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How could he cheat(update)

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howcanhedothis18 · 19/07/2023 19:11

Hi guys! Hope your all well. Just wanted to let the people that have supported me let them know I’m still hanging on there. Went see solicitors today went ok and also had some face to face with knobhead.

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ButteredToast9 · 19/07/2023 19:17

Read both of your threads but didn't get chance to comment before they were deleted!!
So glad solicitors went ok and hope talking to knobhead wasnt too awful.
Stay strong - you're an amazing lady taking all of this in your stride.
Thinking of you and the kids ❤️

Darkandstormynite · 19/07/2023 19:20

Keep on, keeping on, you're doing so well.

What did KH say?

Trinity69 · 19/07/2023 19:27

Is there a link to the previous post? Need to catch up!

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howcanhedothis18 · 19/07/2023 19:36

So kh was at pil house so I decided to face him with them there. He was sitting at the dining table looking sorry for himself. Pil said we need this sorted as we all can’t go on like this which I agree. I just said whatever has happened has happened but you are somebody I don’t want to spend my life with anymore. I would like a divorce and I want it make it as easy as possible for the kids sake. I don’t want anything extra from you but just my rights. He agreed and asked me if we would ever be together. I said never I don’t hate you or don’t think I don’t forgive you as I really have as that’s the only way I’m going to move forward in my life. He said sorry and I said too
late for that. I told him he has half hour with kids while I wait in car and I will be taking them to the house where he is no longer welcome

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WhoWhatWhenWhereWhyHow · 19/07/2023 19:37

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howcanhedothis18 · 19/07/2023 19:38

Just wanted update the people that supported me. I won’t be on all the time just wanted to share what happened today as it was a big step for me. Thank you x

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Trinity69 · 19/07/2023 19:41

Ah, that’ll be why I can’t find it then.

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howcanhedothis18 · 19/07/2023 19:41

I had the threads deleted as I mentioned a lot of names and stuff on there and people said it could be wrong to do that. x

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howcanhedothis18 · 19/07/2023 19:42

@Trinity69 sorry got them deleted hun x

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howcanhedothis18 · 19/07/2023 19:43

Anyway how is everyone? Hope your all well x

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howcanhedothis18 · 19/07/2023 20:09

Just keeps my mind off things abit. Got kids in bed and I’m just really sitting here alone so just wanted to check in x

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Darkandstormynite · 19/07/2023 20:10

If the OP feels its helpful to post for support then that's her perogative. It's nobody's business how she choses to seek support.

OP you post as little or as much as you like. There's a whole community here happy to just listen and virtually hand hold when you need it. Don't be dictated to by others, you managed to kick that to the kerb at home, don't accept it anywhere else!

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howcanhedothis18 · 19/07/2023 20:12

@Darkandstormynite thank you. I know I’ve been full on but I’ve learnt my lesson. I won’t be naming and giving too much details. Just really wanted give everyone a update as I know a lot of you really cared and sent me lovely messages. I just didn’t want to delete the threads and leave it like that. Hope your well x

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NotSoBigCrocodile · 19/07/2023 20:14

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I don’t understand this comment.

The same could be said to anyone posting here.

I’ve often thought this about some who post on the Royal Family threads, but it’s not my place to say anything. I’m not the thread police and I don’t think you are either.

Lostinbrum · 19/07/2023 20:15

I followed you from the very first posts and am so glad to hear today went OK and you sat down with him to clear things up. There's nothing outing here so why the hell shouldn't you post. It was a big support to you while it was all kicking off and if you want continued support that's what it's there for. Hopefully it's sunk in to his thick head now that it's over

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howcanhedothis18 · 19/07/2023 20:16

I really sorry if I’ve offended people on here. This was not my intentions at all. Let’s forget my threads…..I’m just here to speak to people maybe make some friends as I kinda need some x

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howcanhedothis18 · 19/07/2023 20:18

It’s just horrible when u go through something like this you really see everyone true colors . I can honestly say without pil I literally have no friends that would be there for me. Yeah hi and bye type of friends but not like a best friend. Even at my age you need a best friend x

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Sazza26xx · 19/07/2023 20:19

howcanhedothis18 · 19/07/2023 20:16

I really sorry if I’ve offended people on here. This was not my intentions at all. Let’s forget my threads…..I’m just here to speak to people maybe make some friends as I kinda need some x

Post as much as you like sweetheart♥️ it's a hard thing to navigate aye x

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howcanhedothis18 · 19/07/2023 20:20

And for the lovely trolls that questioned my parent skills……my kids are tucked up in bed after a nice bedtime story, bathed and fed and are happy thank you x

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Bu2014 · 19/07/2023 20:20

❤

MillyMolly74 · 19/07/2023 20:45

Glad you are doing well OP 🌻Stay strong

Name99 · 19/07/2023 20:51

Who questioned your parenting skills?

adriftinadenofvipers · 19/07/2023 20:53

I think you did the right thing getting them deleted - too many names. Just invent names or something.

Glad you posted again. Just ignore the numpties. You will always get them! Take care x

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howcanhedothis18 · 19/07/2023 20:16

I really sorry if I’ve offended people on here. This was not my intentions at all. Let’s forget my threads…..I’m just here to speak to people maybe make some friends as I kinda need some x

Aww bless you I have been looking for your threads to check in I am happy to see you are back
Please be kind to yourself you have been through so much these last few days xx