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What incels reckon makes a good woman:

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valensiwalensi · 09/04/2024 12:20

This is the list posted by a bunch of morons who should not be allowed the internet:

Loses weight after pregnancy
Low body count/dresses modestly
Dress size 12 or lower / no FUPA
Waist to hip ratio 0.7
No trauma
Balanced PH levels/bubblegum pink
Reasonably sized forehead/areolas
Can cook and clean
No single mums
No stretch marks
Open to labiaplasty
Has low iron levels
Can spell coconut with her waist
Not a feminist
Not moody during her period
Doesnt believe in starsigns
Doesnt nag

At first I laughed SO HARD - wtf does low iron levels even mean? But then honestly I started to feel sad and angry that this bullshit incel culture and porn is shaping young mens approaches to what women should be.

Its SO gross.

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Aswellisnotoneword · 16/04/2024 07:04

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Men who have unprotected sex then whinge about the outcome are idiots. I've just read back and seen that your colleague is actually the woman. I got so bored with your irrelevant derail about your colleague and imaginary condom prickers that I skimmed over the posts and missed that detail- I apologise.

Comedycook · 16/04/2024 09:17

Tartaniscool · 16/04/2024 06:34

The outcome was the same . He got stuck with a kid he didn’t want. It was her only option I guess. I can see so many ways that that is going to go wrong.

Seriously, you're still going on about this colleague. This can't be healthy.

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 16/04/2024 09:23

One might wonder why one poster insists to post on a thread about (hateful, violent, abusive ) men with comments about one (possibly) badly behaved woman.

NonPlayerCharacter · 16/04/2024 09:26

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 16/04/2024 09:23

One might wonder why one poster insists to post on a thread about (hateful, violent, abusive ) men with comments about one (possibly) badly behaved woman.

One might indeed wonder that.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 16/04/2024 10:20

Tartaniscool · 16/04/2024 06:34

The outcome was the same . He got stuck with a kid he didn’t want. It was her only option I guess. I can see so many ways that that is going to go wrong.

The outcome was the same but the mechanism is different and that makes the ethics of it different. She didn't leave any genetic material inside him by skipping some pills. She didn't tamper with his body or what he was wearing on his body by skipping some pills.

She interfered with her own body and he was happy to create a situation where she could do that to his cost by willingly going bareback when condoms were available to him.

The implication of your postings are that what she did is comparable to the form of rape known as stealthing or to poking holes in condoms, which would IMO constitute sexual assault if either partner did it. It isn't, because the only body she affected was her own.

Tartaniscool · 19/04/2024 21:13

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 16/04/2024 10:20

The outcome was the same but the mechanism is different and that makes the ethics of it different. She didn't leave any genetic material inside him by skipping some pills. She didn't tamper with his body or what he was wearing on his body by skipping some pills.

She interfered with her own body and he was happy to create a situation where she could do that to his cost by willingly going bareback when condoms were available to him.

The implication of your postings are that what she did is comparable to the form of rape known as stealthing or to poking holes in condoms, which would IMO constitute sexual assault if either partner did it. It isn't, because the only body she affected was her own.

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The ethics of it are exactly the same. She deliberately got pregnant in order to make it more likely for him to stay with her. Very immoral.

Tartaniscool · 19/04/2024 21:15

Comedycook · 16/04/2024 09:17

Seriously, you're still going on about this colleague. This can't be healthy.

Maybe I should laugh at her lack of prospects instead? She is surprisingly arrogant for someone with no prospects,education or career. We'll see how quickly he marries her. I'm guessing he won't.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 19/04/2024 21:18

Tartaniscool · 19/04/2024 21:13

The ethics of it are exactly the same. She deliberately got pregnant in order to make it more likely for him to stay with her. Very immoral.

She deliberately got pregnant

No. He got her pregnant and willingly took that risk. If her contraception had failed and she'd declined an abortion, he'd be in the same situation: an entirely predictable outcome that can be easily avoided by him wearing a condom.

Tartaniscool · 19/04/2024 21:24

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 19/04/2024 21:18

She deliberately got pregnant

No. He got her pregnant and willingly took that risk. If her contraception had failed and she'd declined an abortion, he'd be in the same situation: an entirely predictable outcome that can be easily avoided by him wearing a condom.

It was accidental on his part but certainly not on hers. The best bit will be when he leaves her.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 19/04/2024 21:30

Tartaniscool · 19/04/2024 21:24

It was accidental on his part but certainly not on hers. The best bit will be when he leaves her.

An accident is something that you didn't mean to do at the time. A mistake is something that you do deliberately and later regret.

Him fucking her bareback wasn't an accident, it was a mistake. He meant to put his naked penis inside her, he intentionally disregarded the risks of STIs and fatherhood. As I said: blokes who bareback women should be filed under "play stupid games, win stupid prizes".

Tartaniscool · 19/04/2024 21:34

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 19/04/2024 21:30

An accident is something that you didn't mean to do at the time. A mistake is something that you do deliberately and later regret.

Him fucking her bareback wasn't an accident, it was a mistake. He meant to put his naked penis inside her, he intentionally disregarded the risks of STIs and fatherhood. As I said: blokes who bareback women should be filed under "play stupid games, win stupid prizes".

She really is a stupid prize to win. I meant the pregnancy was an accident on his part. You know what I meant.

