Omg I had enough

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May Need to scan my other threads for this to make sense.

So there is a social worker involved due to my sons violence/aggression.

It has been said there are no worries about my other children although I did allow social worker to talk to the younger kids . And the school. They have no concern.

Now I just had the social worker email me about an hour ago . Asking me about my younger kids Jabs . Questioning me why I have not had them done and telling me i have a week to sort it. Now by law I don't have to have them done and as a parent I don't have to . But yet there they trying to force it .

To be honest I don't feel overly strong either way. I can't even remember why I did not. I had Been in temporary accommodation and then covid etc so possibly slipped my mind. So it's not the end of the world for me to sort it. What I don't like is the demands of doing it by next week. And the over the top interference of my children. When its Been agreed thus is about my 16 year old.

When we had TAC meeting a few days ago my younger children were not even mentioned. It's like they never existed.

I honestly have enough to cope with

Anyway if there are any social workers here or who l lws the system can you please explain this to me?

Just to add this is not a jab debate and I will ignore any attempts to turn it into one.

I did. It just kept saying not found . I have have lived in 6 different addresses over the past 7 ish years . Maybe that's why.

Why go to all that effort

and not just get the bloody jabs done
by the sounds of it - the time that you suggest she spends doing this… could be done on sorting how the carnage that is home atm

Well you have that 100% wrong only known sw 2 weeks.

I'm not going to comment on your choice on vaccination, but I do know that some SWs are absolute arseholes.

People assume because they're in that job that they can't be terrible human beings on a power trip. Big mistake. They can. And when they are, they smugly cause untold amounts of grief.

If you did want to get photo ID, this is the link to the Citizen Card process:

https://www.citizencard.com/apply-for-a-uk-id-card-online?gclid=CjwKCAjwh8mlBhB_EiwAsztdBFGpn_5LpiFc1QVfdoDgSnF1ELzbv-AJGzN_ZdL2xbA9H2-TiimNCRoCZU8QAvD_BwE

I think it might be helpful to try and make use of this social worker - ask her for help in registering with the GP, and to sign the Citizen Card application.

Your children have moved every year for the last 7 years?

why?

"Thank you for your email. As the social worker for my eldest child I would like to clarify where I gave consent for you to access the private medical records of my other children. As you neither work in health nor are you the parent, I will be raising this with the GP that there has been a GDPR breach. Thank you for your full name."

Have they ok thanks for letting me know ?

Thank you but . I did say I was ok for her contacting school . Gp was probably there as well and i did not really give it any thought. (Thinking) nothing will come back. Because my kids have never been ill enough tk see a hp. Nothing a bit of calpol don't fix. And because the jabs thing is meant to be parent choice .

Thank you so much . For pointing this out. People won't believe it though.

I’m assuming they are up to date with their dental appointments too? Things like vaccinations and dental care are markers for general care.

Why have your children endured 6 house moves in 7 years?

there is clearly so much more to this than simply vaccinations

If you read my posts you would know this is due to temporary accommodation.

but I do know that some SWs are absolute arseholes.

is this from direct experience &@GetInTheBinThenGetInTheSea

Temporary accommodation doesn’t explain 6 moves in 7 years

why temporary accom?

asked to leave?

You clearly either have no idea about temporary accommodation. Or Your purposely playing games with your posting/questions

Yeah, it is. Unfortunately.

Oh OP it does all sound a bit chaotic and like you aren't coping very well.

Get yourself and the children passports - if nothing else they are useful for photo id.

Get your kiddos registered at the doctors and get them vaccinated.

Am I right to have picked up that you also don't take them to the dentist? The recommended check up time is every six months from when their baby teeth come through so get them in to the dentist too - it's free on the NHS for children. Oral health is an overall indicator for general good health so it's important

If you have enough to cope with then just get them done.

You will have a lot more to cope with if your kids get ill or die.

You are very irresponsible.

You will also save a lot of time as you wouldn't have to waste time posting ridiculous threads on here.

7 years of 6 moves

Temporary accommodation because you have either moved for a man for been kicked out due to unsociable behaviour

Also they have probably given you a tight deadline because they know what you are like.

You do not legally need ID of the nhs number to register at GP.

I hope things improve for you soon. It’s disgusting they aren’t listening to you about your son.

https://www.nhs.uk/nhs-services/gps/how-to-register-with-a-gp-surgery/

Also they shouldn’t be doing an assessment on one child in isolation. They have to name and consider all children in the family in a child in need plan.

No you have picked up wrongly . I have not even mentioned dentist.

I'm not getting passports I don't go abroad. It would cost me alot of money to do this when it's very unlikely I'm leaving the country Any time soon.

If you read all my post you will see I have applied for GP. And with in that complication my children do have access to medical care/,gp. Just not under the address I'm at. So for example my daughter has an infection on her toe and needed antibiotics. I contacted the GP kept quite about the new address . And got her antibiotics.