries struggling with low birth rates. So which is it? Either the world is overpopulated or we have declining birth rates. It can't be both as it doesn't make sense.

Countries are struggling with low birth rates because a society with a high percentage of retired and elderly people faces numerous social and economic problems. Capitalism requires an ever expanding consumer base.

However, from an environment perspective, fewer people needing to be fed, employed, housed and clothed would be better. In that respect, the world is overpopulated.

I see someone else has put it better while I was writing that.

MountCaramel · 22/05/2024 06:28

@BadLad @CelesteCunningham thank you, this makes sense.

1questionfromme · 22/05/2024 06:34

Life would be made better if all social media channels were banned

Dogs should not be dressed in twee little coats, be allowed to sit on chairs made for humans or be allowed into eating places. People who infantilise their dogs are cruel

Voting should be compulsory for anyone 16+

We do not deserve this planet and it will be better off without humanity surviving on it

There is nobody alive who looks better after having cosmetic surgery on their face and, yes, it is always obvious

As a nation the English are unpleasant and uneducated

FragileIsAsFragileDoes · 22/05/2024 06:35

Compulsory equal shared parental leave.

Relationship breakdown between parents is an Adverse Childhood Experience and should be more widely recognised as such. It is an argument for children being born within some kind of legal bond between parents and greater difficulties in breaking that bond than currently possible (though obviously safeguards are still needed).

Males are males and females are females - no-one can change sex and the idea that it is possible is anti-scientific and unbelievably societally harmful.

CrispieCake · 22/05/2024 06:40

Going to challenge the natural fibres thing.

Although I agree that natural fibres are more comfortable, a smidgeon of synthetic fibres are useful to stop moths also enjoying the garment in question. I tend to avoid 100% wool for this reason and look for something with a high wool content instead. Mothballs and cedar wood don't seem to keep the buggers away in our house!

Garlicked · 22/05/2024 06:56

CelesteCunningham · 22/05/2024 06:04

It is both - globally we're overpopulated and the efforts to feed and clothe that population are terrible for the planet (deforestation, emissions etc).

But in developed countries the birth rate is falling and we have more old people than young people, which is an economic rather than environmental problem.

Erm, no, we don't have more old people than young!

Age 00-25: 20,437,104
Age 60-90: 16,814,195

That's 21.5% more under-25s than over-60s.

And most people wouldn't count 60 as 'old'.
Age 65-90: 12,736,451

60.4% more under-25s than over-65s.

ONS data, UK, 2022.

Muncie · 22/05/2024 07:02

Saying you have an allergy to a certain food unless you are anaphylactic makes it harder for people with a life threatening condition

Alalalalalongalalalalalonglonglilong · 22/05/2024 07:02

People who don't have kids but post unhelpful comments on parenting threads are assholes and need to get a life.

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