Waitingfordoggo · 19/04/2024 21:37

Oh Tartan how many days now have you been banging on about the colleague that you really hate (on a thread about incels 😂)?

Start a thread about her. You really need to work through all your feelings about this woman. Is it that you fancy the bloke she has ‘trapped’ by allowing the semen he willingly deposited in her to fertilise her egg? Are you jealous of her?

I can’t really work it out but it does all sound rather an unhealthy obsession for you. I hope you’re able to move past this and get on with your life 💐

DeeCeeCherry · 19/04/2024 21:43

Imagine working with a man this obsessive and unprofessional. & she likely doesnt even realise the extent of it. Creepy.

Why do there have to be threads listing all the stuff Incels say anyway? Its like an agenda. I only skimmed it as IDGAF what they have to say. Its not edifying and women need to protect themselves from these types as far as possible. & certainly not dialogue with them, they'll thrive off it.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 19/04/2024 21:44

Tartaniscool · 19/04/2024 21:34

She really is a stupid prize to win. I meant the pregnancy was an accident on his part. You know what I meant.

When a man barebacks a woman, an resulting pregnancy is really not an accident on his part, any more than me planting lettuces that get eaten into holes because I didn't put down slug bait is an accidental loss of salad on my part.

Tartaniscool · 19/04/2024 21:46

Waitingfordoggo · 19/04/2024 21:37

Oh Tartan how many days now have you been banging on about the colleague that you really hate (on a thread about incels 😂)?

Start a thread about her. You really need to work through all your feelings about this woman. Is it that you fancy the bloke she has ‘trapped’ by allowing the semen he willingly deposited in her to fertilise her egg? Are you jealous of her?

I can’t really work it out but it does all sound rather an unhealthy obsession for you. I hope you’re able to move past this and get on with your life 💐

No to both questions. I would not be jealous of someone so cheap they make temu look expensive.

Tartaniscool · 19/04/2024 21:49

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 19/04/2024 21:44

When a man barebacks a woman, an resulting pregnancy is really not an accident on his part, any more than me planting lettuces that get eaten into holes because I didn't put down slug bait is an accidental loss of salad on my part.

An accident is something you did not mean to happen, fucking someone bareback and then them getting pregnant is certainly an accidental pregnancy (on his part). He did not mean for the pregnancy to happen and certainly did not want it by the looks of things.

Waitingfordoggo · 19/04/2024 21:51

Tartaniscool · 19/04/2024 21:46

No to both questions. I would not be jealous of someone so cheap they make temu look expensive.

You just need to try and keep busy and eventually you’ll be able to move past it. I know it’s painful right now, but you won’t always feel like this. 💐

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 19/04/2024 21:54

Tartaniscool · 19/04/2024 21:49

An accident is something you did not mean to happen, fucking someone bareback and then them getting pregnant is certainly an accidental pregnancy (on his part). He did not mean for the pregnancy to happen and certainly did not want it by the looks of things.

If I park on a double yellow line, I don't mean to get a parking ticket but it's not an accident if I get one.

This man is an idiot who put pleasuring his penis ahead of managing his fertility. He has got the outcome he deserves.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 19/04/2024 22:03

When a man barebacks a woman, his action of doing so gives her the ability to make his fertility decisions for him. When he chooses to bareback, he consents to this situation.

I can't be more clear.

NigelHarmansNewWife · 20/04/2024 09:04

If a man has unprotected sex with a woman, pregnancy is a possible consequence and one he could have mitigated against with 98% efficacy by wearing a condom.

Dryweather · 22/04/2024 01:48

Tartaniscool · 10/04/2024 16:28

I mean the incels would probably not like her. What with the status of the future single mother/condom pricking. I just wanted to add a point to their little list. And make a joke just as a certain other poster did. If she does not like my joke, then she should stop being so sensitive.

Single mothers/condom prickers wouldn't want the incels either.
In fact I think she'd want them even less than they'd want her, seeing as no one wants them, the clue is in the name Involuntary- Celibate.

Dryweather · 22/04/2024 01:54

Tartaniscool · 19/04/2024 21:49

An accident is something you did not mean to happen, fucking someone bareback and then them getting pregnant is certainly an accidental pregnancy (on his part). He did not mean for the pregnancy to happen and certainly did not want it by the looks of things.

So it was an accident on his part but an "accidental'😉 pregnancy" on her part?

How do you make that one out? What are you basing it on?😂

Tartaniscool · 22/04/2024 08:36

Dryweather · 22/04/2024 01:54

So it was an accident on his part but an "accidental'😉 pregnancy" on her part?

How do you make that one out? What are you basing it on?😂

How quickly she got pregnant in order to trap him and have an easier lifestyle and more cash. Also the fact he has a face like thunder everytime I see him.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 22/04/2024 08:43

Tartaniscool · 22/04/2024 08:36

How quickly she got pregnant in order to trap him and have an easier lifestyle and more cash. Also the fact he has a face like thunder everytime I see him.

He trapped himself.

When a man barebacks a woman, his action of doing so gives her the ability to make his fertility decisions for him. When he chooses to bareback, he consents to this situation.

I'm going to post that in response to every post you make that shills for and infantilises this scrote.

NonPlayerCharacter · 22/04/2024 09:06

Tartaniscool · 22/04/2024 08:36

How quickly she got pregnant in order to trap him and have an easier lifestyle and more cash. Also the fact he has a face like thunder everytime I see him.

Well stop looking in the mirror then.