I'm really pissed off.
It's not a special birthday, I'll be 44
This year I'm going away with girlfriends for a week abroad. I'm working a second job to pay for this. The week away is not to celebrate (or even near date wise) my birthday.
AIBU to say DH can't go away ? I've said it's only fair he has time away too, seeing as I'm going away.
But on my birthday ?
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DH has just told me he's going on a lads weekend and won't be here for my birthday
Yaddayadda89 · 25/03/2024 00:45
Orangetattoo · 25/03/2024 00:47
What a d h, I'd be pissed off too, sorry OP. He doesn't respect you.
HeddaGarbled · 25/03/2024 01:07
So what do you all think she should do on her birthday while he’s off on holiday with his mates?
HeddaGarbled · 25/03/2024 01:07
So what do you all think she should do on her birthday while he’s off on holiday with his mates?
HeddaGarbled · 25/03/2024 01:07
So what do you all think she should do on her birthday while he’s off on holiday with his mates?
Codlingmoths · 25/03/2024 01:09
Does he need to work a second job to pay for his lads weekend? If not, why not?
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HeddaGarbled · 25/03/2024 01:07
So what do you all think she should do on her birthday while he’s off on holiday with his mates?
Kedece2410 · 25/03/2024 01:16
Probably because it's a lot cheaper than a week away. Maybe he's been putting money away to cover it. Maybe it's irrelevant
Codlingmoths · 25/03/2024 01:09
Does he need to work a second job to pay for his lads weekend? If not, why not?
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Codlingmoths · 25/03/2024 03:15
Maybe it is. The op can confirm that. It’s pretty rude and thoughtless to book a weekend away on your wife’s birthday without at least a I’m really sorry honey what can I plan to make it up to you?
Kedece2410 · 25/03/2024 01:16
Probably because it's a lot cheaper than a week away. Maybe he's been putting money away to cover it. Maybe it's irrelevant
Codlingmoths · 25/03/2024 01:09
Does he need to work a second job to pay for his lads weekend? If not, why not?
Codlingmoths · 25/03/2024 03:15
Maybe it is. The op can confirm that. It’s pretty rude and thoughtless to book a weekend away on your wife’s birthday without at least a I’m really sorry honey what can I plan to make it up to you?
Kedece2410 · 25/03/2024 01:16
Probably because it's a lot cheaper than a week away. Maybe he's been putting money away to cover it. Maybe it's irrelevant
Codlingmoths · 25/03/2024 01:09
Does he need to work a second job to pay for his lads weekend? If not, why not?
Orangetattoo · 25/03/2024 00:47
What a d h, I'd be pissed off too, sorry OP. He doesn't respect you.
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