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PTSD from Tinder Ghosting

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IzzyNeedsHelp · 20/08/2022 10:13

So I don’t know if anyone here has been following this so I apologise if there’s already been threads about it, but if not I wondered what people thought of all the online talk about supernatural forces causing trauma by using online dating to lure women into especially spirit receptive locations, then abuse them in supernatural ways. “ghost in the machine” I think is the phrase when a spirit uses technology in this way. Makes sense when you think about it, why wouldn’t bad spirits adapt to a technological world just like they adapted and haunted ships and aeroplanes etc? It’s logical when you think about my it.

I read several really traumatic accounts from women that had met a man they came to know as “Daniel” on tinder and went to a location to meet him (which was a house in Yorkshire) where once they arrived they were greeted by “Daniel” and he let them into the house, but then he disappeared and the door slammed shut and wouldn’t open. Then for the rest of the night they were haunted in the dark by voices of Demons calling themselves “Legion” and then at last once the women were really frightened the Demons took physical form and basically gang banged the women for hours until dawn. All the women said they kind of just woke up in morning and the door was open and they were in a derelict house.

Not surprisingly all of the women have PTSD about this as well as trauma from being mocked by people who don’t believe them (which I think is really nasty considering the assualt element)

I just wondered if anyone had had any experiences like this or knew anyone who had? And what they made of the whole thing? Also do you think Spirits are now being influence by online misogynistic dating culture and it’s radicalising them to do these kind of extreme hauntings?

I don’t know maybe I wouldn’t use tinder or other popular apps but would use a smaller app for now for safety. I don’t know

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DarkShade · 20/08/2022 14:01

@DanielTheGhostGangbanger bloody sick of all these men coming on Mumsnet to explain that they're not demon gangbanging ghosts tbh. Are you a mum Daniel?

Ponderingwindow · 20/08/2022 14:03

it is infinitely more likely that these stories are simply an online hoax.

that does not change the fact that women should never meet a stranger in a private place. Even meeting in public and relocating to a private location of her choosing during the first meeting is high risk.

ghostyslovesheets · 20/08/2022 14:05

DarkShade · 20/08/2022 14:01

@DanielTheGhostGangbanger bloody sick of all these men coming on Mumsnet to explain that they're not demon gangbanging ghosts tbh. Are you a mum Daniel?

Tsk - this is NOT just a site for mums ffs - men can join to - and ghosts, daemons, vampires, werewolves, warlocks, possessed dolls, hell beasts and zombies

as long as the zombies don't resurrect old threads and the ghosts don't show us their ghoulies

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Hopingforabagofbuttons · 20/08/2022 14:10

These comments have me dying 😂😂😂, we’re now finding out peoples dearly departed crushes.
Op can you get your stuff OTC or is it through friends . I’m up for trying some 😉

Blue4YOU · 20/08/2022 14:11

Is this the latest way of mocking women @IzzyNeedsHelp ?
Are you trying to say people wouldn’t say things that aren’t true or claim to be traumatised when they weren’t to have some responses that fit with the “women do lie you know” logic of sexual predators and rapists that HAUNT the internet?

SaskiaRembrandt · 20/08/2022 14:20

Would it be cheating if I as a married woman I joined Tinder and hooked up with Lord Byron?

Asking for a friend.

Droo · 20/08/2022 14:23

Have you been watching Red Rose op?

Zilla1 · 20/08/2022 14:36

HNRTT but without trivialising sexual assault, did the women seek the MAP to avoid a Rosemary's baby scenario? Are there other-worldly police authorities that can be contacted to seek redress and lock up the miscreants on their side to prevent other women being treated this way? I wonder if Tinder realise their possible liabilities though perhaps they asked the Vatican (other religions may have similar) to second someone to exorcise the inappropriate accounts? Roll on Web 3.0 old apps where angelic blockchain prevents such things happening in the way web 2.0 apps seem to allow.

GCBookseller · 20/08/2022 14:37

I don’t get why Spirits would want to have their way with women. I mean, once you’re ethereal, you’re not getting any happy ending, are you, so what’s the point? You may have once been a violent brute of a man, but in Spirit form, you should be in Hell suffering from Eternal Damnation or some similar form of consequences surely? Or am I being naïve about this? At the very least, you should be floating about in an old castle or somewhere trying to photo-bomb unsuspecting tourists, not trying to get rapey with a penis you no longer have 🤔

Bladed · 20/08/2022 14:38

I’m more scared of the people seemingly taking this seriously than I am of ghosts trying their luck on tinder.

Bladed · 20/08/2022 14:38

Not that I’ve encountered any ghosts on tinder.

Spohn · 20/08/2022 14:46

Is Ghost Gangbang in the room @IzzyNeedsHelp? Is ghost gangbang talking to you?

TooBigForMyBoots · 20/08/2022 14:52

I know for a fact that Daniel is actually Slenderman.😱

MyNameIsLegionForIAmMany · 20/08/2022 14:55

Afternoon ladies, a man here! Well, men. Pronouns they/them.

@DanielTheGhostGangbanger FFS, I told you to stick to Tinder!!! This lot on here are vipers, and they've got the Mumsnet Mafia. Now stop messing about and do what you were told to!

As you were ladies, carry on.

ParasiticMicrowasp · 20/08/2022 14:58

Oh, great. Another one 🙄 All we need now is Captain Howdy and we'll have a full house.

SaskiaRembrandt · 20/08/2022 15:00

I've been thinking about how ghosts, err, perform, and now I'm wondering if that's where ectoplasm comes from.

iklboo · 20/08/2022 15:03

@LadyOfTheCanyon - Gregory Pecker, surely?

Molly887 · 20/08/2022 15:06

There was a young man from the coast
Who had an affair with a ghost.
At the height of orgasm
The fair ectoplasm
Cried, “Ooh! I can feel it - almost."

TomAllenWife · 20/08/2022 15:08

Is MN on crack today????

This and the other bonkers online dating thread

SteveHarringtonsChestHair · 20/08/2022 15:12

IzzyNeedsHelp · 20/08/2022 10:36

@AngelicaElizaAndPeggy

Its alright I think most men are alright and If they’re not you kind of pick up that vibe from their house and how they are at the door

No, you don’t get a vibe about whether or not a man will rape you from standing at the door to his house FFS.

DownNative · 20/08/2022 15:17

😃

ladydimitrescu · 20/08/2022 15:19

Really rubs me up the wrong way when PTSD is used as a piss take.

No one is being gang banged by tinder demons you utter lunatic.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 20/08/2022 15:20

Why the hell are MN allowing this thread to continue???? Reported AGAIN.

SaskiaRembrandt · 20/08/2022 15:22

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 20/08/2022 15:20

Why the hell are MN allowing this thread to continue???? Reported AGAIN.

It's Saturday, they've only got a skeleton crew working.

ITriedToStopSwearingButICunt · 20/08/2022 15:56

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 20/08/2022 15:20

Why the hell are MN allowing this thread to continue???? Reported AGAIN.

Lighten up @RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie I haven’t enjoyed a thread this much in ages!

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